I Just Don’t Think “is Dude Gender Neutral” Is That Productive Of A Conversation Because A Word

i just don’t think “is dude gender neutral” is that productive of a conversation because a word can be gendered and still used regardless of gender. i call my male friends girlypop and my female friends man but i don’t think anybody would agree that those are somehow not gendered terms.

the real question is just “would you be willing to apologize and stop using a word if somebody told you it made them uncomfortable?” the answer to which in a surprising number of cases is no mostly because it seems like overall ppl r more upset abt getting accused of transphobia than they are abt being transphobic

More Posts from Clowncruncher and Others

3 months ago
Im So Tired
Im So Tired
Im So Tired

im so tired

1 year ago

"missed all of your vital organs" is such a scathing injury report if that happened to me i would never let the person who maimed me live it down. you had a 1 in 7 chance and more than 50% of my body's surface area to target and you fucking blew it. cope and seethe over my unperforated heart, lungs, brain, liver, kidneys, pancreas, small intestine and large intestine you fucking idiot. you incompetent fool.

2 months ago

sometimes i see cis people say "trans people will understand if you misgender them at first. i call my nephew 'her' all the time and he knows i don't mean it" no he doesnt. he probably never hangs out with you for more than ten minutes because that's how long you can last in a conversation before making him feel like shit. also he thinks you're, best case scenario, stupid for not being able to figure it out, or worst case scenario, uncaring about him and his needs. he doesn't like spending time with you. you're deluding yourself into thinking you're far kinder than you are. you're weird man.

1 year ago

reblog if it's okay for your mutuals to message you and create an actual friendship, not just interactions

1 year ago

Dying on my warframe hill for my horrible warframe opinion that being horny for warframe is perfectly fine "Except for the weirdos who created and perpetuated the meme about Wisp's ass".

Because I straight up didn't even notice Wisp had a modeled ass for like 2 years

(reminder that this is a shooter where you over the shoulder ADS and NORMALLY have a big intrusive syandana on so like.... how was I supposed to know??)

and found out about it through reading a warframe meme- only to find out you weirdos have been objectifying her ass to the point of COMMUNITY WIDE MEME and somehow I'm the weird one for not having "ass" be a top 5 word that pops into my head when someone says Wisp.

So I've gone full contrarian because I'm annoyed that, community wise, no one can bring up wisp in a serious connotation without slipping in a reference to her fuckin' ass. Like dude, chill.

Imagine if every video about other frames started with extremely weird heavy breathing perversions like what are you doin' bro, I thought this was a video about a wisp build not you splooging over metal cheeks.

wisp ass is a bad meme and those perpetuating it are the lame kind of horny on main. The kind I read as "just weirdly out of place and kind of disrespectful". You may crucify me now.

1 year ago

i think the fallout fandom at large dont give the various groups of new vegas enough credit for what they have the potential to build in the anarchy ending. like, a lot of ppl like to focus on how they couldnt possibly find solutions to all the problems the mojave has unless they have the ncr/legion/house, but there are so many issues that the ncr and house created in the area that independent settlements are already finding their own solutions to. and just imagine how much they could get done w/o the ncr and house fucking around and making things worse.

like, westside developed an entire farming co-op! food supply issues are a major problem in the mojave. dr. hildern's idea is to raid a vault and use unstable scientific research to fix it, but westside is doing fine on their own. imagine what they could do when the ncr moves out and they can expand to take over their old fields too.

another food supply issue is w/ the early stage capitalism the ncr and mr house brought along, and the brahmin barons like heck gunderson who can fuck up the food supply chain on a whim. getting rid of ppl like that and returning to independent, community based farming would do massive good for the area, and it would possibly open up an opportunity for jacobstown to start trading w/ the rest of new vegas!

like yeah, they had issues w/ anti-mutant prejudices, but i feel like when relying on other communities becomes a necessity ppl will get over it. and westside is right there too, i dont think theyd have as big of a problem working w/ a super mutant community when mean son of a bitch is already a beloved member of their own community.

and yeah, security and protection would still be a huge problem, but westside again has shown that communities can take care of themselves! they had to deal w/ the fiends on their own bc mr. house and the ncr didnt rlly care abt them and left them to fend for themselves. novac also came up w/ their own solutions to protecting themselves w/ boone and manny. and maybe this is the optimist in me, but i think fixing supply issues will reduce the need for communities to protect themselves from other ppl.

anyway yeah. the communities in new vegas have SO much potential to build smth great. i love thinking abt it.

