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Establish rules early and update them often. Touch each other when allowed. Most of all, enjoy it.
It looks one way: Like she's a bitch who locked his cock and is making him do a lot of shit he doesn't want to do.
But that's not what it is. He loves her, she loves him, and they love playing this game, because the cage focuses his desire on her, and the cage gives her a measure of power and control and joy.
They work well together, in serving each other.
And he doesn't want to be told what to do all the time, like some child. He wants to do what she DESIRES him to do, because it gives her pleasure.
I just want to take a boy who is embarrassed about being a sub and help him embrace it. Show him what a turn on it is. I want to make him blush and squirm as I explore his body. I want to help him forget about what society will think of him. Prove to him that there’s no shame in being dominated by a strong woman. I want to help him see that when he trusts me, gives himself to me and surrenders control….he is brave and strong. It’s the most beautiful thing he can do.
For women considering locking their man in chastity, how would you describe the change you see in him? Is he more calm, desperate? Eager to please? How long is the best time to keep him locked to keep him in the right frame of mind to serve you?
Its a huge change, once you've got the trial and error period sorted out and found a device that he can wear for you long term which is a bit of a challenge but well worth the effort. Its a game changer for her. No exaggeration here the change is real.
Once hes got through the first few days of wear and the mile stone here is getting him to wear it to bed and be able to sleep reasonably well in it you've cracked it and its time to reap the rewards of your time and effort getting him fitted. (Check out denying thumpers blog for excellent advice on fitting, size, types ect)
He will become very attentive and focused on you, you will find his attitude and manners vastly improved and all his energy and time will become almost zoned in on you, its quite remarkable and hard to belive at first but you just wait 😉.
Whats happening here is his sexual energy is being pent up as he can't realise it through masterbation anymore and as it builds without realise it drives him to centre on you his only source of sexual realise. This drives him to please you anyway he can. Be prepared for gifts, pampering, housework you didn't realise he could even accomplish on his own lol and a noticeable increase in interest in you personally and your femininity.
Theres a sweet spot around two weeks where he is like putty in your hands as he is now practically worshiping you as his goddess. The reason being is his sexual energy is peeking and this energy drives him on to new levels of service to your pleasure.
Now the best part about all this, if it couldn't get any better, is his sexual service to you, he is going to want sex very badly by this point as he can't have intercorse he is going to be begging to provide oral service for you and trust me you haven't been licked this good by anyone. Its fantastic! just lying back having a more than willing man go to town with his toung, he is desperate to please and you just lye there or stand and enjoy knowing you don't have to reciprocate. There's nothing like it and your sure to orgasm long and hard. I sure do 😆.
Take the plunge and get him locked, once you do you'll never go back. I honestly don't understand how this little devices isnt on the front covers of every womans magazine in the land. You can thank me in two weeks 😁.
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It's not about me.
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