Consent Is Fucking Hot

consent is fucking hot

The NC part of CNC is almost always what's focused on in every CNC concept, literature, video etc. And yeah, it's cool and all. But the consent in CNC? It's the main event. The foundation. It's everything.

non-consent is often emphasised cause it's the alluring part, the risky part, it feels like it's the thing that makes CNC what it is. But it pales in comparison to the consent aspect.

Like, here you've got a sub who is so devoted to you, so longing and needy that they want to give you full, raw control. They trust you to look after them with their whole being; they want to give you everything. They feel so safe around you that they're willing to fully submit to the idea of giving you what you want when you want it. There's just something so great about the fact that a sub is consenting to—asking; begging to—be completely beneath you, to being nothing, defiled, cause they want you. They love you. They know that you will keep them safe above all else.

And don't forget the aftercare!! The soothing cuddles and warm baths. The "you did so well, baby, I'm so proud of you," The reassuring that your sub is important and safe, making sure they're okay, ugh. It's just all so wholesome.

Don't agree with me? then get out of here. Consent is important and the hottest thing; it trumps every kink, soft or hard.