I'm amazed how often some perfectly sensible post that ends with words like "unless you've got some medical issue that prevents you from doing it, I recommend that everyone should give it a try!" has someone in the comments going "well what about me? I've got anxiety, depression, PTSD, agoraphobia, turboautism and maladaptive daydreaming and I literally cannot make myself go do that!"
Like. bitch you. you were mentioned. your situation was specifically clarified for in the previous sentence. If you have a mental health issue, you have a health issue. If your mental health problem prevents you from doing something, you have a health problem that prevents you from doing the thing. How did you learn to type before learning how to read.
The older generation's fixation on forcing you to have kids is something they absolutely refuse to unlearn. You can give the calmest and most reasonable explanation for not having kids and the only thing they can think to say is, "But what of the heir to the lands?" "Who will inherit the throne?" "Please sire upon your barren death there will be a parochial schism that will soak our soils with brother-blood." They literally hate to see you happy with just a cat.
Story time! a few years ago my grandma found out that my sibling is nonbinary. Sibling was nervous at first bc it was an accident, and even tho our grandma fully accepted me as a trans guy, she presumably had no idea what being nb or genderfluid meant. and to an extent the sib was right—she was totally unaware that those concepts existed when we agreed to meet for lunch that day
but. but. she brought a full on PACKET of printed research and a pen. and asked questions. she took honest to god notes.
so anyway. thank you Grammy for loving your grandkids unconditionally. the feeling is mutual 💕
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osteotzee - magical monster augury yahtzee hack
dead man's hand - weird west storytelling card game
bagel, lox, golem talks - write an ethnography of a magic jewish shtetl - pwyw
the graveyard game - write an ethnography of a magical haunted graveyard
the narrator paradox - narrate a story while trying to wrangle your protagonist into listening to you
with breath & sword - fight monsters to calm down from anxiety
song a scene - a playlist-driven writing game that fits on a bookmark - pwyw
not a tabloid - absurdist comedy interview game
mama werewolf - werewolf family drama run on nature mechanics
shadow / giant - a traumatized, magical child and the jaded adult who cares for them
familiar field trip - competitive game for witch's familiars causing havoc and mayhem in the village
interstate 10 1/2 - a one page weird roadtrip light horror game built on horseshoe
crescent grin - a one page eldritch noir mystery game built on horseshoe
the pyrite bullet - a one page spaghetti western drama game built on horseshoe
small towns, big secrets - 200 word competitive drama game
little shepherd, little spy - spy in the fairy war using your bookshelf
advanced darning & dragons - comedy game about old people gossip and high fantasy - pwyw
hashtag girlbots - absurdist robot survival game about the tumblr bot takeover - pwyw
lullaby nights - song driven writing game - pwyw
beach day! - sweet party bonding minigame
how high! - an industrial fantasy city setting
you are thinking about silver - an autofiction game about a werewolf family
when you love someone: three rituals - three rituals to honor love in all its forms - pwyw
she shall not be raised a fey - a 36 word game about revisiting your changeling child - pwyw
we are but plants - 1 word we are but worms hack - pwyw
homebrew masterpost
autism & adhd, trauma, & service monster mechanics - pwyw
wild magic artificer, psychopomp sorcerer & living instrument bard
witch class (con based half caster made with @hmooncreates), handler class (pokemon inspired mon collector), & paternal class (these are just dilfs)
studio ghibli inspired pack with feats, backgrounds, races, monsters, and subclasses
ttrpgs used in teaching composition to college students
the family tree
village witch
what little the flames leave us
personal narrative essay solo journaling games
not a tabloid
we are but worms
graves for funerals
the world is ending and we are very large dogs
vessel of the garbage god
literary analysis essay games
grandma club
LOGAN: an autobiographical tabletop game
“Get a rat and put it in a cage and give it two water bottles. One is just water, and one is water laced with either heroin or cocaine. If you do that, the rat will almost always prefer the drugged water and almost always kill itself very quickly, right, within a couple of weeks. So there you go. It’s our theory of addiction. Bruce comes along in the ‘70s and said, “Well, hang on a minute. We’re putting the rat in an empty cage. It’s got nothing to do. Let’s try this a little bit differently.” So Bruce built Rat Park, and Rat Park is like heaven for rats. Everything your rat about town could want, it’s got in Rat Park. It’s got lovely food. It’s got sex. It’s got loads of other rats to be friends with. It’s got loads of colored balls. Everything your rat could want. And they’ve got both the water bottles. They’ve got the drugged water and the normal water. But here’s the fascinating thing. In Rat Park, they don’t like the drugged water. They hardly use any of it. None of them ever overdose. None of them ever use in a way that looks like compulsion or addiction. There’s a really interesting human example I’ll tell you about in a minute, but what Bruce says is that shows that both the right-wing and left-wing theories of addiction are wrong. So the right-wing theory is it’s a moral failing, you’re a hedonist, you party too hard. The left-wing theory is it takes you over, your brain is hijacked. Bruce says it’s not your morality, it’s not your brain; it’s your cage. Addiction is largely an adaptation to your environment. […] We’ve created a society where significant numbers of our fellow citizens cannot bear to be present in their lives without being drugged, right? We’ve created a hyperconsumerist, hyperindividualist, isolated world that is, for a lot of people, much more like that first cage than it is like the bonded, connected cages that we need. The opposite of addiction is not sobriety. The opposite of addiction is connection. And our whole society, the engine of our society, is geared towards making us connect with things. If you are not a good consumer capitalist citizen, if you’re spending your time bonding with the people around you and not buying stuff—in fact, we are trained from a very young age to focus our hopes and our dreams and our ambitions on things we can buy and consume. And drug addiction is really a subset of that.”
— Johann Hari, Does Capitalism Drive Drug Addiction?
Well you see minors under 25 years old should not be allowed to get gender reassignment surgery because what if they go to the clinic but instead of giving them a normal penis the nurses mess up and give them the evil penis. That's irreversible
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