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5 Tips for Writing Best Friends

Friendships can make books more engaging for readers than romantic or family relationships. The trick is writing best friends in ways that feel real.

It’s why we love Gideon and Nico in The Atlas Six or Bree and Alice in the Legendborn series.

Here are a few tips to get you on the path to writing an incredible friendship that’s the backbone of your character’s arcs.

1. Make the Friendship Serve Both Characters

We’ve all read books where the protagonist has a best friend who seems to only exist when the protagonist needs something. They’re the main character’s source of stress relief and support, but real-world relationships serve both people.

Make sure you write scenes where the best friend also benefits from the relationship. They might come to the main character for support or call the protagonist when they need cheering up. The most minor moments can mean the most to readers.

2. Give the Friendship a Why

Why is the friendship so important to each of your characters? Maybe they met while experiencing a unique life event or a tragedy. Maybe one helped the other through a difficult time and later vice versa.

The why behind the relationship is key to making readers fall in love with the bond between your characters. Why they met might be the only thing holding them together when times get tough. Establish a clear motive to their solid connection and everything that happens afterward will be more impactful for the reader.

3. Create a Life for the Best Friend Too

Best friends need personality traits like protagonists. As you draft their persona during your planning or writing phases, remember to give them traits like:

Likes

Dislikes

Goals

Dreams

A history

These details shape who people are. They can also be the things that pull your protagonist and best friend together. 

4. Set Up the Occasional Clash

Friendships are stronger when they survive the ups and downs. Turbulent times also make friendships realistic because friends never stay in just happy periods of their lives.

Make your two characters clash to learn through their arguments or mistakes, especially if they’re disagreeing about how to solve/accomplish your plot’s main goal. How they work through their differences and move past them demonstrates each character’s core values and how much they value their friendship.

5. Establish Honesty Early On

Best friends are honest with each other. Setting that up early on establishes a foundation of trust. It also sets up stakes when one character decides to lie to the other for a specific goal or purpose, even if they don’t like it. Without honesty, there’s no reason for the two characters to trust each other or remain best friends.

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Develop your best friends as separate individuals before merging them in your plotlines. You’ll create stronger relationships that pull readers in and keep them thinking about your story well after they turn the final page.

Capitulo 5: La llave

Entre la selva inhóspita de Karkamistán figuran selvas y mas selvas, con animales magnificentes porque la naturaleza ha sido prodigiosa en esos lares. La flora y la fauna cuenta como una fotografía de los antigüos amazonas, y los árboles grandísimos tapan en ocasiones la sombra para otras especies de vegetación que requieren la filtración del sol, aunque una de cal por otra de arena, pues otros animales usan estos espaciosos para su recreación, permiténdoles descansar tras los inclementes tiempos y calurosos días de la selva. 

Un león se refresca en las aguas, en las pequeñas laderas que abre el río con su atropellado caudal, mientras el rinoceronte se mete en el afluente para refrescarse de las inclemencias del tiempo, y las garzas esperan pacientemente a los peces en las laderas del rio.

Un rio acompaña la vegetación frondosa y es tan vasto como el Nilo y alimenta miles y miles de kilómetros entre la selva donde pueden encontrarse bagres, peces cocodrilos peces tiburones y belugas. El río tiene cascadas inmensas como las del Niagara Falls, y millones y millones de litros de agua caen de sus pluviales para alimentar a una población conocida como la ciudad de Dunkaham. 

La ciudad tiene la reputación de ser un centro que atrae millones de visitantes de toda las naciones, y los cielos son llenos no tan sólo de aves y pájaros, sino de sus hovers en el cielo, autos chicos semejantes a aviones, asi como naves espaciales que utilizan el entorno de la selva par flotar y estacionar sus vehículos a un lado, arriba de su fauna. Después, al impulso de una señal, los taxis áereos recogen los pasajeros, que vienen de tierras extrañas más allá de Marte y Júpiter y la Luna. Descendientes de papas y mamas terrenales, alejados por las decenas de años en el espacio, y que ahora visitan la Tierra natal y están ahi congregados, con vestidos especiales porque la usanza y la adaptación al ambiente era sólo válido para otras galaxias y entornos. Los extranjeros, inmigrantes, portaban trajes especiales y por sus trajes se reconocían si provenían de Marte, Jupiter o Neptuno o la Luna. porque a mayor lejanía de la Tierra,  mayor grado de toxicidad en las galaxias, y por lo tanto, los elementos de protección y trajes en el cuerpo eran más complejos, porque en la Tierra no se sabía cómo actuarían esos elementos en las razas hibrídas de papa y mama terrestre, por los que se pedía una estadía de 15 días. 

