Beneathyoualways - A Work In Progress...(i'm A)

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The worst part for me is the heel clacking. Slow and deliberate. When i hear the heels, i know i am in for it.

When the leather comes out...

My beautiful and wicked Italian leather belt. Helps keep my husband in line. Even when he just sees it around my waist.

We have a crate but it is not easy for me to be in it with the kids about so it is not out often...when it is though it will be interesting.

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While my Wife would most always choose to have a nice dinner with me, rules are rules and when they are broken, well, more wine for Her.

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Rules, establish them early and update them as She sees fit.

The Benefits of a FLR

There is a level of relationship that is simply above and beyond what conventional relationships offer or experience. Human beings have the ability to connect with each other on levels deeper than the vast majority of humans have ever experienced.

Conventional relationships tend to scratch the surface layer of this connection. They offer you a partner that is compatible with you in the sense of chemistry or hobbies. You have things in common and your personalities tend to match each other. These are the qualities people look for in a partner. If there’s chemistry and attraction, that’s often as far as the conventional relationship needs to go in order to get the job done.

Chemistry and attraction is enough to scare loneliness away and keep you occupied planning a life with this partner. This is often enough for many people, they have kids and live happily ever after or until mid life crisis… Whichever comes first. Despite it being an acceptable relationship it’s often a relationship that simply doesn’t go deep enough for many people. There’s an understanding that while it’s deep enough to love, and not be lonely and build a life, it’s not deep enough to show your partner who you really are.

Yet the conventional relationship is so valuable, that you cherish your partner, you also want to take them into a deeper connection. This is where a female led relationship begins. It cannot begin at any earlier stage, not if it’s to be a long term lifestyle type of relationship. Female led relationships demand commitment.

That’s the first benefit. A relationship that demands commitment is already stronger than the conventional relationship and signing a legal document at marriage. Female led relationships demand commitment long before marriage. This kind of commitment is deeper than marriage ever could be, because it’s experienced it’s developed in pure trust and surrender. Which leads to to benefit number 2.

A female led relationship has a built in trust. There is never any concern about what the other partner may be doing if they’re late from work or who they might be looking at. There’s never any jealousy, or miscommunication. The trust runs deep enough that it is beyond worry. It creates benefit number 3. Loyalty.

As dominant and submissive, there’s a level of loyalty that brings both partners together on an emotional level so profound it’s palpably felt. They both just feel safe with each other, and that allows for both partners to fully be themselves without judgement. Which is benefit number 4. Open communication.

Open communication means that all emotions are talked about, all vices, all stress, every little thing that could cause trouble is recognized and understood. It creates a support system for each other where any and all arguments can be swiftly dealt with, without anger, but with love. Open communication eliminates the conventional power struggle and gives the fifth benefit of a FLR. A new way to argue that doesn’t jeopardize the relationship.

Because of this harmony sexuality plays a major role. It brings both partners sexuality into the relationship. As dominant and submissive, every aspect of the relationship can be sexualized if the need arises. Which means both partners can always be in a state of sexual charge. The sixth benefit of a FLR. Sexual charge.

Sexual charge is something few human beings ever experience. Sexual charge is not the same as being horny. Being sexually charged is a state of being where your body is filled up with sexual energy beyond your sexual organs. When this occurs it feels like you are filled with vitality. Everything in life just has more zest more vibrancy more excitement. Just being alive is miraculous when you are sexually charged. Which has many other effects on your personality and how you deal with stress and daily life.

It also gives you the ability to meet your partner at the deepest of sexual depths and power exchange far beyond what a conventional relationship can offer.

These are just a few of the real benefits that a female led relationship can offer. To find out more benefits of a FLR and how to take steps to living this lifestyle check out my book series Practical FLR.

Thank you

J.M Scott