I Certainly Identify As A Stag, But It's Not My Place To Call Anyone A Sissy For Doing What They Need

Wifey says she wants this

Love split roasting my sexy hotwife

Jealousy is a natural human emotion that we obviously all feel occasionally. I was just wondering because your situation is more unique than most how you personally deal with jealousy in your relationship or how often jealousy comes into play with a relationship dynamic like yours.

I would be lying if I said I didn’t feel those pangs of jealousy, but what I do with those feelings is what helps me. I literally transfer them. I know that sounds odd, and I’m not sure how I do it, but I change them and force those feelings to manifest as other feelings… So instead of jealousy I end up feeling really turned on, determined and challenged with winning back my husband’s affections. Sometimes I get sad, sometimes it’s anger, and most often it turns me on. I know for a fact I am strange, and my brain definitely isn’t wired like others… I think it also helps that I have a deep respect and admiration for my husband and I know he feels the same about me. At the very root of it all, I feel loved and supported and connected to him in ways that could never be broken. I know he would never leave me or do anything to hurt me. We only do this because I want him to, not the other way around 😉 So I guess it’s a combination of it all. My desires mixed with my strange way of thinking and the rock solid foundation I have with my partner! If you’re struggling with issues of jealousy don’t be afraid to speak up. Talk to your partner! If left to fester jealousy can break up marriages and relationships. Being open and honest is a must if you want to navigate this lifestyle together. Good luck! ❤️

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My wife and I are deeply in love and committed to protecting our lives together and our family unit. We will grow old together and are resolved to work out any issues that pop up on this new journey.

She takes very good care of me in the bedroom. She almost never says no. She encourages me to use her, and enjoys it profoundly when I control her and show her she’s mine. She’s normally outspoken, jubilant and assertive (which I love) but she actually becomes a sub for me when I have the time to do her right (as I said, we have a family- so it's not every time). She is amazing, and I love making her cum. She is mine.

She also has an out of state lover she visits occasionally. He’s a fling, and it’s giving her some level of fulfillment and satisfaction she’s craving. She says it’s temporary, and in the big picture she remains mine.

She isn’t particularly hungry for new lovers, but knows she has permission to play when I’m not around. She has no real desire to have another male in the same room with me. When I’m around, she prefers me.

She’s happy to take a female playmate anytime, and to find one to bring to me to share.

She encourages me to take my own lovers on the side, if I feel the need. This has not happened yet, but I am now willing.

Processing all this emotionally has been a challenge, but we are working out the psychological kinks and getting stronger daily. We are a team.

Recently said by my wife:

Let’s choose a girl and try to pick her up. Destroy my pussy. I like when you own me.

-> Live real threesomes <-

What a crazy and powerful week. Here's the gist: We each gave each other explicit permission to fuck others, on condition that there's no falling in love or tearing this family apart. We are still very (VERY) into each other, so this is not at all a green light to go slutty with anything that breathes... more a promise that messing around won't shatter us. We acknowledge that we are both sexy, horny people, and we both are ready to begin a new chapter in our marriage. Together. My god, the conversations have been surreal (but wonderful). And I strapped her down to the bed to remind her that I'm her alpha. That was a fun night. Now my little bird is free to be herself, and I've never seen her so happy and sexy and beautiful.

31 Female here.. I absolutely adore your blog! Love it love it! Question: was it tough for you to get through any jealousy issues? If so, how did you get through them?

Yes! The first time we played I was insanely jealous and insecure and a mess. But I think that’s what drew me back in. Call it insanity but there’s a rush of adrenaline that comes with it too. I think for me, winning back my husband affections is what helped me through it. I knew I had some work to do. I had to own him, reclaim him, make him remember why he chose ME. That worked paired with openly talking to him about it. I know in our regular life, he would never do anything to hurt me or harm me. He would never cheat on me or lie to me. So with that rock solid foundation paired with open communication and all around great sex, we get through it together. It sounds crazy. You just need to find what works for you :)