  Los edificios parecen flotar entre la selva, y los rascacielos típicos tocan las nubes, mientras desde los rascacielos se observan la cantidad innumerable de caminos futuristicos que penden en el cielo sin torres de sostenimiento, sino con torres de flotadores, hovers board especiales que trabajan dia y noche para sostener los caminos como motores que marchan y no paran todos los días del año.. 

La ciudad se sostenia sobre esas plataformas gigantes de hover boards en sus caminos, en sus edificios, en sus poblaciones, y tras innumerable experimentos en otras galaxias y planetas para hacer habitable el ambiente, transportaron esa tecnología a la Tierra y descubrieron el arte de hacer flotar inmensas cantidades de moles de hierro y cemento, donde ya los terremotos no causaban los daños que solían hacer antes de su descubrimiento.

Y ahí, en esa ciudad, perdido entre la selva inhóspita, unos principes y delegados, y nobles se reúnen en el Palacio de Karkamistán para hablar con Rey Lorton sobre un acontecimiento inesperado en unos de sus reinos.

Platican los jefes de Estado con los nobles, los duques con los príncipes, los obispos con los Reyes acerca de las implicaciones y comentarios de la Reyna Helena, que ponía en desbalance el reino natural de la descendencia de los príncipes y reyes, porque la Reyna en un apartado y remoto lugar de Karkamistán se niega a entregar la llave, y esa llave traía una definición.

La Reyna Helena prefería sembrar dudas respecto a linajes y posibilidades para esconder las verdaderas razones de sus actuaciones, y lanzar señuelos en la corte por lo que ahora los dirigentes y los nobles del reino exigían al Rey que la Reina en esos lugares dispensara la llave.

La llave abria una puerta o la cerraba, la puerta de la realidad o la puerta de la magia, no insertar la llave en el engranaje de la puerta, dejaba en el suspenso el mundo donde se mueven los caracteres.

En el mundo de la magia estaban cubiertos, en el mundo de las realidades no tanto. En el mundo de la magia había carruseles, y príncipes y castillos y nobles y reyes; en el mundo de las realidades había trabajo y mas trabajo, realidades de comportamientos humanos entre dos, separaciones, llantos, dolores, amores, compromisos.

La llave se introducía en el pivote de la puerta, y se daban dos o tres vueltas en la hendidura para que las dentaduras del cerrojo fueran sensibles a abrir los demás componentes de la puerta, y pudieran, todos los elementos de la perilla, girar en armonía entre izquierdas y derechas, izquierdas y derechas, izquierdas y derechas hasta hacer el click que abre la puerta, y después tocar la palanca para empujar la entrada.

Y la Reina tenia miedo de dar esa llave, porque sabia que la introducción de la llave en el pivote de la puerta, no solo causaría que se movieran todos los mecanismos antigüos del cerrojo, que nadie había usado por largo tiempo, sino también las posibilidades que abría, porque lubricarían los engranajes de la puerta y cantidad innumerable de aventuras podrían pasar abriendo esa puerta, porque era dejar libre y en libertad al que tuviera la llave, con la posibilidad de quedarse en un mundo o en otro, y eso le asustaba, especialmente si había descendencia.

Dar la llave era algo más que abrir una puerta. 

Si doy la llave, decía la Reyna, vulneraré mi mundo y trastocará las fibras de mi pensamiento y recorreré por caminos inhóspitos donde no sé que pueda pasar. Si no doy la llave, al menos, controlo mi mundo sin las locuras en que me lleve dar la llave.

Oh Reina, Reina, cuánta sapiencia existe en la entrega de las llaves por el  juego inhóspito, incompresible, mágico, incontrolable, irreverente, pasional.

