Latest Posts by daintyporcelain07 - Page 2

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but there’s no deadline for the things you do in life outside of societal expectation. it may feel like there is, but there really isn’t. there’s no set time frame to finish anything. you don’t have to have x, y, or z accomplished by a certain time. there is no countdown. you can graduate high school a year later than you intended. you don’t have to be done with college by 22. you don’t have to buy a house by 26. you don’t have to achieve all your goals before you’re 30. you don’t have to get married just because everyone else is. you don’t have to have children before you’re ready. you can wait. you can try again later. you can finish some other time. and it’s okay if you do: everyone has different timelines, different paths. what is right for someone else may not be right for you. just because someone else did something by whatever age, doesn’t mean you are a failure if you don’t. just because you don’t meet a milestone when you think you’re supposed to, doesn’t mean you never will. there’s not an expiration date. be patient with yourself, give yourself some grace. slow down.

You’ve just described what goes in my head 24/7

time with complex trauma is like. i need to do everything all at once and if i don't i'm a failure, even if there's nothing to do. three months ago feels like yesterday but i can hardly remember yesterday anyway. i'm running out of time. for what? i don't know. i need everything to slow down but my life is so stagnant. i can't go to sleep because the day can't end, but i need the day to end or i'll go insane. i'm constantly worrying about the future but it feels like i have no future. i'm running out of time. for what? i don't know. time has no meaning but every second is the end of the world.

or is this just me?

reminder:

Conservative white women problems.

-fae

habits that bring you closer to your best version 🤍

stop living in the past focus on what you have now and what you want to achieve tomorrow

stop reacting to the negative ignore the negative, that which you do not like and which causes you discomfort, and replace all this with positive thoughts even if the situation seems complicated

recognize your achievements day by day they don't have to be only past achievements, every day we achieve something new even if we don't realize it, learn to see the positive in your days, there is always something small to be grateful for

take responsibility for what you think and feel be aware of your thoughts and emotions, nothing has meaning until you give it meaning, so try to always focus on the positive

speak nicely to yourself stop judging yourself or feeling guilty, change your negative internal dialogue, and talk to yourself the way you would like to be talked to

give power to the positive even in the most difficult moments, there is something to be thankful for, focus on the good in your life and make this habit a daily routine, always be thankful for something

be patient everything will come at the right time, so it is not worth losing faith

do different things every day do at least something different every day that helps you to connect with the best version of yourself, it can be a morning walk

be aware of your qualities and express them you can write down what are your qualities to be more aware of them and start to be more conscious of them in your day-to-day life, sure you have a lot of them and that makes you unique and beautiful

My biggest piece of advice when manifesting would be to let go of the old story. Let go of any unfavourable memory or idea and completely indulge in the new story; if it doesn’t make you feel good, don’t allow it to take up room in your mind. Rewrite the timeline and stay faithful to that new story, I can guarantee you that things will start shifting in the 3d when you do and it feels incredible to allow yourself to live mentally in your dream life 💗🧠

Love, stop rushing, stop running. You’re not missing out, you’re not behind in the race. The race is only in your mind. Take a deep breath, and relax into the depth of your inner being. There is only you, and deep stillness, a deep peace that cradles you always and forever. Whenever you feel caught in the whirlwind of daily life, remember this anchor exists, and it is within you. All you have to do is close your eyes, and you are home.

I don’t have to agree with or even acknowledge their ill-informed opinions about me.

Some people are meant to be stepping stones in your life. You cannot give everyone all the love they deserve, so don’t worry about it.

I feel like my life is one long sales pitch to convince people to like me

Literally every fp l o l

Bpd cycle

People need to understand that for those who have gone through trauma experience things differently.

If you went through an abandonment as a child, a breakup others would get over with in months can take years to overcome.

If you went through domestic abuse, even small changes in a loved one's tone can make you anxious.

If you were belittled your whole childhood, being professionally critized at work can feel like the end of the world.

Trauma effects us for a long time after it occurs.

how did we go from 80s glam rock fashion to whatever the fuck the grunge rock guys were wearing in the 90s?

There is a difference between being a woman who inspires others to treat her a certain way, and a woman who has to manipulate others to receive special treatment. Manipulation might get you want you want- but its short lived. It's forced, not authentic, and whatever you get from the other person isn't genuine. You are lying to yourself about the situation, and your perception of yourself.

Create your own value and learn how to communicate your wishes. Be the woman that others/men want to do things for and allow healthy flows into your life. You don't have to manipulate anything that isn't for you. Stop creating toxic situations so you can also stop attracting them. You deserve to be treated the way you want, but first you need to treat yourself that way. It always comes back to us.

Blackie + The Pirate look

When he tells you that there's nothing to worry about and that your too perfect to be worrying >>>

My dermatologist-approved skincare routine

I have relatively ultra-sensitive skin prone and this is truly the crème de la crème routine that has done wonders for my skin. I get compliments all of the time for my flawless skin so I have decided to share my routine. I have near perfect skin that hasn't been touched by any professional treatment yet, including botox.

This routine has removed my acne and scars from sun damage in less than a few weeks. I did countless of research before purchasing each and majority of these products were recommended to me from dermatologists as well as my older friends with amazing, wrinkle-free skin (45+) who swear by these products. I'll include links and their prices.

Oil-based cleanser:

Rohto Mentholatum - Hada Labo Gokujyun Oil Cleansing [$15]

This oil cleanser is truly the best in the game. It takes seconds to remove all impurities and heavy makeup from my face. It truly is the cheapest product that I've found to work for me.

Water-based cleanser:

isClinical Clinical - Cleansing Complex [$45]

This is truly the best. It completely removes anything that I might've missed and feels incredible. My skin adores this.

Toner:

Obagi Medical Nu-Derm Toner [$43]

It took a lot of trial and error to find a good toner. My skin would become irritated insanely easy with other toners that caused rashes. This is truly one of my holy grails, I use it after every step.

Face mask:

HANACURE - All-In-One Facial Set [$110]

Just trust me. Nothing will ever top this. I typically use one once a week and that's all I need.

Essence:

SK-II- Facial Treatment Essence (Pitera Essence) [$99]

I swear by this product. The greatest in the game. You automatically will feel the difference. I cannot live without it.

Antioxidant Serums:

C E FERULIC® with 15% L-Ascorbic Acid [$169]

This is impossible to top. There's no product like this. Truly the best Vitamin C in the market. My dermatologist sent me to this after I suffered from sun damage that resulted in sun damage. I use this every morning and a little goes a long way. It stings a bit and has a funky smell but I promise, if there's one thing every woman should invest in, it's this. It improves the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, creates a brighter complexion, and improves skin texture and discoloration.

Eye cream:

SkinCeuticals A.G.E. Eye Complex [$105]

Like I said, SkinCeuticals is the best brand out there. Everything they claim, they deliver.

Serums:

Sunday Riley - Good Genes All-In-One AHA Lactic Acid Treatment [$122]

I cannot live without this. I apply it every night and notice drastic changes immediately. 10/10

Tretinoin:

Tretinoin Anti-Aging Cream .05% [Prescription needed]

If you're over 18 and not on tretinoin, you're failing at life already. The earlier you start, the better. I owe my lack of any professional facial treatments thanks to this beauty. You can only get it via dermatologist. 60 year old you will thank you for this.

Face cream:

SkinCeuticals Triple Lipid Restore 2:4:2 Anti-Aging Lipid Replenishment Treatment [$136]

Every older woman I've met swears by it. This is truly the best facial cream in the game. I apply it twice a day and I love.

Of course, I could never forget sunscreen.

Sunscreen:

EltaMD UV Clear Broad-Spectrum SPF 46 [$39]

I apply this product every morning under my makeup. I never step foot outside in the sun without this sunscreen. One of the best sunscreens out there, especially for women with darker complexions. It does not leave a white cast on my olive, dark beige skin which I love. It's sculpted to perfection.

all i do is look gorgeous and get everything i want

Your next level is on the other side of the things you’ve been avoiding. Face it & elevate.