Business Trip Cheaters

Fucked a friend’s g/f (again, for the first time)

A while ago I posted on here about a friend who started dating a woman that I knew and that I fucked in the past.  I met her through a woman I was fucking (cheaters flocking together).  She (the subject of the post) was married at the time and was shocked to see me at a gathering with her new boyfriend; one of my friends.

It’s been well over a year and they are still together.  Around the Holidays she reached out to ask me an innocuous question, but it opened the door to some flirting.  Nothing was coming of it, but I still farmed the opportunity.  Over the last month we started sexting.  This weekend, on Saturday, she came over and I fucked her while he went to the city to watch the river get dyed green and stay down there for drunken St. Patrick’s Day merriment.

She knew when she was coming over that it was going down.  It wasn’t a bait-and-switch where I was going to try my luck.  She showed up dressed casually, but very sexy.  I had to peel the jeans off of her and her fake, perky tits had no bra, so her nipples poked against her blouse. Great hair goes a long way, even if I plan on fucking it up, but she put a lot of effort in looking amazing for me.

This was her first cheat on her man, which was hot to learn. She did say that she wanted to get this out of her system before they went down the path of getting married.  They’ve looked at rings and are on that path. She was married before and is feeling her own clock ticking for kids. I know it isn’t a one and done. It would be nice to have another regular to work into the rotation, especially one that has a number of plausible reasons to interact with me.

Fail and learn

Everyone seems to believe that I don’t have my share of failures out there with women.  I do.  People only really want to hear the sexy and exciting part of life.  The sizzle, if you will.  However, last night was a great example of meeting a woman in a bar, in Columbus, OH, hitting it off, and then a rejection.  It wasn’t bad, it was mostly her freaking out and realizing that if she went up to my room that she was going to be pressured to cheat.  She was all “maybe”, so I tried another angle.  I got a “I don’t think so” and then after another angle a flat-out “no”.  Rejection happens and it’s all good.  I still had fun with the experience and learned a bit from it.

Her husband likes baseball

This last weekend I didn’t plan on having much going on, however as the weekend drew near, a friend reached out about her husband being out of town for the weekend.  Her husband planned on leaving early on Saturday morning to head down to St. Louis to watch some Cubs/Cards games through Sunday, so it allowed me to have some unbridled free time with his wife.

She waited for him to leave and then got dolled up before she came over to my place.  She came over with these faux leather leggings that had a sheen and hugged every curve of her ass and legs.  As much as I wanted to jump her right then and there, I forced myself to take my time and even went out of my way to slow her down when she wanted more.  We had all day and Sunday to play together, so there was no rush.  We kissed and ran our hands over each other for over an hour, but edged away from going too far.  I wanted to build the tension and have it last.  We maybe said 5 words to each other in the first two hours she was there.  Eventually we had to do lunch, which we stayed in for.

The process of making lunch was a long and sexy one.  We didn’t make anything fancy, but it was a group effort that took longer than normal due to sexy interruptions of mouths and hands busy doing other things.  A while after lunch, I couldn’t take it anymore.  Our hands went farther with each passing moment.  Eventually I pulled my cock out and I grabbed her head to guide my cock into her mouth, roughness taking over as she got into having me use her as she intermittently gagged.  I was on the couch as she knelt between my legs, stroking my cock with her ring-hand, and looking up at me as she sucked my cock.  My left hand was firmly grabbing the hair at the back of her head and roughly encouraging her to take more.  She had to pull off a few times to recover and she liked having her face slapped with my cock as she stroked with deep breaths.  She got me close to cumming and I pulled myself away from that edge.  Instead, I stood up, bent her over on the couch, knees on the carpet, and pulled her leggings down around her thighs as I pressed her face into the cushions.  I could see how wet she was between her legs, still pressed together from the waist of the leggings.  I reached between her thighs to grab her thong, I ripped the part between her legs, and began pressing my bare cock into her soaking wet cunt.  

She still had her heels on as I pushed into her tightness, slightly deeper with each thrust, feeling her stretch and relax.  I had one hand that tightly grabbed her long hair and pulled it backwards to force her head up as I fucked her from behind, the sounds she made got me even harder.  My other hand grabbed her hips as I used them for leverage as I pressed into her deep pussy until I bottomed out.  After she started relaxing, I pulled her up, pulled her leggings off but made her put her heels back on, and put her onto her back; spreading her legs as I slid back into her.  I pinched her nipples, slapped her tits, and grabbed her throat to hold her down.  She ended up on her side, one leg raised, as I fucked her, but I pulled her arms behind her back and used her leggings to bind her wrists and forearms behind her.  I ripped her thong the rest of the way off and stuffed it into her mouth as I continued to fuck and her her pussy.  It was after I started getting rougher that she came on my cock.  I felt her start to tense up and her thighs and ass kept tightening up as I felt her hold her breath as I squeezed her throat.  When she came there was a relaxing release where her body just went limp for a second and she exhaled hard.  I made her turn around and suck my cock until I came all over her face.

