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what’s so ironic to me is how much prostitution enthusiasts stress "listening to sex workers"—but the moment those very "sex workers" they claim to love so much disagree with them, suddenly they’re not worth listening to anymore.

"listen to sex workers" I'm listening! are you?

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This is an older post someone else made, and the statistic is 90% 

Let’s stop romanticizing sex work and listen to sex workers instead.

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It's very interesting to listen to history lectures that first say that there was no slavery at a certain period of time, and then follow it up with something like: "women didn't have the right to marry at their free will, property was passed down from father to son..." and so on.

you are absolutely sure that there was no slavery, right?

i cant get over it. why dont impoverished men choose to enter prostitution en masse?

a) „there are not enough women who want to buy sex so there is no market“

so you agree that prostitution is a system that mostly benefits men, as sex buyers? incheresting

b) „there are not enough women and they are not gay or bisexual“

so you agree that sex is not a service? the sexed body is the product? incheresting

c) „they have an easier time getting a job on the regular job market“

so you agree that prostitution profits from and reinforces misogyny? its not just a neutral job choice? incheresting

d) „they are often single mothers who need flexible work hours and get discriminated against on the job market“

oh so you again agree that prostitution profits from and reinforces misogyny? that single fathers are more rare and have better job opportunities? which pushes women into sexual exploitation? incheresting

e) „women dont have any other options“

so you agree that women are systematically groomed into prostitution, kept from exiting and kept from entering other fields where impoverished men find jobs? incheresting

f) „women choose prostitution over other options“

so you again agree that women are systematically groomed into prostitution, kept from exiting and kept from entering other fields where impoverished men find jobs? because why arent men choosing it if it offers such great benefits? incheresting

i just dont buy the „no alternatives“ argument. there are alternatives but impoverished women are systematically pushed into prostitution by their families and partners, by social workers and feminists telling them its a choice without questioning why men dont choose it, by employers who know this is a last resort for women and choose to employ men instead, and there is no pushback because the men as a class also profit from prostitution, as sex buyers and competitors on the regular job market.

and then we are being pitched that these women actually have no options? be for real

of course women will say its their choice if they are being told from all sides and are systematically kept from pursuing other options.

‘TERFs are not real feminists, all they do is bring down trans people, instead of actually addressing the female problems, in Afghanistan, etc.’

We do speak about these matters, you just don’t know because you are not a part of the radical feminist community. The thing is, you are not interested in it. The only thing that sparks your interest is the ‘dolls’.

Hence why you are showed with radical feminist’s posts with gender critique.

If you knew anything about radical feminism, you would hear conversations about skin- selling business in Nepal that targets the sex workers, you would know of the conversations about how surrogates were treated in India by the agencies, you would hear us talking about the patterns of misogyny in the global media.

But you are not interested. You have no desire to actually look into radical feminism, and understand what it is about. You have your agenda that you have to feed with hatred for ‘terf bitches’