Daveandyourwife - Untitled

“And yes – in case you were wondering – he’s bigger than you. A lot bigger. And better. So yes – I’m going to keep on seeing him. This IS what you wanted, isn’t it?”

"It's a little weird to have my husband watching me get ready for a date, but I don't mind. Are you thinking about what I'm going to be doing with him later?"

You wish you were better able to satisfy her sexually – but you can’t, so she’s right about the fact that you do feel some degree of relief that she now has someone else to fulfill those needs for her.

Even when your wife first started falling in love with him, she thought her feelings of love for you would remain strong -- but she was wrong. She long ago stopped thinking of you as a real man, and now she only thinks of you as a friend. And yet -- you love her now at least as much, and probably more, than you ever have before. You just pray that there will continue to be some place for you in her world.

Husbands if you have this fantasy but haven’t told your wife yet, tell her but be careful.

My recommendations:

1. Get her to admit about a celebrity crush she has.

2. If she admits to a celebrity crush, when time feels right, tell her she has a hall pass with her crush should she ever get the chance

3. Have her call you her crush’s name when having sex.

4. The next step is to tell her you have fantasized about her having sex with another guy. Be careful here, she still may not understand your fantasy. Ensure her it’s just a fantasy and that you love her. Don’t push the issue, give her time to process this. Eventually she’ll have questions for you.

5. You’ve just opened the door to a whole lot of fun and a completely new sex life with your wife.

If you're out on your own be sure to send texts and messages... remember its a couples sport, keep your partner involved! That includes you too stags and cuckcakes! #queued