We went on like that into and through dinner.  We relaxed and watched a movie, but as we cuddled, we ended up heading upstairs to fuck some more.  In the morning she went back to her place for a bit and then came back after a few hours to hang out some more.  She came back in an old, skin-tight bandage dress that she was willing to part with if it got destroyed.  She made the suggestion, so I made it a point to rip it as we got to fucking again.  It was an unexpected pleasure to have her as my sex slave for 36 hours, especially since I hadn’t seen or fucked her for a few months.  She went home and later told me that she told her husband that she just lounged around watching Netflix, enjoying the time to herself.

In Chicago; Will travel

I have a lot of people reaching out to me about where I’m local to and if I travel.  I’m in the Chicagoland area and I travel all the time for work.  My travel includes mostly the domestic US and sometimes Canada (mostly Toronto or Montreal).  

-Yes, I’ve fucked married/taken women while traveling.  Often, to be honest.   -Yes, I’ve met couples and married women online to fuck.   -Yes, I’ve met women/couples online and during business trips in their area, fucked them (the women).   -Yes, I’ve fucked women/couples from Tumblr.

Guys

If you are reaching out and want me to fuck your wife - yes, I’ve done this before.  The vast majority of the time the setup includes her knowledge.  If you are expecting me to travel somewhere (or even as part of my own business trip) to just try to seduce her without her knowledge of the experience, then just know that those setups are hit or miss.  If she doesn’t know you are setting it up and has no idea that you are interested in it, she will very likely *not* engage with me if you are around.  Sometimes these situations require some cultivation over time, which can be difficult remotely.  Have I done it before?  Yes.  Many times; but mostly with couples/women local to me where I have the ability to be local and cultivate that connection for seduction.

If your wife knows that you want to set this up then its important to know if I would be a first for her.  Basically it depends how experienced the couple is in cuckolding, sharing (vixen/stag), etc.  I will *NOT* meet any couple quickly and without getting to know them.  I’ve had a lot of my time wasted in the past or strange situations where the guy is a lying about the situation, the woman isn’t really into it or she doesn’t know what is going on.  I will *NOT* meet any couple where I’m not very physically attracted to the wife. I know, I’m an asshole, but I own it.  I enjoy fucking married women, but I don’t just fuck anyone.  I need to be very attracted to them.  They wouldn’t waste their time with me if they weren’t very attracted to me, right?  HOWEVER, regardless of attraction, I’m happy to talk with couples about the situation and provide recommendations on how to go about things.  Everyone can use more friends; right?

I am not into anything sexual with men.  You can watch, you can clean up after me, your wife and I can talk dirty to you; whatever.  I’ve had men try to ask me in the heat of the moment to do something with them and the answer will always be, respectfully, no.

Ladies

Thanks for reaching out and continue to do so.  I love hearing your stories and the different walks of life or situations that you are in.  Like men/couples above, I will not meet you quickly.  I need to get to know someone before I meet, single, taken, married or whatever.  I’m happy with one night stands when traveling, but when I meet someone off the internet, there needs to be more there because there is so much that can be hidden as we connect only online.  I am 100% discreet and am not looking for any connection other than friendship and sex.

That’s really it.  I love talking to and meeting new people, so continue to reach out.

I can tell, you’re not doing that on purpose at all.  Your slow clicks; pretending to peruse some content.  You intentionally burn seconds and play with your hair, pretending to sound miffed, like you are having trouble with something.  The look you give me over your shoulder as I catch your eyes says that you know you’ve been caught.  I say something innocuous that couldn’t be misconstrued as harassment, like, “we should get a drink.”  It lets you know that I am on to your game.  I don’t ask; I say.  Asking gives you an out.  Saying and stating lets you know that I know you’re a coward if you end your flirting right there.  Make an excuse to your boss why we need to step away.  Tell your husband that you’re working late.  I don’t give a shit.  Figure it out and feel your heart pound as you meet me for that drink.

Thanks for turning your asks on, now I don’t have to bother chat messages. Haha. I do think seducing married women is hot and I see alot of attractive, young Asian women where I live and I wonder sometimes if anyone’s been successful in seducing young married Asian women. I feel that it would be harder to do than someone who’s been married a while.

I’m not sure I understand where you are going with this.  Is the subject of seduction and question around viability of seduction focused on someone that is Asian or young?

You need to tackle these things separately, before you combine and confused them.

Asian women - Yes, Asian women are susceptible to seduction and capable of cheating.

