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Stay away from:
Selfish people – They only care about their needs, not yours. They take, drain, and expect without giving in return
People with no self awareness – They don’t see their own flaws, yet they constantly find fault in others. You’ll always be the problem in their eyes
People who lack accountability – They never own up to their mistakes, always blaming circumstances or others instead. Without accountability, growth is impossible
People with no emotional regulation – Their mood swings dictate the atmosphere. One moment they’re loving, the next they’re explosive, leaving you in a cycle of stress and anxiety
People who make everything about themselves – Your feelings, struggles, and achievements will never matter as much as their ego
People who never apologize – If someone can hurt you and not feel remorse, they don’t respect you
People who gaslight you – Twisting reality to make you question yourself is manipulation, not love
People who compete with you instead of supporting you – Real connections are built on encouragement, not jealousy
People who lack integrity – If they lie, cheat, or betray others easily, you’re not an exception—you’re just next
People who take but never give – Relationships should be reciprocal. If you’re always the one giving, you’re being used
People who drain your energy – If you feel worse after being around them, that’s a sign. Healthy relationships uplift, not exhaust
People who are incapable of deep connections – Surface level relationships won’t fulfill you. If they avoid depth, they’ll avoid true intimacy too
People who can’t celebrate your wins – If they’re only there when you struggle but disappear when you succeed, they’re not real friends
Start drama, then act innocent – They stir up conflict, but when confronted, they cry victim to avoid accountability
Blame others for their own mistakes – Nothing is ever their fault; it’s always you, circumstances, or someone else
Manipulate sympathy – They weaponize guilt, making you feel bad for holding them accountable
Rewrite history – They conveniently forget their role in the situation and paint themselves as the one who was wronged
Expect you to fix what they broke – Instead of taking responsibility, they put the burden on you to make things right
Use victimhood as a shield – Instead of growth and change, they use self pity to avoid facing hard truths
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your 20s feels like life is ALWAYS over, like you're grieving something every single day. it's embarrassing. one day you wake up like "???" like it starts fall into place at the same time while actively getting worse. shedding skin constantly. painfully moving on from things you thought you never would. loving from a distance. figuring out what love is. working overtime to create the reality you want to see. while accepting you already got it like that now. but it's like. i know i have no choice but to win even if life is whacking me again and again. when i lay my head on my pillow i have to constantly remind myself all of my grandmother's prayers aren't going to go to waste. sometimes your biggest lesson hides behind the corny platitudes your elders told you when you were a child. like, yeah, this too shall pass and i'll be alright and see why i had to go through it anyway. it really DOES always work out. and maybe you are your biggest hater for telling yourself otherwise i fear.
dedicate life to something bigger than yourself. find your philosophy and embody that. remain on the path by upkeeping discipline. outside influences can lead you astray and trip you up but it's really you. YOU are the difference between stumbling and getting up versus continuously stumbling and remaining flat on your face. YOU have to order your steps and remember how to navigate life again. so you might as well find a "why" in life so you have a reason to keep going. big or small, just find something to hold onto while you're rebuilding that trust to keep going.
fortunately i will only ever get prettier, healthier, and happier. and i hope you do too!
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