I Meant To Type ‘gun To Head Emoji’ Idk Why I Wrote This

Saw a post a bit ago that was like "Is it just me or is like every intersex blogger really angry all the time, who pissed in your cereal bro?"

Wow I fucking wonder why we're pissed off. Really. No idea. I wonder if it has to do with having to deal with

Being systematically mutilated legally

If you weren't mutilated, almost nobody has a body like yours

You can't research how your sex organs & hormones function without seeing baby surgery gore and reports of how everybody like you was "fixed"

Having the US president declare us nonexistent

Being told we're freaks all our life and we need fixing

Have a long history of being killed at birth

Slurs for you literally fucking everywhere including in a scientific context and if you point it out people call you dramatic

More slurs for you if you ever dare to try to look at adult material

Any and all fiction that is listed as intersex is all stereotypes and obvious fetish material for perisex people - There is almost no representation.

Whenever you hear about people like you they're referred to as having a sex disorder, never being intersex

People who support the entire framework of your excising and mutilation go in your comments to concern troll about how they don't actually support that

Having almost no research done into our oppression — so there is a lack of statistics about systemic intersex assault/rape/murder — people use this to tell you it isn't happening (despite nearly every intersex person you've met has reported being victimized in some way)

Strangers online think they are entitled to your full medical history

A significant number of people online think you are a porn trope and are shocked to find out tou exist in real life

Your gender identity is erased and ignored because it doesn't make sense to perisex people

You are reduced to a discourse topic

Being considered "rare" (because we are actively being suppressed with violence) — people use that "rarity" to say you don't matter

People thinking its acceptable to sexually harass you and ask you about your genitals just because they find out you're intersex

Getting told that you're exaggerating when you say your group has been the victim of a successful extermination campaign — & that is why we are so invisible

Everyone ignores all of this ^ and tells you that someone else has it worse than you so you should shut up if you ever decide to speak up.

Wow. I wonder.

So have y'all just missed every single post where an intersex person tells you not to refer to intersex animals as "biologically nonbinary" or do y'all just not care what intersex people have to say. Genuine question

I was having an argument with a TIM regarding radical feminism and he kept strawmanning what radical feminism even is by saying "terfs are upholding gender as a social construct and are against gender abolition", whenever I tell him that's not true he keeps calling me ableist insults. He also believes that actual lesbians attracted to actual women are "pussysexual"

Everytime I feel like maybe there's some good individuals among these people I keep getting proven wrong, males are truly the worst and I hope the male loneliness epidemic turns into a pandemic

Anyway sorry for the rant I just felt like doing it

stop waiting for not upholding the pedophillic and unrealistic beauty standards to be "normalized".

the men you attract while looking like a child arent the men you should want to date.

there are countries that ban girls from getting an education so i really don't give a fuck if some boys have a hard time at school because they don't want to behave and do their work

your identity is based solely on gender stereotypes.

"He's wearing girl's-"

If a woman points out a boy is wearing a skirt by calling it girl's clothing, ask them if they realize they are wearing men's clothing and stare at their pants.

Seriously. How is this still a topic. They're just clothes!

any gender assigned is arbitrary and you're just mad that you're not as pretty as them.

then its even sadder that youre using the intersex community as a scapegoat to change the definition of what a womyn is. not everyone who doesnt subscribe to transgenderism is a terf, you have to be a radical feminist. most of the people tras group in with us arent

Can you elaborate why terfs are rapists and misogynists <3

Terfs are not inherently rapists, but by sacrificing trans women to use the men's bathroom for the very little comfort that transphobes will get by knowing they forced women out of a literal bathroom. This, especially to post-op trans women, puts them at an extremely high risk of assault, rape, or murder. Encouraging the rape of trans women isn't much better than rape itself, but I would not (and didn't) call them rapists.

And terfs are misogynistic, as when they try to get the definition of 'Woman' to be based on sex, that's misogynistic, reducing women to only their genitals. This is discrimination of intersex people as well. Terfs, as well as most transphobes, have proven themselves to be misogynistic without doing what was said on the previous statement, by 'transvestigating' women in the olympics for being too 'masculine' (usually because of muscles). The fact that they do this shows they have an idea of what women should and shouldn't look like, thus misogyny.

you can be a boy and wear 'girl' clothes. it doesn't make you a girl. being stereotypically feminine doesn't make you a girl, being female does.

"He's wearing girl's-"

If a woman points out a boy is wearing a skirt by calling it girl's clothing, ask them if they realize they are wearing men's clothing and stare at their pants.

Seriously. How is this still a topic. They're just clothes!

any gender assigned is arbitrary and you're just mad that you're not as pretty as them.

womyn will always get the benefit of the doubt from me tbh

we women need to start defending each other the way men defend rapists