Young women - Yes, young women are susceptible to seduction and capable of cheating.

When you combine these segments of women, why would the answer change?  If you are getting into the “more likely to” neighborhood of statistics, go do some field research.  I never really cared to keep track of wins or losses.

Sex addiction

Someone I’ve been fucking lately started probing and asking me questions about myself.  Things like, why I do what I do.  The topic of sex addiction and maybe understanding where my promiscuous and taboo-seeking nature comes from.

I haven’t seen anyone professionally about this, but I will say (and many of you can deduce) that I’m addicted to sex.  I always seek it.  There is a form of validation that I receive when I fuck new women, sure.  It comes in the form of a thrill that I’ve attracted someone to the point that they will fuck.  The taboo is interlaced with it in that I validate my own sexuality when someone will cheat on their husband with me.  I see attractive women with wedding rings and I get hard.  I feel compelled to talk to and flirt with them.  I’m an attractive male with a big cock that makes a lot of money in my sales job.  It makes it relatively easy when you couple that with my confidence.  I feel that validation when I see a woman’s eyes and absorb her responses to flirting.  I feel it when she feels my hard body against hers and she appreciates how I look and feel.  I feel it when she sees the size of my cock.

That winning feeling of beating her husband because he isn’t giving her what she needs and (in the majority of situations) he simply cannot give her with an inferior cock.

I work out because I love it.  The endorphins I get and the high of working out is an addiction as well.  It’s the thrill and the feeling that just pumps through your veins.  It makes it easy when one addiction helps the success of another.  Thankfully I don’t have an addiction to any hard core drugs, although I’ve met a fair number of women who love to couple drugs, like cocaine, with their cheating habits.

There have been times that I tried to pull away from this lifestyle, but the addiction is too strong.  I have no anchor, as only a few close friends know about my vice and those that do are fucking me.  This isn’t something that I can easily and readily share with close friends, due to the immense level of social judgment that comes with the territory.  I travel often for work, so I’m oftentimes in random cities by myself and unless I lock myself in my hotel room, I am like a kid in a candy store, hopping from location to location, looking for interesting women to meet.

I’m not looking for sympathy, I just have this blog to vent my stories and experiences.  It’s good for me to tell my stories and be able to have a level of anonymity that comes with it.  I plan on sticking with this lifestyle for as long as I can.  I have zero desire to get married and make enough money to be that old rich guy on a boat, inviting women to come travel with me.

Thoughtful day.  Don’t try to stop me.  Come play with me!

One night stand

I’m in Boston this week, for work, and last night I met a flight attendant at my hotel bar.  Her crew retired for the evening and she was looking for company.  She is married and in her late 20s.  The flirting was forward from both parties, with a lot of “if I wasn’t married” and “if you weren’t married” lines.  Those are usually pretty good indicators if someone is interested, if they are saying them or responding well.

Within an hour of talking, she said she didn’t have much time before she needed to crash for the night and if her being married wasn’t a problem, that I could join her in her room to hang out.

While we fucked, she kept saying how she should really stop and get to bed, but we kept going.  We spend twice as long fucking than we did getting to know each other.  I asked her if she cheated often and she said she cheated when she could and her husband doesn’t know.  It started off as revenge for him cheating, but she has cheated since her first episode.

Dating and open

I've been fucking/dating this divorced friend for some time and we have started referring to each other as the girlfriend/boyfriend. We still know it is not exclusive and she has really enjoyed time with me because of my open-mind when it comes to sexuality and her wanting to explore it for herself. She has gotten more dick since her divorce than before. I've helped her meet other guys and encouraged her to do so. I rubbed off on her with my vice for married women and she has gotten off by finding and fucking married men. We have played with some of her female friends and there is an understanding that I fuck them on the side if I want.

She joined me with some single women, but it wasn't until recently that a few married women I've been fucking have felt comfortable joining us. Typically they just want discretion and limiting who know they cheat in whatever circle. The hottest was fucking my friend's wife, who hit it off with her. I didn't blow my friend's wife's cover. She actually brought up sexual topics with my g/f and after my g/f confided in her about some sexual exploring, she picked up on how my friend's wife and I don't always get along in social settings (most people think we dislike each other), but she seemed interested in her. She put two and two together and asked her. I guess my friend's wife was stunned and her lack of answering was all the answer my g/f needed. Since then, we've found three times to get my friend's wife to get away from the fam, meet at my g/f's place and fuck.

I also fucked her with my neighbor, who was super interested in my g/f. The neighbor kept asking about her and when we admitted to a deeper level of dating, she insisted on meeting her. It's been a great adventure so far.

Mothers need to feel sexy and wanted too.  It takes a certain man for her to open up and experience it before it’s too late.  Life is short.