Typical self ID male
I have nothing to add here 💀
“you just haven’t sound the right man yet!” “hate the sin, love the sinner” “it’s unnatural” “it’s just a phase” “queer” “examine your bias” “genital preference” “non men attracted to non men” “same gender attraction”
it's hard being a radfem who gets into fandom spaces cause why does every character y'all deem "too feminine/masculine" to be their gender have to be trans 😭
"Terfs and radfems' ideology is based on hate and white supremacy"
First of all, terf is a term used to label a woman as an acceptable target for violence. Believing you have the right to define when a woman should receive violence is an ideology based on hate and is misogyny.
Second of all, many radfems, myself included, are women of color. Do some research on what lengths of violence women experience in countries such as Mexico, India, Iran, Korea, and others.
Third of all, a white woman being a feminist does not inherently make her a white supremacist.
Fourth of all, women are often labelled terfs because they talk about their sex-based oppression and the need for female-exclusive spaces, such as bathrooms, abuse recovery centers, saunas, where we are already vulnerable and prefer to be in company of other women to mitigate risk.
If your progressive and woke ideology consists of erasing women and hating us even more for expressing concerns over the very real sex-based oppresion we face every day, you are the one whose ideology is a) easily manipulated by people with louder voices even when they're incorrect and b) basing your ideology on hate and misogyny.
Something for all you to think about. Women are not inherently your enemy, you're labelling us as your enemy because you want to invade our rights and our spaces and we are, very rightfully so, not letting you.
being on radblr is like unfollows someone, keep seeing the person on your dash via mutual in laws, decides i over reacted, refollows, no i was right, unfollows, idk, refollows, um, unfoll
they’ll call radical feminism ”white feminism“, while not realizing that liberal feminism is a western concept.
most women in developing countries are radical feminists, since they experience sex based oppression every day.
the talibans are not banning "whoever identifies as a woman“ from going to school, the clergy in iran is not oppressing women because of their gender identity, girls in africa are not getting their genitals mutilated because they identify as women.
wherever you’re the oppressor or the opressed one in a patriarchal society is not assigned at birth it is observed.
Be so fucking proud of yourself for passing the hardest moments alone while everyone believed you were fine.
Girl, just stop 💀💀
Xoxo🥰🫶💗
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
Im not playing with yall, if you gonna reblog my shit i wont answer
Peace, xoxo🥰🫶💗💋
Take some good Taylor Swift lyrics and stop complaining 🥰🫶💗💋
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
Cool, Idc
Just know its a slur and lesbians are lesbians, not queer
Im the creator of this post, so you are the one responding
Peace 🥰💗🫶💋
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
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no amount of women hating men on the internet will compare to the acts of misogynistic violence men commit. you can control the media you want to consume, you can not control the acts of others out in the real world. stop comparing women posting “i hate men” to men killing women out there. misandry isn’t real.
I first time did a post about radfem and got bullied but y’all mfs won’t silence me. I will talk again and again and again till y’all will be sick of it. Stay tuned and hydrated 💋🫶
Lmao, touch grass
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
Ooo thank you, I will definitely read that :)
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
I hate the way people talk about sex. I hate the way sex is seen by people. The fact that they think sex is about dominance and submission. That it is a relationship of dominance and submission.
Sex is – or at least should be – about exchange, trust, affection. Not about one person dominating the other. Sex is something that has all the potential in the world to be beautiful, but human beings prefer to turn it into something dirty, repulsive, dishonest, selfish, violent. This makes me extremely disappointed.
Recommendation!!
Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more
Gender nonconformity is healthy, natural, and normal. Kids expressing gender nonconformity in developmentally appropriate ways should not be medicalized, punished, or seen as inappropriate.
Gender roles are not inate
Gender roles are harmful to women and girls
Gender is a social construct utilized to systemically oppress the female sex
Sex does not dictate personality, hobbies, interests, or what childhood toys a person is drawn to, and we need to stop treating it like it does
Sexuality does not dictate personality, hobbies, interests, or what childhood toys a person is drawn to. Normalize homosexuality, don't enforce stereotypes on homosexual or non homosexual individuals.
