This is totally true. I love that my wife has had boyfriends that do more than just fuck her. The ones she dated for any period of time were the ones that treated her with respect and appreciated what an amazing woman she truly is. She has gone on many fun dates with men over the years and has enjoyed a friends-with-benefits relationship with them. My wife has not slept with a lot of men, but she has slept with a few men many times. One guy in particular that my wife dated regularly for over 2 years probably had sex with my wife hundreds of times.
You do wish this hadn't happened, but it's water under the bridge, and obviously the fact that they are going to start dating is going to mean that all of your other friends will also know that she cuckolds you -- and you wouldn't be at all surprised if several of them will want to start a relationship with her too.
Is it crazy that I kinda hope you have real feelings for "R" too? I'm not sure what kind of poly relationship they have, strictly physical, or if they allow bfs/gfs for each other... but I would absolutely be ok with him being your actual bf. I know you crush on him but the idea that you have feelings for him really turns me on. Of coarse you'd have to see him more often... Saturday nights probably work best with our new work schedules lol. Hint hint, wink wink 😏
@gingerhotwife31
This isn't how you thought your married life would be -- but you know that your wife needs much more than you can provide her sexually, so in a way you are actually pleased that she has found another man who can fulfill those needs for her while she still wants to remain your wife.
[a MsTara original ]