Los búhos cantan cucu-cucu, cucu-cucu en la noche, pero esta vez no era por un aviso de peligro, sino un aviso de destino, y la Reina tendría qué buscar hacia donde quería que la puerta se abriera o cerrara, entre la magia o la realidad, porque entregando las llaves lubricaba el mecanismo antigüo del pasado que no quería abrir.

Ahí en el pueblo, en esa congregación todos sabían que la Reyna Helena tendría que soltar las llaves al Rey para que el Rey pudiera ejercer un pleno dominio de su Reino entre las realidades y la magias que estaban en su mundo.

En el pueblo, todo mundo lo sabia, porque la voz del búho cantaba cucu-cucu por las noches y no callaría hasta que anunciara un amor o una despedida, porque los tiempos, así como las estaciones habían cambiado ya.

Al cerrojo había que darle izquierdas y derechas, izquierdas y derechas, izquierdas y derechas para abrirlo, y la llave ella la tenia.

La llave de su liberación, o la llave de su perdición, izquierdas o derechas, la llave de su felicidad o la llave de su angustia, izquierdas o derechas, entre las realidades o las magias.

Las llaves entregan reinos y establecen paz entre los que habitan

Daria la Reyna la llave, perdiendo el control de su mundo, y poniéndolo a disposición de otro para su uso, goce y disfrute y provecho y beneficio de las partes? O permanecería, como ahora, sólo aprovechando a conveniencia lo que viniera para ella. 

La Reyna desearía ser ahora Madame Bovary en una corte de nobles por una incredulidad en el amor y su encomienda? O sería la que entrelazara los brazos de duques con dineros, para ella auspiciar sentidos de afirmación y pertenencia en ellos, cuando otros jóvenes estuvieran contemplando la belleza que trae el barón avejentado en sus brazos, y en el Castillo, cambiando los pańales de sus amores en residencias lujosas?

Entregaría la Reyna las llaves de su paz, y su alegría, y sometería su voluntad al Rey?

Queen, Queen, when are you going to diminish your beauty and your ego,  so you can build a house of your own in a everlasting peace?

Pero la Reyna tenía también un secreto que se deslizaba en las noches por su cama, su amiga, su fiel amiga. Amazona de la Selva, con figura excepcional, piernas torneadas de fibras que le acompañaba en sus noches de soledad.

Pero en el pueblo no todos mundo conocía su secreto, al contrario, sonreían porque los búhos en las noches anunciaban cucu-cucu como conociendo las escenas del futuro suceso , y la Reina tendría qué mostrar sus colores verdaderos (true colors) y salir del closet de su definición, y el Rey salir de dudas porque ahora sus pensamientos estaban en aquella imagen “no me ande besando” suscitando suspicacias en el recuerdo. 

Entregaría la Reyna la llave o celebraría el Proud Week, con toda su gama de colores?

FIN DEL CAPÍTULO 5

Coca Cola has been very successful  at transmitting the same message over and over again to create a brand of its own. A brand that tells a story: There is always happiness, there are dreams, there is love, there is hope, peace, kindness, laughter, generosity, and magic scenes. A positive message is inside all the stories. 

I met Vikki Carr long time ago thanks to my sister. She used to wake up in the morning by listening to Vikki Carr’s songs using my old stereo system. She listened that Spanish song “Total” that says “At the end, if you would have loved me I would have forgotten your love/ You see, it was a lost time the one you have meditated to tell me now that this can not be possible”.

I liked that song, really, as I like to have this interview with the one that woke me up in the morning in a mysterious way. She is right now through the phone, with a set of pre-determined questions underling the kind of relationship with the entertainment business people.

Vikky Carr, according to her website (http://vikkicarr.com) was born in El Paso Texas "and raised in Southern California, the eldest of seven children, who later change her name to Vikky Carr." She started singing at the age of four, but it was not until 1961 when she signed a contract with Liberty Records. She recorded He's a Rebel which became the first hit in Australia, and later on she sang It Must Be Him "which charged up the charts in England" says her website.

