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That's how I felt back then, always.

HAPPY OF THE END | EP. 1

There are only two mental illnesses according to people on the internet:

Innocent bean syndrome: You can never do wrong and got no agency. You will be infantilized on every occasion and are treated as a quirk.

Bad person syndrome: You are bad and an abuser. Your presence kills people.

🌸 actual positivity 🌸

fujoshi do not deserve hate

fujoshi do not deserve harassment

fujoshi belong in fandom

fujoshi deserve a safe space online

fujoshi deserve a safe space everywhere

fujoshi deserve positivity

fujoshi aren't bad people

fujoshi aren't "fetishists" by default

fujoshi are wonderful

Pete: I want to be the mole.

Kinn: Vegas will torture you if he finds you.

Pete: I fucking hope so

Kinn: What?

Pete: What-

I declare Our Dating Sim 

the best second chance romance

that

ever

romanced

butches with long hair photoset! all of these photos are from Meg Allen, a photographer who has a photo series featuring all kinds of butches. check out her website for more butch pictures!

Instead of apologizing for liking "trashy" media, consider: what is it doing well? If you like it, if it's making you feel pleasure and interest, then it must be succeeding at something. Is it shaping a set of emotional beats that you find satisfying to watch play out? Did it craft a character you find really compelling? Is something in the styling and aesthetics speaking to you? Did it unexpectedly resonate with a mood or experience you needed to see reflected right then?

However shallow or flawed a piece of media is, if you like it, it's because of something it did well - at least well enough to affect you, on the day that you encountered it.

There are a lot of good reasons to acknowledge this. One is about gratitude and manners: someone worked hard on that thing, and if they provided something that gave you happiness and pleasure, it's nice to honor that. Another is about breaking down the insidious habit of sorting everything into simple good/bad boxes. A piece of media, like a person, can do a lot of things wrong and a lot of things right, and the things on one side do not magically erase the other.

But the most important reason, I believe, is to get in the habit of celebrating what brings you pleasure and happiness. All your life there have been and there will be people telling you that you find joy in the wrong things, that if a particular thing makes you feel good it shows that there's something wrong with you. I reject that utterly. If a particular thing makes you feel good then there's something right, about you and about that thing. I'm not saying that pleasure is the only important thing or that every pleasure should be indulged indiscriminately. All I'm saying is that pleasure is in and of itself a good thing, and deserves notice.

bottoms (2023, dir. emma seligman)

could the ugly, untalented gays please report to the principal's office?