Daintyporcelain07 - :(:

The real gold diggers are the men who expect you to take care of them, their parents, clean their house, wash and iron their clothes, give birth to their children and take care of them, manage their emotions, and on top of that, go to work and contribute 50/50 to the expenses.

My beauty secret is having a pure heart & a pretty soul

habits that bring you closer to your best version 🤍

stop living in the past focus on what you have now and what you want to achieve tomorrow

stop reacting to the negative ignore the negative, that which you do not like and which causes you discomfort, and replace all this with positive thoughts even if the situation seems complicated

recognize your achievements day by day they don't have to be only past achievements, every day we achieve something new even if we don't realize it, learn to see the positive in your days, there is always something small to be grateful for

take responsibility for what you think and feel be aware of your thoughts and emotions, nothing has meaning until you give it meaning, so try to always focus on the positive

speak nicely to yourself stop judging yourself or feeling guilty, change your negative internal dialogue, and talk to yourself the way you would like to be talked to

give power to the positive even in the most difficult moments, there is something to be thankful for, focus on the good in your life and make this habit a daily routine, always be thankful for something

be patient everything will come at the right time, so it is not worth losing faith

do different things every day do at least something different every day that helps you to connect with the best version of yourself, it can be a morning walk

be aware of your qualities and express them you can write down what are your qualities to be more aware of them and start to be more conscious of them in your day-to-day life, sure you have a lot of them and that makes you unique and beautiful

i am not “laid back” i’m just a numb shell hollowed out by years of psychological abuse, pills and mental illness.. but it’s totally chill

Your next level is on the other side of the things you’ve been avoiding. Face it & elevate.

what do you do if you feel like you can not connect with anybody anymore including family and close friends anymore ? I feel very disconnected and seems like useless small talk ? Not sure how to navigate these lonely feelings

you may not have realized it yet, but this is actually a good thing. seems like you've outgrown your comfort zone and you're trying to fit yourself in it. that's why you have all these negative feelings. you're limiting yourself and not being true to yourself in order to hang on to a version of you that isn't there anymore.

we're not suppose to stay where we started. when we grow as individuals we OUTGROW the people and things we are once used to. you feel disconnected because you're in a space you've outgrown and can no longer relate to. its time to venture out and meet new people who match your interests and personality. doesn't mean you have to totally stop talking to these people, but they just don't align with you right now.