full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.
call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.
a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.
a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.
if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.
so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.
So have y'all just missed every single post where an intersex person tells you not to refer to intersex animals as "biologically nonbinary" or do y'all just not care what intersex people have to say. Genuine question
clara dao getting a boob job was definitely a big eye opener for alot of flat chested womyn about boob jobs.
for context, she was a tiktok body positivity type influencer with a flat chest. she was a big inspiration to alot of flat chested girls, but after she gained popularity she got a boob job.
i love how people have been reacting to this tbh. how dare she use flat chested womyns insecurities to buy her boob job!
this is just reinforcing the belief that being flat chested as a womyn is in some way a flaw and needs fixing.
i need more radfem witchy teen friends but all of my witchy teen friends are solidly in the libfem category
Men: the reason weâre violent with women is because we need sex and are denied it
Also men: women are sleeping around too much, why is it so hard to find a virgin, this is why weâre violent with women
The only way to escape this parade is to just uninvolve yourself with men.
i just realised that âyouâre a bigotâ is just one of the new ways of calling women crazy for being aware of our global plight
and the way we use it to tone-police each other, itâs literally the same thing
20th century: oh you think female oppression is real and males are the oppressor? youâre a fucking insane crazy bitch go get a lobotomy and suck my dick
21st century: oh you think female oppression is real and males are the oppressor? youâre a fucking bigot white feminist terf bitch go kill yourself and suck my girlcock
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You simply cannot expect intersex people to constantly center perisex feelings and ignorance in their discussion. Yes, the H slur is an actual slur, even when used to describe intersex and cosexed animals. Yes, intersex people are oppressed. Yes, they're often medically abused, not "given treatment denied to trans people". No, they're not "biologically nonbinary" and yes, they can be any gender just like perisex people. Many "treatments" for intersex variants hinge upon not what is best for the person's body and needs but what will make them appear perisex. To imply any of this is false is intersexist and to try to center your own worldview and feelings in a conversation about someone else's lived experiences is selfish and equally bigoted. If you are not intersex, the discussion is not and cannot be expected to be about your opinions and worldviews.
Is it acceptable for males to call women bitches?
Absolutely not.
It's a gendered slur that's been used to demean women for centuries. No male should ever use the word bitch, even as a joke. Period.
Men control the courts as well.. Less than 1% of rape actually ends in a conviction. Pedophiles (those who physically harm a child and watch CSAM) are punished so lightly, itâs hardly considered a crime at all. And the amount of vitriol a woman faces when coming out with a claim of being raped, is a conscious act by men to keep women scared of talking.
Pornography is another help to men. Female pain has been eroticized, of course women naturally like to be brutalized- and the rough sex defence is created for them. The idea that women exist in a state of masochism is porn created, and serves to destroy the credibility of women who have been victimized.
The abuse faced in the court systems, by judges and lawyers to rape victims is a systematic attempt to demoralize women. The widespread notion of âfalse accusationsâ men have created that each woman makes, is their universally created defence.
The idea of one woman lying, destroys all womenâs credibility, but 100âs of men raping doesnât destroy a manâs. Even their ideology is inconsistent, when women speak of rape and sexual violence faced by men, âitâs not all menâ but when they slander women as liars, false accusers, promiscuous, whores, they donât once care about not generalizing.
This is how patriarchy is systematic, and all men are itâs foot soldiers. The regular men, who spread tales of women as manipulative liars plotting to ruin a manâs life, to the pornographer and male porn actor who sell the lie that the porn actress is enjoying her suffering, to the male court system that exists to protect menâs interests.