Hi nice to meet you I spend very little time on Tumblr and will often go months without touching it I go by all pronouns but she/her including neopronouns feel free to DM me as long as it's SFW
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"it's all in your head" correct! unfortunately I am also in there
Our world is full of hate rn, and so I just want to post a little positivity.
You’re valid. You’re loved. You’re beautiful. You’re not alone.
You deserve so much more than this world, and I’m sorry this is the one you were given.
You’re enough.
“why do trans men reference their agab so much” i mean being defined out of feminism and left with very little ways to make people understand our experience and oppression as trans men does have something to do with it.
Ice cold takes from a Transgender Woman:
Not all Men are evil
Everyone has the capacity for evil
Transgender Men are men
Transgender Women are women
Excluding Cisgender Men from your spaces requires Transgender Men to out themselves if they want to engage (Same for Women)
Anyone can be Non-Binary, there is no "look" or requirement
Non-binary masculine presenting people should be welcome in queer spaces, many are just treated as men and predators
Non-binary feminine presenting people should be welcome in queer spaces without being seen as "Woman-Lite"
"yeah i agree trans men are affected by oppression but also anybody who uses the word transandrophobia is transmisogynystic for magical reasons i can only explain with bioessentialist rhetoric and the ridiculous idea that any trans person is "exempt" from misogyny"
then you go onto the transandrophobia tag and its just trans guys showing screenshots of people saying they should be killed and then asking "hey dont say this stuff about us please"
It’s a struggle to want to be seen as the same gender as a cis man but also not wanting to have the fact that I’m trans erased.
Yes, I’m a man like he is. No, I don’t get treated like one. I’m not getting paid like one. Doctors think I might change my mind about not wanting to get pregnant and are more concerned about what my future cis straight husband might want after I detransition, a thing they’re sure will happen despite me having zero desire to detransition and being happier living as a man. Cis women act like I’m forcibly turning them into lesbians if I show any sign I might want them sexually, even though lesbians either want nothing to do with me or think they can “fix” me. Cis gay men don’t want me in their spaces and accuse me of wanting to do conversion therapy on them.
None of this is how a cis man would be treated but I’m still the same fucking gender as him. Kind of like how a gay man and a straight man and a bi man and an ace man are the same gender but get treated differently. If you can wrap your head around this concept, the rest should not be that hard for you.
"Masculinity is rewarded" have you ever spoken to a transmasc or a butch or a tomboy or any masculine woman/person perceived as a woman. Have you ever spoken to a gnc transfem.
I'll straight-up come out and say it; rape with subsequential forced impregnation is the worst thing that could happen to a person. It is life-ruining and traumatising in so many different ways. I can't believe this is even a point of contention anymore.
If you see a trans man talking about his fear of being forced into pregnancy and your response is "b-but muh feelings!" you should genuinely just throw yourself off the nearest bridge because you are an actual waste of oxygen.
It is absolutely not bigoted to discuss the fear of something like that happening, and if you consider it to be, then you clearly don't care about any rape victims at all and have no place calling yourself a feminist.
Y’know how trans women have identified a phenomenon where, even though they are women and may have known themselves to be women for quite a while, accepting cis women will treat them as though they are guests to womanhood, like lesser women, or like they’re new to it, or as though they could not possibly already know what it’s like being a woman?
Some trans people do that at trans men with transness. Trans men aren’t lesser trans or guests in transness who don’t understand what it’s like to be trans.
Being a trans man in trans spaces is so fun!
People will constantly say “trans women” when they mean “trans people” but if you say anything you’re speaking over trans women, which is transmisogyny, so honestly you should just shut up.
If you make you make original posts about how you like being a man, you’re perpetuating toxic masculinity and everyone knows men suck anyway so you should just shut up.
If you post about transphobia then you’re taking attention away from trans women, who are clearly facing more and worse transphobia, so you should just shut up.
If you post about misogyny you’re just making stuff up bc men don’t experience misogyny so you should just shut up.
If you post about anti-masculinity you’re just a MRA bc everyone knows men never face gender-based discrimination so you should just shut up.
And if you post about how it seems like everyone just wants you to shut up, you’re being hysterical and making a big deal about nothing and should just shut up.
Genuinely hate when people act like misgendering me is this big thing that I’ll have a mental breakdown over. (As an afab non binary person)
If it’s a mistake; Totally fine, understandable, try to do better. If they don’t know how to use them in a sentence I’ll give them a tip or examples.
Purposefully ignoring my pronouns and identity in an attempt to hurt me: You’re a dick, but I’ll move on.
On another note: I have genuinely had people say that if I piss them off that they’ll just get me back by purposefully misgendering me.
Am I supposed to find that funny? “Haha, that’s so funny that you’re threatening to try to invalidate my entire existence as a trans person if I mildly annoy you”? Yeah, that’ll work out well.
I really do not care if you misgender me as long as you are actively trying to get better, are apologizing, and as long as it isn’t purposeful. But I have no respect for people that use it as a cheap way to try and make me upset.
sorry I couldn't resist
What the media won't show
since theres been an uptick in transandrophobia and aphobia lately:
you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are asexual or acespec
you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aromantic or arospec
you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aplatonic or aplspec
you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are afamilial or afamspec
you need to care about and support trans men and transmasc people that are aspec
Are you trying to hurt my feelings? Cause it's not gonna work
You can call trans women rapists but you can even answer basic questions
What a loser
All people who think trans people are just a fetish are porn addicts🙄
Answer my fucking questions Jesus Christ are you stupid you want me to leave you alone but you won't do the one thing I said would get me to go back to acting like you don't exist
And your reasoning for being right is purely emotional and opinion-based; what happened to facts over feelings hm? Or does it not count for you and like I've said so many fucking times I don't do drugs
Also, you get triggered by our existence, you can't see a trans woman without getting angry, you can't see a trans man without getting angry, and you have an entire blog dedicated to being triggered by trans people then you get pissy when a queer and trans person questions you like seriously you can't answer a single question that would back up your argument but you can call trans women a fetish
You're pathetic
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
Working class conservatives are like, "Why are you throwing bricks at me?"
