When He Calls You Clingy, So You Distance Yourself

Hyunjin x Versace for W Korea (June 2024)

😕I don’t know how much I’ll be able to help with the panic attacks, sorry, but getting a chair would definitely help. And if you want, or if you can, there are medications for panic attacks that help quite a bit, I have really bad anxiety so I have some🙂, and I’m pretty sure you can go to the doctor and they’ll either prescribe something or send you to someone who can! There are also fidget toys that I have to help lessen my anxiety if you think something like that might help? I hope this helps, even just a little☺️

Hey! I actually used to get SUPER dizzy all the time, both in the and out of the shower. I’ve had to see a lot of doctors over the years and finally figured out I have something called POTS. I’m not sure you have it but, of course, drink lots of water, especially before a shower, eat protein, and make sure you add salt to your diet(if you can). You also might want to get a stool or something for your shower. I hope this helps!☺️

i have anxiety when it comes to showering/anything where i have to close my eyes so i'm thinking i might actually just like....be having a panic attack each time? but my mom said i should get a chair especially since my legs don't work as much as they used to :(

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

AIB Executives as Incorrect Quotes!!

Hatter: Everytime I hear someone talking about updog, I’m torn between not wanting to fall for it and wanting to help them complete their joke. Aguni: Okay, but what is updog? Ann: Updog is a long sausage in a bun, often served with ketchup, mustard, onions, and/or relish. Chishiya: Not, that’s a hot dog. An updog is when a new version or patch of an application is released. Kuzuryu: No, that's an update. You’re thinking of the fourth largest city in Sweden. Mira: Surely, that’s Uppsala, where’s updog is the giant spider in Harry Potter. Hatter: That’s Aragog. Updog is a symbol conventionally used for an arbitrarily small number in analysis proofs. Chishiya: You’re thinking of epsilon. Updog is an upward-moving air current. Ann: No, that’s an updraft. An updog is the modern version of a henway. Aguni: What’s a henway?? Hatter: Oh, about five pounds. ----------------------------------------------------

Hatter: We need to distract these guys Chishiya: Leave it to me. Chishiya: Centaurs have six limbs and are therefore insects. Discuss. Ann, Aguni, and Kuzuryu: *Immediately begin arguing* Mira, watching in horror: Oh this. I don’t like this. I don't like this at all. ----------------------------------------------------

*Everyone is standing around the broken coffee maker* Hatter: So. Who broke it? I'm not mad, I just wanna know. Everyone: Aguni: ...I did. I broke it. Hatter: No. No you didn't. Ann? Ann: Don't look at me. Look at Chishiya. Chishiya: What?! I didn't break it. Ann: Huh, that's weird. How'd you even know it was broken? Chishiya: Because it's sitting right in front of us and it's broken. Ann: Suspicious. Chishiya: No, it's not! Kuzuryu: If it matters, probably not, but Mira was the last one to use it. Mira: Liar! I don't even drink that crap! Kuzuryu: Oh really? Then what were you doing by the coffee cart earlier? Mira: I use the wooden stirrers to push back my cuticles. Everyone knows that, Kuzuryu! Aguni: Okay let's not fight. I broke it. Let me pay for it, Hatter. Hatter: No! Who broke it!? Everyone: Kuzuryu: Hatter... Ann's been awfully quiet. Ann: rEALLY?! *Everyone starts arguing* Hatter, being interviewed: I broke it. I burned my hand so I punched it. Hatter: I predict 10 minutes from now they'll be at each other's throats with warpaint on their faces and a pig head on a stick. Hatter: Hatter: Good. It was getting a little chummy around here. ----------------------------------------------------

Hatter: Aguni... How do I begin to explain Aguni? Ann: Aguni is flawless. Chishiya: I hear his hair's insured for $10,000. Kuzuryu: I hear he does car commercials... in Japan. Mira: One time he punched me in the face... it was awesome. ----------------------------------------------------

Hatter: Time for plan G. Aguni: Don’t you mean plan B? Hatter: No, we tried plan B a long time ago. I had to skip over plan C due to technical difficulties. Ann: What about plan D? Hatter: Plan D was that desperate disguise attempt half an hour ago. Chishiya: What about plan E? Hatter: I’m hoping not to use it. Kuzuryu dies in plan E. Mira: I like plan E. ----------------------------------------------------

Hatter, walking into his house: Hello, people who do not live here. Aguni: Hey. Ann: Hi. Chishiya: Hello. Kuzuryu: Hey! Hatter: I gave you the key to my place for emergencies only! Mira: We were out of Doritos. ----------------------------------------------------

