I want my children to grow up in healthy and nurturing family dynamics, where they feel pushed to fulfill their potential and work hard for their own self motivated achievements. I want my children to always feel safe and resilient. I want my children to be avid readers, lovers of arts and literature, academically gifted and hardworking, talented and embedded in highbrow activities like violin playing and horse riding. Above all I want them to be balanced and never feel either extreme of poverty or ostentatious wealth
i haven’t gave up on love i just stopped accepting things that don’t feed my souls and genuinely make me happy. i want someone to invest in my brain, my way of thinking and the things that make me, me. i want effort in spending time together, effort in physical touch, effort in checking on my well being, effort in communication, effort in openness, effort in vulnerability, effort in being soft for me.
Nobody:
Me: “GOTTTT SOMEBODY.... SHE’S a beauty”
Right now, I don’t think that I’m okay.
As It Is // Okay (via onlybandlyrics)
I am grateful to be where I am physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually. I see my own growth, most importantly. it’s necessary to look at the progress you’ve made.
What do you think love is?
I think of love as a special type of consideration you have for another; learning their schedule and daily routines, their likes and dislikes, mannerisms, hopes and dreams, fears, etc. The process of learning another person feels almost subconscious. Using that knowledge to care for them in the best way possible becomes second nature. I love when I can immediately tell whether my mother will like something or not; I adore being able to comfort my partner when they need it, because I know what feels good to them. Love, for me, has always been providing a considerable amount of space in my mind for my loved ones to occupy.