"Trans men don't suffer as much because they're always forgotten and erased. So they don't have it as bad" I mean can you really argue that we are forgotten when you actively push us out of conversations and tell us we don't matter? Do we really not have it as bad, or do you just turn the other way when we are raped, beaten, brutalized, and murdered? Why is it always framed in a passive way, that we are just erased as if by accident, when we are scrubbed from history? Buried entirely or otherwise portrayed as women?
Why is our erasure discussed like there's nothing to be done about it, when all it takes to change that is to start listening to us?
Some of you need to learn that there are bigger issues then indis with complex identities that you don't understand.
"But they say they're achillean and use she/her pronouns !!" Good for her, there's bigger issues. "But they're a lesboy !!" That's cool, there are bigger issues. "But they use mew/mewself pronouns irl with no 'normal' pronouns !!" So glad mew found pronouns that suit mew, there's worse things in the world. "They identify as the literal concept of time !!" That's so swagful, indis are dying. "They identify as transmasc and transfem !!" They're probably intersex, plus, there's bigger issues. "But- !" It. Doesn't. Matter. There are individs who are suffering and you'd rather argue about the validity of a stranger's identity and gatekeep labels. Focus your energy on things that actually matter instead of the validity of complex identities.
No, it doesn't, you said something hateful, you got called out, and you don't like it so you cry snowflake, I don't do drugs, hell I don't even wanna smoke cigarettes let alone do drugs, and I'd say the exact same thing if we were in person and to follow through
Are you worried about being murder before you even reach 40?
Are you scared of being killed before you even reach 18?
Are you terrified of walking in public because you don't know if someone will see you and decide they hate who you are so much they cripple you and the reason they hate you is cause you don't exist in a way they don't agree with
You are a hateful person, trans women are the reason pride exists, and your page focuses a lot on trans women sex workers but there are sex workers from every gender and sexuality doesn't mean they're fetishes just because it's your fetish doesn't mean people spend thousands of dollars to transition to get people off
If you really think being trans is just a sexual thing then you should go touch grass and delete your pornhub account since you can only see queer people as sexual and not just people trying to exist
I hope you fucking walk on eggshells, I hope you're scared of doing something wrong, and maybe then you'll pull your head out of your ass and take your hand off your dick to see how much love and community and happiness you're missing out on by being hateful
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out
its so funny looking back on my 'not like other girls' phase now as an adult, knowing im audhd, aroace, and transmasc
like. honey. you dont like makeup because of sensory issues. you dont like dresses because of dysphoria. you dont care about boys because you're not attracted to them in that way. of Course you dont fit in with the other girls, a) you're not a girl and b) you're autistic as fuck dumbass
My gender is like a dad who went to go get a pack of cigarettes and never came back
”trans men are the weakest links of the trans community” my trans male friends and I have lived a lifetime of having our bodily autonomy stripped away to the point of sexual harassment. people talk about our bodies like everyone except us owns them because no one can handle the idea of precious female bodies being “mutilated” by gender affirming care. we are treated like traitors by women and as confused, silly girls by men. we have no spaces in which we belong because even the queer community tries to control our bodies. if we pass as men then we get ousted from queer-friendly spaces, and if we don’t pass as men we’re treated like cringe, theyfab trenders. everything we love is considered annoying. we’re called ugly and sad and “what a shame you guys are men haha”. We have to watch as society uses us as an excuse to ban gender affirming care for young people because our bodies belong to the government, because our bodies belong to our mothers, and because our anatomy is the only thing they see us as. And then we have to sit back as the trans community blames us for these bans. “All of these fake transtrenders are the reason they all hate us” when we’re busy having the women in our lives scrutinise our bodies to make sure we’re not being “infected” by the trans contagion. There’s no space we can belong in. No space that tries to make us feel welcome because either they treat us like women or they treat us like dangerous, cis men.
Every trans man I know has been sexually assaulted. Every trans man I know has been brought to suicide attempts, either due to their families or due to people online bullying them to death. Our struggles are constantly diminished and yet behind the scenes we’re fucking exhausted from fighting attacks from every single goddamn side. How fucking dare you call us weak. We’re going through fucking hell like every other goddamn trans person out there and our bodies are being abused and controlled and scrutinised every day of our fucking lives. Have you seen how TERFs talk about our bodies? How they lament us “mutilating” our breasts, our fertility, our anatomy, all in the name of feminism. That’s sexual fucking harassment, and it’s disgusting. But that’s all they fucking see us as. We’re not human, we’re just defected specimens. Cis women give themselves free passes to harass our bodies because they see us as “one of them”. One of them, but wrong. One of them, but need to be fixed. My mother regularly checks my chest to make sure I’m not trying to flatten it, and she can get away with it because “that’s what mothers do to their daughters.” Even when I’m not her daughter. Even when I’m screaming at the top of my lungs wanting to die because my body doesn’t belong to me. My body stopped belonging to me as soon as I came out as trans, because female empowerment doesn’t apply to me anymore. Female empowerment is now about “correcting” me, to restore my body back to its former glory, because only then was I worth something.
We are not weak. We are strong as fuck for dealing with the shit we have to deal with. And the worst part is, so much of the bullying comes from other trans men. We’ve been taught to hate ourselves so much that the only way to get ahead is to put down our own brothers and treat them in the way we’ve been treated.
There is no weak link of the community because we’re all dealing with absolute shit from all sides, but don’t you ever suggest that trans men are somehow the whiny babies who have nothing to complain about when we’re constantly holding back from screaming our guts out because there’s nothing else we can do.
I am not harassing you like I said answer my questions with undeniable evidence and I'll stop responding I'm not offended but I'm allowed to say whatever I want to you since freedom of speech is so important you can't get mad at me you aren't using my emotions against me you're just being a dick I'm not crying I'm calmer than you are you're not hurting my feelings you're getting on my nerves by ignoring every single one of my questions I asked
How are you walking on eggshells
How are trans people degrading cis women
How a community that has been around longer than religion is doing more harm than good
How is a community that is in multiple different species harming people
Are you worried about being murdered before you turn 40
Are you scared of being killed before you turn 18
Are you terrified of walking in public out of fear of being hatecrimed
None of these questions have been given actual answers or even been acknowledged but I have acknowledged every part of your responses
Answer my questions
Or are you too scared to admit you're wrong
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad.
Answer my fucking questions Jesus Christ are you stupid you want me to leave you alone but you won't do the one thing I said would get me to go back to acting like you don't exist
And your reasoning for being right is purely emotional and opinion-based; what happened to facts over feelings hm? Or does it not count for you and like I've said so many fucking times I don't do drugs
Also, you get triggered by our existence, you can't see a trans woman without getting angry, you can't see a trans man without getting angry, and you have an entire blog dedicated to being triggered by trans people then you get pissy when a queer and trans person questions you like seriously you can't answer a single question that would back up your argument but you can call trans women a fetish
You're pathetic
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
TikTok comments that are actually funny.
Hi nice to meet you I spend very little time on Tumblr and will often go months without touching it I go by all pronouns but she/her including neopronouns feel free to DM me as long as it's SFW
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