*Squad reactions to being told ‘I love you’* Hatter: Thanks fam! Aguni: oh no Ann: *cries* I love you too Chishiya: Sounds fake but okay Kuzuryu: *A flustered mess* Mira: can i get a refund. ----------------------------------------------------

'Can I copy the homework?' Hatter: I can help you with it! Aguni: Yeah, sure. Ann: Bold of you to assume I did the homework. Chishiya: lol nope. Kuzuryu: Wait, we had homework?!?!?! Mira: *Read 5:55pm* ----------------------------------------------------

Hatter: Croissants: dropped Aguni: Road: works ahead Ann: BBQ sauce: on my titties Chishiya: Shavacado: fre Kuzuryu: Miss Keisha: fuckin dead Mira: Mira, grumpy: I didn’t understand a single word of that and I hate every single one of you.

✨MASTERLIST✨

Here is my masterlist! As of right now there isn't much, but hopefully with time it'll become more complete.

STRAY KIDS

BANG CHAN:

nothing yet

MINHO:

love and war ; social media au (ongoing)

y/n has her life and future all planned out living a comfortable and predictable life. but all of that changes when lee minho comes into her life like a hurricane and shows her what she’s been missing all along

1 - 2 - 3 - 4 -

CHANGBIN:

nothing yet

HYUNJIN:

nothing yet

JISUNG:

nothing yet

FELIX:

the mixapes ; social media au

y/n is a coward that is in love with her bestfriend. what other way to express yourself than posting mixtapes about your love on twitter?

1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9 - 10 - 11 - 12 - 13 - 14 - 15 - 16 - 17 - 18 - 19 - 20 - 21 (epilogue)

SEUNGMIN:

nothing yet

JEONGIN:

nothing yet

BTS (BANGTAN BOYS)

NAMJOON:

nothing yet

SEOKJIN:

nothing yet

YOONGI:

nothing yet

HOSEOK:

nothing yet

JIMIN:

nothing yet

TAEHYUNG:

nothing yet

JUNGKOOK:

nothing yet

hi

Daryl: *wakes at 5am*

Y/N: *likes to sleep in*

——

Rick: WALKER—-

Daryl: Nah that’s Y/N

Rick: Holy fucking shit. Why do they look like that

Y/N: Hey don’t be a bitch. It’s almsot 6AM or whatever early…early time it is right now…

Rick: Go back to bed I’ll get somebody else

Y/N: BITCH IM HERE YOU ASKED FOR ME IM HERE!

Rick: JESUS!

Daryl: Yeah don’t fight them tired self. Yea ain’t gonna win

This is so cute thoooo

sneaky.

sneaking a kiss on their cheek ft. chishiya, niragi, arisu

chishiya shuntaro

you were both hanging out in the beach, in his room. he was showing you some of his latest inventions / weapons. the military part of the beach possesses all weapons so he makes his own. you were seated on the edge of his bed, beside him. he was explaining how to use the weapon in his hand, it looked like a blade connected to wires? you didnt pay too much attention. you were looking at him from the side, admiring him. he didnt seem to mind it and never asked you to stop. when your lips touched his cheek, you could feel him freeze for a split second. the flow of his words stopped as he gained his composure again, continuing to explain the invention. you can never gain a huge reaction from this man. instead, what he said next made you blush

" next time you do that, ask for my permission first. "

he likes it too ???

niragi suguru

hes shit. he really is. but to you he isnt, its like the usual aggressive and fierce niragi you see in executive meetings just disappeared into thin air. it happened after a meeting, he dragged you into his room, making you sit on the bed. he seemed furious. he sat beside you, apologizing for suddenly dragging you. you gave him a soft smile and " its fine " as a response. sitting in front of you, he started ranting, started telling you all about the source of his anger. you listened intently. in the middle of his statement you place a gentle kiss on his cheek.

" calm down.. "

" i would've blown that fuckers head off already if it weren't for you "

arisu ryohei

you were really close even before the borderlands. a few weeks after arriving at the beach, you two had to replenish your visas. in the game, strategy was important and arisu was of course, smart enough to make up a strategy the moment he heard the rules. while explaining the idea to the other players, you were looking at him from his side. the players had dispersed to put the strategy into action. while you, looked at arisu. placing your lips on his cheek, giving him a quick kiss.

" this is why i love you arisu "

he was shocked for a bit but he smiles at you, returning the favor, kissing your cheek softly.

" i know, now lets win this. "

SHIBUI // 渋い・日本

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