I Redid My Shelves Recently C:

super sonico (tsuji santa, 2006)

I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything. It won’t make certain people suddenly, understand & respect you, it won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s better to say nothing & remove yourself from them.

How your partner reacts to your sadness & things that bother you should tell you all you need to know

honey senpai blingee comp rescued from blingees grave

mugs by sissi.ceramics (3)

実家から発掘した平成のストラップたち

forever in awe of people who pay attention. people who wait for you while you tie your shoes while the others have walked away. when they continue listening intently while the rest of the group stopped listening. noticing your moments of silence when everyone else hasn’t. “this made me think of you” noticing things you never even noticed about yourself. people who say “text me when you get home safe.” people who make you laugh until you cry. childhood friends who keep in touch. people with genuine intentions. people who are soft when the world has given them every opportunity to turn hard. the “let’s get ice cream” at 3am friend. the turn up the music in the car and sing friend. people whose actions match their words. people who make the world feel less chaotic. kindred spirits. the trustworthy and honest. hard workers. good listeners. clear communicators. people who love you for who you are. people who don’t ask you to be anything other than yourself. people who choose you. people who stay.