1 month ago

drivers ed is like:

what should you do while driving?

a) text on your phone

b) look at the road

c) cocaine

d) hit children with your car on purpose

1 week ago

there are a lot of people on this website who are incredibly, flamboyantly wrong about things, but theyre also like……clearly in gigantic amounts of pain, and arguing with them on the internet isnt going to change the situation of either their wrongness or their pain

1 year ago

There's a common trend of people saying they hate characters like Malenia, Ranni or Marika because their actions led to thousands of deaths. Which I guess is understandable.

But then they tell your their favorite character is Godfrey or Radahn and just-

There's A Common Trend Of People Saying They Hate Characters Like Malenia, Ranni Or Marika Because Their
1 month ago

wow you're telling me that the idea of a mech pilot having a "handler" is not actually a mainstay of the genre? and that most mech pilots are not brainwashed or forcefemmed or getting off on the force feedback from their weaponry? you're telling me that nobody in Macross or TTGL is engaging in a 24/7 d/s t4t lesbian relationship which is tacitly encouraged by the military forces they work for? I had no fucking idea. That's crazy. You're actually the first person to ever point this out. Should we throw a party? Should we invite Char? I'm going to invite Char so he can fucking kill us both.

  • ladycassandra04
    ladycassandra04 liked this · 1 week ago
  • fish-with-shoes
    fish-with-shoes liked this · 1 week ago
  • breakerofvows
    breakerofvows reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • infjslytherin
    infjslytherin liked this · 1 month ago
  • i-must-have-flowers
    i-must-have-flowers liked this · 1 month ago
  • the-trees-have-spirits
    the-trees-have-spirits reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • thecloudsandrain
    thecloudsandrain reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • hellishunicorn
    hellishunicorn reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • lgbthenry
    lgbthenry reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • oneoldsock
    oneoldsock reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • infinitevariety
    infinitevariety reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • theoisinthevoid
    theoisinthevoid liked this · 1 month ago
  • karkod
    karkod reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • yoihino
    yoihino reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • yoihino
    yoihino liked this · 1 month ago
  • myopinionisimportant
    myopinionisimportant reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • ridiculouspanda33
    ridiculouspanda33 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • ridiculouspanda33
    ridiculouspanda33 liked this · 1 month ago
  • pennym
    pennym reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dangitdunsparce
    dangitdunsparce liked this · 1 month ago
  • alleenickel
    alleenickel reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • shirbu
    shirbu reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • shirbu
    shirbu liked this · 1 month ago
  • g-o-r-b
    g-o-r-b reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • g-o-r-b
    g-o-r-b liked this · 1 month ago
  • youtry2replaceurself
    youtry2replaceurself reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • youtry2replaceurself
    youtry2replaceurself liked this · 1 month ago
  • izzythedemigod
    izzythedemigod reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • izzythedemigod
    izzythedemigod liked this · 1 month ago
  • rivenantiqnerd
    rivenantiqnerd reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • rivenantiqnerd
    rivenantiqnerd liked this · 1 month ago
  • enby-denby
    enby-denby liked this · 1 month ago
  • illiteratesblog
    illiteratesblog reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • illiteratesblog
    illiteratesblog liked this · 1 month ago
  • fireflychaosdemon
    fireflychaosdemon reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • fireflychaosdemon
    fireflychaosdemon liked this · 1 month ago
  • nerdypagan1
    nerdypagan1 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • kat4884
    kat4884 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • kat4884
    kat4884 liked this · 1 month ago
  • bananapudding752
    bananapudding752 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • bananapudding752
    bananapudding752 liked this · 1 month ago
  • blunt-force-therapy
    blunt-force-therapy reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • marshmallowtears
    marshmallowtears reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • ashendalia
    ashendalia reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • trashyteacup
    trashyteacup reblogged this · 2 months ago
  • grittyghoul
    grittyghoul liked this · 2 months ago
  • theender36
    theender36 reblogged this · 2 months ago
  • theender36
    theender36 liked this · 2 months ago
  • dag--dag
    dag--dag reblogged this · 2 months ago
clowncruncher - Orbit The Sheep
Orbit The Sheep

Hi! My name is Ruby, my fursona is Orbit, I've got a whole list of intrests, mostly sci-fi and fantasy stuff. she/her 19

100 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags