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Listening to your wife describe her date is an amazing experience for you too. An experience that is at the same time intensely exciting, and intensely painful -- knowing that he has not only completely replaced you as her sexual partner, but also that the two of them have so much fun together whenever they date -- and they've started dating pretty much every weekend. You do wish, sometimes, that her relationship with you could be at least a little bit like her relationship with her boyfriend, but you know that is never going to happen.
This is the truth! And I think I became addicted to that feeling