Hands!!!!!!!

shakily licking blood off the knuckles that just beat the shit out of you

It’s extremely hot to ruin and permanently change your body for someone else’s sake

Grabbing a fistful of hair while y'all cuddle and watch a movie just cause. Don't acknowledge it, don't be rough or menacing about it. Just a slow, gentle, "this is mine so I'll do what I want with it and right now I just want to hold this part of you comfortingly but in control completely" type of grab.

if you're pure of heart, you unlock a special way to have sex that's just hitting someone hard enough to make them cry

there is nothing hotter on this earth than backhanded, patronizing, layered-with-degradation praise. "the only thing you're good at is taking my cock, but god you're so good at it" "you're doing so well stretching around my strap - i know it's too much & it hurts right now, but just relax - i'll help you since you cant do it yourself" "its pathetic how you can't take me into your mouth without choking, but – shhh shh it's okay, you look so cute with tears in your eyes and drool on your face" like. if you are comforting me while we fuck while also making sure to remind me how stupid and needy i am. literally i will do anything that you ask