Why Is It?? That I Can Go Through The Whole Day Feeling Fine And Dandy But The Second I Lay Down For

“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”

— Mark Twain

Unconditional love isn't a free pass to hurt me.

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Design Coco Snow Skytown 10th Anniversary 1/7 scale Ver. (2026)

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It is crucial for deeper level recovery that we learn that feelings of fear, shame and guilt are sometimes signs that we have said or done the right thing. They are emotional flashbacks to how we were traumatized for trying to claim normal human privileges.

As our recovery progresses, we need to learn to endure these feelings. Reinterpreting the deeper meaning of these feelings is key to accomplishing this. Typically this involves epiphanies like the following. “I feel afraid now, but I am not in danger like I was as a child.” “I feel guilty not because I am guilty, but because I was intimidated into feeling guilty for expressing my opinions, my needs and my preferences.” “I feel shame because my parents rained disgust on me for being me. I say no to these toxic parental curses, and I am proud and right to see how they tried to murder my soul. I give them their shame back as disgust- the disgust any healthy adult feels when he sees a parent bullying a child with contempt, or when he sees a parent heartlessly ignoring a suffering child.”

-Pete Walker- Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map For Recovering From Childhood Trauma (2013)

♡ “Hatsune Miku Noodle Stopper Figure (Sakura Miku 2025)” by FuRyu ♡