Don’t… treat them as tools. Deities aren’t obligated to help you, even if you do everything “correctly” to ask. They’re not vending machines, or a list of correspondences that only gets value from how they best serve you. They’re gods! Instead… treat them like people. (Really high-status people.) Build a relationship before asking big favors. Compensate them for their time. Respect they have their own autonomy. Respect that your will is not the center of their universe.
Don’t… reduce them into archetypes. Putting Frejya or Aphrodite into just “love goddess” takes out so much of their depth. (Example, both of these goddesses also have warlike aspects.) Putting them into narrow categories and treating all deities that fit as the same can be reductive at best and insensitive to the root cultures at worst. Instead… address who you’re really talking to. Do your research. See how a god either lines up with or defies your assumptions. See what makes them different from a deity with a similar domain. If you wish to speak to the Horned God, speak to the Horned God, and if you want to speak to Cernunnos or Pan, call them Cernunnos or Pan. Don’t… ignore the lore. UPG Can certainly exist and add depth, but the lore has survived and is what all these gods are largely founded on. It’s important for us to recognize it and know who we’re approaching. Instead… do your research beforehand. Did you know Aphrodite is widely considered to HATE pigs and be offended with offerings of pork or images of pigs on the altar? Might be a good thing to know before you accidentally offer some fresh bacon. (But if you recognize the lore and find a way to spin it so it works, more power to you~) Don’t… insult other people’s gods. If those gods don’t resonate with you, they have a lot of meaning for other good people. I’m tempted to say don’t insult your own, either. Playful banter is one thing, but there’s a line between affectionate jabs and straight up disrespect. Find where that line is for you. Instead… talk to other people. If something about a god you don’t worship feels problematic, talk to their followers and devotees and see what they have to say about it. They probably have an approach you haven’t been exposed to. Analyze your own relationships with deities. And if the way you speak about a deity makes someone else uncomfortable or upset, respect their right to feel that way, apologize, and learn from it. Remember that each deity has changed someone’s life for the better.
Emoji Spell to help you speak confidently! (I used yellow & sunflower bc they promote positivity & confidence) 🗣like to charge🗣 🌻reblog to cast🌻
Be kind and gentle, sweet and elegant. And then, when they push you too far… RIP THEIR HEADS OFF AND SHOW THEM THE KILLER GODDESS YOU ARE
↳ Emoji spell: Passing all exams.
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MAKE UP GIVE AWAY :)! Hey beautifuls this is my give away for 1 lucky person since I don’t wear make up and these were a gift from my lovely sister.
RULES:
-Must be following me on Tumblr and my instagram @tarakenny__ (2 underscores) for more entries
-Comment/like on my most recent instagram photos for more entries (I am trying to gain a big following)
-Message me with a “😇” when you have followed my instagram and your insta name.
-Don’t mention the give away on Instagram as it gets really repetative
PRIZES:
-Limited Edition Too Faced La Belle Carousel Holiday Collection
-Too Faced Love Collection Eye Shadow
-Juvia’s Place The Magic Palette By Juvia’s
-Urban Decay Moondust Eyeshadow Palette
-Kat Von D MetalMatte Eyeshadow Palette
-Limited Edition Anastasia Beverly Hills x -Amrezy Highlighter
-Limited Edition D&G Animalier Bronzer Glow Bronzing Powder
-Limited Edition Laura Mercier Holiday 2017 L'amour Exotique Face Illuminator Collection
-Limited Edition Mac x Patrick Starr Collection Bundle
OTHER INFO:
-Ends on October the 5th
-Need to be willing to provide your address details and be announced publicly on Tumblr
-Have your ask open and if you don’t answer in 48 hours another winner is chosen
Have fun yaaa cuties and good luck 😄! Love you guys so much. Also message me for more photos of the make up if needed and any questions. Don’t hashtag give away or this will be deleted. 💞
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Artemis: a queen, one who shuns the presence of men. Ruler of the night sky and the hunt, she doesn’t give a flying fuck about your gender roles. Women can be single. Women can be hunters.
Athena: a scheming, cunning, genius woman, Athena is the mastermind behind every battle. Goddess of both wisdom AND war. Women can be smart. Women can be warriors.
Aphrodite: a gorgeous woman, beautiful beyond belief, she was married off to a man she did not love. She refused her husband, and is with the chaotic man she truly loves. She loves romance novels and tragic love stories without your permission or stereotypes. Women can be independent. Women can be beautiful. Women don’t have to love you because you say so.
Persephone: she is Queen of hell and goddess of springtime, drawing the line between death and rebirth. She loves her husband and mother, but refuses to let anyone tell her who to be or where to go. Women can be sweet. Women can be brutal. Women can be complicated.
Hera: a practical woman, she is the goddess of marriage, her husband is always off fucking mortals. And she always makes sure he pays for it. This doesn’t stop her from being a fair queen, even more of a ruler than her husband. Women can be powerful. Women make their own choices.
Demeter: a farm girl at heart, she rules the harvest, her mere emotions causing the seasons. Her daughter eloped with the god of death, and she misses her every day. She loves her loyal farmers and the crops they tend. Women can be nurturing. Women can be depressed.
Hestia: a goddess of small renown, Hesta gave up her spot on the council to Dionsynius to keep order. She is the goddess of the hearth and home, fire and family. She represents the controlled chaos of a fire in the fireplace or a family in their home. Women can be sacrificing. Women don’t need to be super to be important. Women can be chaotic.
Enough with this patriarchal Greek society. We all know who really ruled Olympus.
We could all benefit from reading this
Hello! To celebrate 400 followers, I’m giving away readings to 4 people! As many questions as you’d like, any combination of methods I use. You can choose from tarot, oracle, pendulum, runestones, pyromancy, and dice.
Rules:
Must be following me
Likes count
Only one reblog a day
Only reblog to one blog (doesn’t have to be your main. It just isn’t fair to those who don’t have multiple side blogs)
Don’t tag with giveaway (I hear it messes up the notes)
Winners will be chosen via RNG on September 30th, my birthday!
If in the mean time you would like a paid reading, DM me for more info! Best of luck!
A spell for strong commitment throughout all difficulties
Added in endearments my love and I call each other to make it more personal