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Shortly after I decided to convert our relationship into a wife led marriage, we attended a friends birthday party. My husband Luv ended up really drunk by the end of the night. He is usually a quiet and reserved type of person with an introverted personality but the booze, as is common, brought him out of his shell and he was quite talkative.
As I was driving home, he stated that I shouldn’t let him drink so much. He said he was sorry, hoped he didn’t embarrass me too much and understood if I felt the need to punish him.
My first thought was that he should be able to control himself but then I realized he has always been able to control how much he drinks and that this is one of the very few times he has gotten so drunk. I asked him if he needed me to control him in this way and he just slurred that I should control everything.
I quickly realized that this was a slight attempt to top from the bottom, and had more to do with our new female led relationship than his lack of control drinking. He was letting one of his submissive fantasies slip while being so drunk, something he would never let happen while sober. The alcohol had loosened up his tongue and I decided I could learn a lot about his fantasies when he was so intoxicated.
I told him that I would consider taking control of his alcohol intake and asked him if I did, would he accept any rules I made. He promised to be obedient. Now I knew for sure this was a submissive fantasy.
The next day he was hung over pretty badly. Even though he handled himself very well for being so drunk at the party, and I wasn’t mad at him in the slightest, I decided to pretend I was and give him a scolding about it anyway.
I asked Luv if he remembered what happened last night. He admitted that some of the latter part of the evening was a blur for him and he didn’t remember coming home at all which also meant he didn’t remember our conversation either.
I firmly explained to him that last nights behavior showed that I needed to take control of his alcohol intake, as his drinking was becoming out of control. He meekly stated he would accept my new rules about drinking.
I told him that from now on, he would never drink alcohol without my permission or he would be punished. This didn’t surprise him but the next part of the rule sure did, which stated that I would also be able to force him to consume it. He wasn’t expecting that and asked what it meant. All I told him was that he would find out in the future and he said it sounded interesting. He knows how devious my mind can be.
I held out for about a month and then one weekend when nothing was happening, I executed my plan. It was the first time he drank any alcohol since the party(we don’t drink often). Because we brought our own booze to the party, I knew exactly how much he drank that night and the amount of time it took him to consume it. I could use this information to recreate the conditions to get him to the same level of intoxication now.
I planned an evening in, watching movies and cuddling on the couch. By this time in our female led relationship, I was restraining him quite often so he thought nothing of it when I locked his fist-mitts on him and clipped them together behind his back making him relatively helpless.
I mixed up enough drinks to match the amount he drank at the party and put the booze in baby bottles. I usually use them to feed him liquids when restrained or caged for the ease of use, being spill proof, and also the humiliation aspect of making him drink from them (so cute watching him suck).
After putting the movie on TV, I slowly, over time, force fed him the booze in the baby bottles while cuddling him to my body very intimately, kissing him, making him suckle my breasts, and going down on me. We had a fun sexy time while I got him drunk. I only sipped one glass of wine myself for safety and as I would need my cognitive functions to interrogate him.
Once Luv was drunk enough to loosen his tongue, I kept cuddling and kissing him while asking him questions about his hidden kinks and desires, telling him that he could tell me anything and I wouldn’t judge him badly for his fantasies. Once he revealed something, I told him how sexy the idea was (no matter what I actually thought about it) to reassure him and kissed him deeply to encourage him to tell me more.
Because I made sure he was locked in chastity for a full week prior, he was quite horny when we started and the sexy cuddling teased him even more. The combination of sexual frustration combined with the alcohol worked great and I learned quite a lot that night. Again, he was too drunk to remember anything, other than we has a fun sexy night.
He has no idea that I was data mining him for ideas when he was drunk. He thinks that I’m amazing, coming up with everything on my own and can’t believe how well our kinks align.
People online have asked me where I get my ideas from for the various ways that I control him and surprisingly enough, a lot of them are directly from him.
In this way, he has taught me how to control him without even knowing about it, or being able to top from the bottom in any significant way. It also helps me tune my control style to match a lot of his fantasies to ensure he gets plenty of pleasure from our wife led marriage, as I want him happy while under my control.
Remember, I originally took control of the relationship to please him, and as a way of giving back to him for all the years that I neglected him sexually while stuck in mother mode. Then later, to my surprise, I fell in love with the lifestyle myself.
Babes in Boots
Cum is so yummy!! 😋🫦💞
Probably why I enjoy it as much as I do
A very yummy cummy third round of today’s challenge with @louise-swell 💦😝
Always mix business with pleasure. It is sure to improve both.
I have news for you. You’ve been lied to. Femdom is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there try to make it out to be.
Female Domination, at least to me, is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their power in personal relationships and in society.
It is about women taking charge of their men in and out of the bedroom to get what they want and to train men to submit to female guidance at large. It is about teaching and leading a man to be a better person. It is about focusing his mind on giving rather than receiving. And it is about making him into a stronger man. There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Alpha Male completely submitting to a DOMINANT WOMAN.
It is NOT about humiliating and belittling men, treating them as worthless and acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off womens’ feet. This is just online idiocy. Perhaps you are simply a beta-type guy, but if you think this means wearing diapers or emasculating yourself every second of the day or begging a woman to treat you like shit, you need to wake up and get some help. Sure, everyone has their odd fetishes, but in real life, any woman who wants to be with a man just to treat him like scum is simply angry, pathetic, mental and low-rent. It is in no way a healthy form of kinky masochism. It is just sad. And always a fleeting waste of time and life. A submissive male should seek out a Dominant Female in order to make himself better, not worse.
Femdom is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because she wants to be in control. She believes she was born to be in charge and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge. She believes her guidance is superior because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s. Sexually, it is about the eroticizing of power and the transformation of personal identity. She fucks. He gets fucked. Even if this means her wanting him to fuck her rough and hard, she is ultimately deciding how things go.
For me personally, a relentless degree of strictness is paramount to how I dominate. It is paramount in what I expect from my man and my boys. Stern rules and sound spankings are how I make my Femdom a factual reality. I believe in female authority as the core of my family and share that belief with every woman in my personal sphere not because I want a world of weaker men but because I want a world of stronger men who are ultimately guided by the wisdom and strength of even stronger Women, day-in-and-day-out, in this generation and in all succeeding generations.
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