“A Stranger In Your Life Once Told You To Avoid Bad Men At All Costs.

Yup. And to always be told I feel like I'll become one of those people you think just leave you and being left without a reason and never speak again.....that hurts more.

The fear of abandonment isn’t just about people leaving, it’s the gut-wrenching belief that you aren’t worth staying for.

• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.

• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.

• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.

• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.

• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.

Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.

Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.

You think I’m heartless, but I grieve every piece of you I destroy like it’s a funeral.

Cute date idea: I take her to the movies and control a remote controlled vibrator inside her 🖤

"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."

Touch yourself and think about me.