I'm not. I'm throwing bricks at the rich people who are expoiting both of us for their own profit. You just keep jumping in the way.
If you're a single issue feminist and you want to raise your son to respect women but you also use authoritarian parenting, you're pretty much guaranteeing that your son will be sexist. You're pretty much guaranteeing that your son will think being sexist is siding with the resistance, which is a common piece of propaganda that sexists use.
If you deny any struggles that he has and you expect him to care about women's struggles, you're pretty much guaranteeing that he will see feminism as women getting special treatment.
If you demand that he respect women and also demand that he respect authority, and if you call it "disrespect" when he yells at you in direct response to you yelling at him first, then you're pretty much guaranteeing that he won't take complaints of "disrespect" seriously.
If you rule with an iron fist and make him afraid of you, you're pretty much guaranteeing that he won't respect anyone who can't make him afraid of them, and the vast majority of women who he disrespects are not going to be able to make him afraid.
If you want him to question society's harmful attitudes against women, you also have to raise him to question society's harmful attitudes that benefit you. This includes society's harmful attitudes against children.
Parents (when their child is young): "I know everything. You must obey my every command. The tiniest amount of doubt toward me is considered so disrespectful that I'm justified in hitting you for it.
Parents (when their child is grown): "Please forgive me. I'm only human. There's a lot I didn't know. I tried my best."
Parents always say this:
"You're smart. Therefore, it's okay for me to expect more of you."
"You're smart. Therefore, I don't have to care how I explain things to you."
"You're smart. Therefore, it's okay for me to assume that any mistakes you make are intentional."
"You're smart. Therefore, if you say that you struggle with something, it's okay for me to assume that you're just lazy, afraid, lacking confidence, lacking motivation, or any other excuse to dismiss your struggles as fake.
but never this:
"You're smart. Therefore, I will put my authority aside and consider the possibility that you are right and I am wrong.
Like any abusive authority figure, they want you to be smart enough to uphold their authority but not smart enough to challenge their authority.
I am not harassing you like I said answer my questions with undeniable evidence and I'll stop responding I'm not offended but I'm allowed to say whatever I want to you since freedom of speech is so important you can't get mad at me you aren't using my emotions against me you're just being a dick I'm not crying I'm calmer than you are you're not hurting my feelings you're getting on my nerves by ignoring every single one of my questions I asked
How are you walking on eggshells
How are trans people degrading cis women
How a community that has been around longer than religion is doing more harm than good
How is a community that is in multiple different species harming people
Are you worried about being murdered before you turn 40
Are you scared of being killed before you turn 18
Are you terrified of walking in public out of fear of being hatecrimed
None of these questions have been given actual answers or even been acknowledged but I have acknowledged every part of your responses
Answer my questions
Or are you too scared to admit you're wrong
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
My hair isn't dyed, and I don't have TikTok, scientifically you are wrong not just chromosome-wise (XX, XY, XXY, X, Y) but hormonally wise(for example PCOS in which Cis women have higher testosterone than average) and historically wise(natives of many many cultures had more than 2 genders) maybe learn how to spell and use proper grammar before you start insulting me clearly you don't read anything more than tweets and conservative media and you still haven't answered my questions once you can give me legitimate answers to my questions that can not be easily debunked I will leave you alone and we can go on our merry ways is it that hard to answer questions I've gone as far as posting screenshots of legitimate sources to back up my arguments and all you've done is insult me like an elementary school student
Dam theres a trans whatever weirdo harrasing my friends Cause he has an oppinion and vents this is proof they are drugged up Weirdos!!! Harming them from their woke madness
Beware of @goblinhivemind
hes insane . Probly from the hormone pills he takes
Yeah and about 1 in 5 of those 8+ billion people are queer, you are publicly posting your opinions I get to comment on them don't like it write in a journal I never said I was a main character but I did ask how we make you step on eggshells when we get executed just for existing in multiple countries, I asked a question you still haven't answered it I have asked multiple times how you have to walk on eggshells and you dodge the question and insult me I have given you solid evidence that you are in fact wrong and you keep calling me a druggie, keep calling me insane, I didn't get "eMoTiOnAl" until you started being a jackass, you don't scare me you won't make me cry answer my fucking question unless you're to scared to admit that you don't walk on eggshells you're just an asshole who wants to shit on minorities and get away with it
Anything made by the Woke, dei , queer trans etc movement is SHIT . Ruins everything and force us to walk on eggshells . Fuck it yall are a bunch of drugged up fools and the neo pronouns dam yall are sensitive fools
I don't take hormone pills and I don't take drugs😊 how am I harming your friend? Did I hurt her feelings? Am I not allowed an opinion or the ability to comment on what they say on a very public website? What happened to freedom of speech or do I not get that cause I'm a tranny "pervert" I asked questions I still haven't gotten an answer for any of them
Dam theres a trans whatever weirdo harrasing my friends Cause he has an oppinion and vents this is proof they are drugged up Weirdos!!! Harming them from their woke madness
Beware of @goblinhivemind
hes insane . Probly from the hormone pills he takes