One of the reasons that many autistic women get turned away from a diagnosis is that they are in a romantic relationship. how could she possibly have a disability related to social dysfunction? she was socially skillful enough to attain one of the primary goals of a woman's life, she has a partner! what this ignores is that for women, especially autistic women, getting into a relationship is something that can just straight up be done to you without you taking any action at all or even really consenting to it. Men approach women, involve themselves in women's lives, push women to give them attention and spend time with them, begin forming expectations around the woman's availability to them based simply on having been around her a lot before, and every individual in the woman's life will typically encourage her to grant the man a chance and get into a relationship with him, and will begin asking her questions and forming assumptions that push that relationship further along. when are you two going to move in together? surely you want to have kids! well of course he wants to spend a lot of time with you, you're dating! and so in fact a person who is disempowered due to misogyny and who is also extremely passive and socially confused due to autism can actually be even more likely to wind up into a relationship or always to be in one. hell a great many autistics say that they didn't even choose their friendships at all, those friendships just happened to them by virtue of proximity and sufficient pushiness (or interest) on the part of the friends! so it's actually very easy for an autistic woman, no matter her degree of social skills or ability to neuro conform, to wind up in a relationship.
nail - march 3 - black brothers - trans!Regulus - @black-brothers-microfic - word count: 267
“Guess what Mother told me today,” Regulus said flatly, walking into Sirius’s room without permission and slamming the door behind himself.
“Hey, did you know there’s a new invention? S’called knocking. Try it,” Sirius mumbled, not looking over from where he was gazing into the mirror, carefully applying black eyeliner to his waterline.
“Hey, did you know there’s a new invention? It’s called not being a prat. Try it,” Regulus retorted, throwing himself onto Sirius’s bed. “Now, do you want to hear, or not?”
Sirius placed his eyeliner down and turned. “Fine. Go on.”
“She told me I need to start dressing like a girl, because that’s what society expects. That I should get over my little phase. That I should be more like you, because you dress like a boy, just like you’re supposed to,” Regulus said, rolling his eyes and grimacing as he repeated the words.
But Sirius was too busy narrowing his eyes and looking down at himself. As he did so, Regulus grinned, because he knew Sirius was thinking exactly what he was.
“She thinks I meet societal expectations?” he asked bemusedly, waving a hand over his outfit.
“Yes,” Regulus nodded gleefully. "More than me, anyway."
“Me. The son who paints his nails bright blue, wears more eyeliner than the average girl, rocks skinny jeans, and has hair below his shoulders?” Sirius demanded, looking dumbfounded. “While you, who wears normal pants and button downs and shit, are an embarrassment?”
“Yes,” Regulus agreed, smirking.
“Fuck. I’ve obviously failed. Should I start wearing glitter?” Sirius asked, turning back to his reflection.
“Wouldn’t hurt…” Regulus chuckled.
Gen: I don’t think we can mansplain, manipulate, or malewife our way out of it this time.
Tsukasa: *cracks knuckles* Manslaughter it is!
i used to hear Deku when i saw Ginrō but now i hear Ginrō when i see Deku
“In the face of current threats to our liberties, this project is a reminder of the principles and guts of generations of Bostonians, and it is expressed on the same sites where our history has played out over the centuries.”
Under the pseudonym "Silence Dogood," a group of artists projected a series of anti-tyranny messages onto the Old State House in Boston Tuesday.
Do you think people who are virgin should write smut? I feel like most of them don’t even know what they’re writing and just write what they think sex is
the implication this ask suggests that people who write about murders, cannibalism, politics, magic, royalty au, sci-fi, wars, supernatural, time travel, medieval era, werewolves, vampires, mermaids or goblins must be murderers, cannibals, presidents, wizards, royalties, astronauts, ghost hunters, soldiers, time travelers, knights, werewolves, vampires, mermaids or goblins in real life is so funny to me
sirius will randomly go into regulus’ room and update him on all of the drama in his life, and they’ll reflect on it, and then he’ll leave. this happens about every four months.
Kohaku: Did you two sleep together?
Senku: No.
Gen: No.
Chrome: Double negative, that's a yes.
Senkuu: Okay, here’s the plan. First, we set off the fire alarms-
Taiju: Senkuu, we can’t set off an alarm if there’s no fire, we’ll get in trouble!
Senkuu: Okay, fine. First, we’ll start a fire-
《 I'm just your average neurodivergent pansexual/graysexual potato who likes being a part of many fandoms || ENFP || Openly Polytheistic || Humans made the atom bomb but no mouse in the world would build a mousetrap || I'm a minor so yalls old timers stinky geese better get the hell out ok 》
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