With almost 50 years of professional experience as a singer, we had this awesome opportunity to talk with this wonderful woman, who have tasted the fame without losing her charm, her singularity, her qualities as a human being, and this is my way to thank her for this interview, which in this case is focused in making entertainment deals around the world due to her singing career.

  How do you deal with people in a negotiation process, do you play hard o soft ball?

“I think the artist should always be dedicated to his art, and let the manager or lawyer deal with those details of negotiation. My function is to sing to an audience and I do not want to get involved in those little details of the agreement. When I get involved in the contract is just in the final phase when it is time to sign that deal”, said Vikki Carr.

To his manager, Dann Moss, playing hard or soft ball depends on “who you are negotiating with, in what country you are negotiating with, because people in different countries negotiate in different ways”. To Vikki Carr’s lawyer you need to make sure that the money is there, in the USA, before the performance because “you do not want to get involved in a lengthy negotiation process” in case something is wrong. The Japanese, he explains, when you sign a contract “their word is their bond and integrity is their word that they will honor that contract”, while in the Middle East, he explains further, the negotiation starts when you sign the contract. We need to understand, resumes Vikki’s manager, “what every person or country or people put into the importance of a signed contract, and their words and what it means to them.” It is also then when we have a beautiful negotiation process.

  Have you ever applied dirty tricks in a negotiation?

  “We always play clear, says Vikki, and we do not want to make dirty tricks and we try to play fare. We recognize that everybody in the game should get something; however there have been times when the singer gets less than the other agents in the process, and this is the reason I got an agent who deals with those issues.”

I think at the end of the day, replies Dann, a good philosophy is that everybody needs to win something, and you cannot take everything off the table. Everything is about sharing, he explains, and “we need to make sure that the people we are negotiating with, make money so they can come back and do another contract”. According to the manager they do not take all the marbles off the table in a negotiation process.

Dann Moss is Vikki Carr's lawer. According to his resume Dann was a co-founder and partner in the Law Firm of Thompson, Shankman, Bond and Moss. The firm specialized in the entertainment and communication industries. Dann then began, his own practice discovering and building new artists, negotiating television, publishing, licensing and recording agreements and producing international television specials and motion pictures.

  What happen -I asked- with those people that are tricky in your negotiation and what do you do Dann?  Have you ever found people like that, trying to get advantage from you?

  Yes, says Dann, in Paris. We had an agreement with my director and the theatre manager to reserve 27 seats for 3 sets of camera that were supposed to record the show. We marked those seats in the planogram to make sure those seats were not sold to the public so we can record the show. A month later we came back to put our cameras in place using those spaces, and the theater manager approached to me to tell me I could not use those seats since they were already sold. I told the manager our agreement and he said, “I am sorry, they are sold”. Don’t worry, I said, I will take care of the problem and talked to my secretary to print an invitation saying “Please excuse the inconvenience. You are cordially invited to seat on the stage for the performance and I personally invited to a champagne reception with Ms Silva Gartan after the show”. Then the manager came and said “you can not have people on the stage and I said “that is your problem”. Obviously, he said finally, there were more people giving out their seat so they can go to the reception. In that way, he concludes, we separate people from the problem.

Remember: Comparison is the thief of joy. No matter how high you climb, it’s always easy to worry about who has climbed higher, or if you are climbing fast enough.   I keep this quote on my writing desk and stare at it every day to remind myself never to compete against anyone except myself. There will always be someone better, and there will always be someone else who believes that I am better than they are. It doesn’t matter a whit—what matters is your heart and your drive. And nothing else.

Lisa Amowitz is the author of fantasy/thrillers for young adults, including Until Beth. She is also a cover designer and a professor of Graphic Design at Bronx Community College.

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“Jot, Bin, Pants”: An Outline Method to Get Your Writing Back on Track

One of the biggest struggles of being a writer is often feeling like you’re not good enough, no matter how much you’re writing. Today, writer Cassandra Lee Yieng shares an outlining method that’s helped her move past feelings of doubt and create the stories that she wants to write:

Much has been said about conquering the blank page, be it called writer’s block or imposter syndrome. We’re often inundated with brusque advice like “write an outline”, “fake it till you make it”, and “just write” (Reminds me of that Pirates of the Caribbean scene). It’s easy to presume that the people offering that advice have a tough exterior, and nobody likes being intimidated. To counter that, I’d like to shed light on my writing journey, and how I helped get myself out of a writing funk.