Like just stop for a second with the “grey ace” and “demisexual” and “sapiosexual” labels and think about what it says about our pornofied, oversexualized society that “wanting to get to know people before having sex with them” and “wanting your sexual partner to have a good, compatible personality” and “not wanting to fuck everyone you meet” are now considered atypical sexual orientations instead of common fucking sense.
It’s amazing how many normie women will agree with the basic concepts of radical feminism if you don’t frame them as Radical Feminism™. Things like porn culture, sex vs gender, male violence, are all observable and radfem conclusions are logical. It’s just when you start bringing out the theory of why it’s like this that women get skittish. Which is understandable—fully understanding the breadth and depth of misogyny is scary, and for a lot of women, it’s too much, and they will disengage.
But some women won’t, and while they might not read Dworkin or call themselves radfems, they’ll be more aware of how to protect and love themselves and other women, and might become politically active if they weren’t already. That’s the end goal for me—I don’t really care what women call themselves, I’m just happy they’re striving for female solidarity and class consciousness, even if they don’t use those words.
I’m so sick of the idea that we have to be in perfectly good moods at all times especially on our fucking periods. I’m not going to be nice while blood is pouring out from me and my cramps are killing me and my sensory issues get worse and the headaches and entire body aches and disrupted sleep and irritability I’m so sick of the expectation that during a period we should just carry on as normal
“I don’t wanna know how much money I’ve spent”
That really got me. The amount of time, money, and energy women spend on their periods throughout their lives is not funny. It’s not cool.
The embarrassment we are made to feel about a biological process is not funny. Shopping for period products is made to be embarrassing. That’s not funny.
It’s not funny when you bleed through your pants and everyone makes it a problem. Or when the school nurse shames you for needing to ask for a pad again. Or when you go shopping with your dad and he has you go get the “woman stuff” on your own because it makes him uncomfortable. Or when he starts treating you different since you’re a woman now. Or when you’re encouraged to shove chemicals in your vagina so it’ll smell like flowers. Or when you’re slut shamed for using tampons. Or when you’re hygiene shamed for using pads. Or when cramps are physically debilitating. Or when that physical pain is mentally debilitating.
The list goes on and on. And none of it is funny.
If I could sum up one wish to come true in 2023 for all women as they reclaim themselves and their place in society is:
Forget about the men.
All of them. At every level. For every issue. Focus on women. Follow them. Support them. Help them rise.
Pass it on.
terf is actually just a distracting buzzword meant to shut down women.
never mind the fact that most a lot of us identified as trans at one point, never mind that most of us are gender abolitionists in vehement support of nonconformity. in my mind it is literally not possible to be transphobic when you don’t believe in gender (the construct) to begin with. gender has no meaning to us. how or why would we weaponize something that has no meaning? our focus is on how our sex affects us as an oppressed class, and how that fundamentally puts us in a different category of experience/oppression from trans-identified males. trans women simply are not materially female. that has meaning to us because our materiality is what makes us oppressed, sexualized, vulnerable to male violence, etc.
being exclusionary is just a part of radical feminism. we’re not on some mission to genocide trans people. we’re not a cartoon villain. we didn’t take some poisonous terf pill, our brains didn’t go into some internalized transphobia overdrive one day, we aren’t subhuman joyless beings who want trans women/men to suffer. we actually have non-transphobic rationale behind the things that we advocate for, a lot of people just don’t want to listen because they shut down at any whiff of invalidation. as if criticizing or questioning something can be inherently genocidal. like, it’s not. by that logic, considering femicide, the violent language tra’s direct at terfs is equally dangerous. telling us they hope we get raped, tortured, killed, choked to death, etc—i’ve seen really some really gruesome shit come from tra’s. and maybe there’s a reason for that, i don’t know, but i don’t think that kind of language towards women is ever justified.
to me, terf seems like a continuation of the concepts used to weaponize any expression of misandry or autonomy from females. terfs are like modern-day ‘hags’ or ‘witches’. i’m fine with carrying on that stereotype.
radfems: features that make up "femininity" such as make-up, high heels, shaving, are constructs of patriarchal societies to control women
very "woke" progressive people on the internet: aw stop ruining the fun! just bc you don't like it doesn't mean it's bad!!! respect people's individual choices!!!