Be done with it.
The reason you're stuck where you are is you're still thinking from the mental state of "I don't have it yet" or "I'm trying to have it" instead of letting yourself think from it. I do mean letting yourself.
Pushing yourself and making yourself do more and more to "ensure" it works is often because you are still thinking about it as if it can't happen.
If you're struggling to manifest and trying to "lock in" your mindset right now may revolve around harsh correction and trying to force yourself into doing the right things.
The thing is, often in this state we end up reaffirming two things:
That we do not have it
You need to do something in order to have it.
Maybe you "locking in" sounds something like this internally: "I would have it if I-" "I just need to-" "if only I could-" "when I finally-"
What are these all implying? That you do not have it and that what you are doing is not enough to have it.
So what should you be thinking? You should be thinking as if you already manifested it. There is NO reason to be thinking from the "trying mindset" if you are attempting to live in the end. It's living in the end not living in the "im almost there, once I do this I will be"
It's not that methods are bad, I advocate for them. As someone who struggles with vague instructions, I find then to be extremely helpful. The problem is manifesting that your method never works or that you need to do something different in order for it to work. Thinking that it isn't working is manifesting it not working.
You have to let your method be enough. You have to accept that accepting it is enough. It is that easy.
AFFIRMING: thinking in your favor
PERSISTING: continue to think in your favor no matter what you feel, think, or see in physically world
Having multiple s/os in different realities is NOT CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
people will say not to put shifting on a pedestal and then five posts later talk about how how being a shifter makes you uniquely special compared to everyone else. can we make up our minds
I think the tough love doesn't work with most shifters. I think it should be more normalised to be gentle with yourself and allow yourself "failures" without guilt or self-judgment. I think most of the shifters start to blossom when they start showing more kindness to themselves.
alice was in the wonderland the moment she decided to run after that rabbit. falling down the rabbit hole, venturing down the passages, opening the small door - those were only results of her decision.
she was already there from the moment she chose to follow the rabbit.
a decision was made and the rest was inevitable.
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quick tip for anyone with racing thoughts
instead of relaxing with your eyes closed, focus on a single point in front of you with your eyes open. don't strain, just gently watch one one single point as if you were observing something. i personally focus on some rainbow string lights i have hanging up with my glasses off/contacts out, the blurry circles are pretty and keep my attention.
you're only job is to keep the eyes observing that focused point- as if someone froze your eyeballs, as if you were transfixed. that being said, do so gently. it's not a firm grasp, its a calm observation- like watching birds
when you do this, it signals to your nervous system that you are no longer scanning the area for threats, and that it is safe. this should naturally reduce noise.
this also helps with becoming aware of the present moment, which is also the state you shift from (if you're shifting awake). there is no "future you" who shifts, just you in the here and now. the you that shifts is in the here and now. you're existence is in the here and now.
remember- even though your awareness is the only part that shifts, you can still find ways to use this body as a tool rather than a hindrance. try to find ways to make it work for you.
how it feels trying to convince people that shifting is EASY and that everyone tends to overcomplicate the shit outta it
Chill tf out. You'll shift. You'll manifest your desires. You'll get everything you want. Just chill. No need to stress about things that are inevitable.
Now read it again.
(and people actually falling for it??)