My university major was math, but one of my most devastating writing experiences was a Huffington Post piece on the math of snooker. A simple error—an oversight of a miscalculation—stopped my other submitted posts from being published. I could no longer reach the broad readership I once enjoyed, and I stopped blogging for at least a year.

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1. Pacing: The character walks back and forth in a small area, unable to stay still due to restlessness and nervous energy.

2. Fidgeting: The character repeatedly adjusts their clothing, taps their fingers, or plays with objects, unable to keep their hands still.

3. Nail-biting: The character nervously bites their nails, a common habit that indicates anxiety or nervousness.

4. Rapid breathing: The character's breaths become quick and shallow, as if they're struggling to catch their breath due to heightened anxiety.

5. Clenching fists: The character tightly clenches their hands into fists, a physical manifestation of their inner tension and anxiety.

6. Avoiding eye contact: The character averts their gaze, unable to maintain eye contact due to feelings of unease or insecurity.

7. Shaking or trembling: The character's body shakes or trembles involuntarily, reflecting the physical manifestation of their anxiety.

8. Wrapping arms around oneself: The character crosses their arms tightly over their chest, as if seeking comfort or a sense of protection from their anxious thoughts.

9. Picking at skin or lips: The character absentmindedly picks at their skin or lips, a subconscious action resulting from nervousness or anxiety.

10. Swallowing hard: The character visibly swallows, indicating a dry throat and heightened anxiety.

“Cualquier intento de establecer la fortaleza interna del recluso bajo las condiciones de un campo de concentración pasa antes que nada por el acierto de mostrarle una meta futura. Las palabras de Nietzsche: “Quien tiene algo por qué vivir es capaz de soportar cualquier cómo” pudieran ser la motivación que guía todas las acciones con respecto a los prisioneros. Siempre que se presentaba la oportunidad, era preciso inculcarles un porqué de su vivir, a fin de endurecerles para soportar el terrible cómo de su existencia. Desgraciado de aquel que no viera ningún sentido en su vida, ninguna meta, ninguna intencionalidad y, por tanto, ninguna finalidad en vivirla, ése estaba perdido. En realidad no importa que no esperemos nada de la vida, sino si la vida espera algo de nosotros. Tenemos que dejar de hacernos preguntas sobre el significado de la vida y, en vez de ello, pensar en nosotros como seres a quienes la vida les inquiera continua e incesantemente. Vivir significa asumir la responsabilidad de encontrar la respuesta correcta a los problemas que ello plantea.”

— V. E. Frankl, El hombre en busca del sentido. Herder, 1993.

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Where to start as a beginner writer

Are you new to the world of writing? Here are some pointers to consider when starting out your journey!

Define your purpose

A super important first step for any writer is to ask themselves why they are actually writing. What sort of message do you want to put out into the world, what types of stories are you going to tell? Do you want to make people cry, laugh, do you want to inspire them, do you want to shine a torch on important issues, do you want to thrill them or make them feel good?

Familiarize yourself with character arcs

Before plot, there is character! Character arcs are a great way to get yourself started on your writing journey. Learn about internal conflict, misbelief, positive and negative arcs, backstories... Once you know this, the plotting side of things clicks into place much easier.

Understand the basics of story structure

You do not need to be a plot-genius to write a good book. As long as you have a good grasp on your character arcs, and a basic understand of how a story is structured, you’re good to go! It’s great to read about 3-act, 5-act, hero’s journey, and other structures on examples of books you’ve read or films you’ve seen.

Read in your genre

Cannot stress this enough! Every writer should be a reader. It’s so important to read within and outside of your genre, because reading is the best way to learn and grow and improve.

Don’t be afraid to write whatever comes to mind

All writers get stuck into certain parts of their writing, and we all become victims of perfectionism or procrastination one way or another. Don’t let this be a thing to discourage you. What’s important to know about writing is that the more you do it, the more you will improve. So even if you’re writing something for fun, or you’re not entirely happy with the quality, know that actually writing it will help you more than avoiding it.

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