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Bull action weekend

This weekend I hung out with a wife that I met years ago, who is in an open marriage.  I’m a bull for her and he knows it.  He was out for the weekend and just wanted her to send him pics/videos of us fucking.  I met them online, years ago, and the first time we played, he watched.  It was the only time he watched and he just wanted to make sure I was safe with his wife.  Since then, we’ve all hung out a few times, but mostly knowing that I was going to be with his wife at the end of the evening.  He’s older, with money, and has a small cock, and she likes to enjoy a man in great shape, with a big cock. I can’t blame her.

She is another example of a woman looking for rules to break.  Even though she has an open marriage, the first time it was just us, she didn’t want me to use a condom.  For a while, I fucked her bareback and came in her repeatedly, even though it was his rule to not fuck without a condom, let alone cum in her.

Of course, I used protection this weekend and I have for a while with her.

I miss helping married women find other men or women to play with us. In my 20s, I was fucking a married coworker in her mid-40s. She had an amazing body and once on the road, I watched her fuck three guys we met. As a mom and wife, she had to live a very different life and admitted that her husband has no clue about her needs or her past. In her own 20s, she said she was in Vegas and fucked a bachelor party of five guys with a friend and let a number of them cum in her.

Broken Trophy Wife

I've been fucking a local trophy wife for a little over a year now. I met her online and we had the same chemistry that we had online, but we just had to be discreet, meeting far from where she lived or coming to my place. Things started to progress in a strange way because she started to confide in me in ways that started to get deeper and more personal; things she should be sharing with a therapist. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy deep conversations, but the subject matter made me think she needed some professional help.

She is in her late 20s, no kids, and her husband is in his late 40s and has kids from a previous marriage. By all other accounts, from outsiders, everyone would assume they have the perfect life. He is very successful and she does not work, but she is VERY bored and she feels very useless other than being her husband's arm candy and someone for him to fuck. She has a lot of regrets about never going to college and pursing her own career, to which I strongly urged her to go back since money and time are not an issue for her. When I encouraged her, she was so excited to have someone that was supportive. Her husband has not been supportive and I think that is by design to keep a sense of power, leverage, and reliance on him. She said that when they dated and married, everyone knew the game and she has been accused of being a gold digger, which has made her want to prove herself even more. I've given her a lot of advice on how to approach the subject or how to even just go ahead and pursue what she wants without his permission.

Unfortunately, while she has really connected with me physically and with my support, she was upset that I stopped fucking her. This added to her sense of inadequacy, asking about what she did wrong, but I felt very uncomfortable being a potential lifeboat for her. I do very well for myself and the last thing I need is someone that unilaterally decides that they don't want to be in their situation to be with me. It has happened before and it ended terribly; I hated everything about it. Pushing her physically away has encouraged her to try harder despite me being 100% clear about my expectations and enjoying being a friend more than a lover. I encouraged her to find a professional to speak to, to help her navigate this. Her friends have not been supportive because she feels that they resent her lifestyle as a gold digger and don't think she will ever apply herself. To be honest, I think she would do well in college and with her drive. Sometimes people need that second birth to feel that fire lit under their ass instead of just pursuing higher education because it is expected of them.

Anyway, not the sexiest of updates. It has been hard not fucking her because the sex is great, we click, and she is gorgeous. I just do not need her catching feelings.

What's the most humiliating thing that's happened to a guy whose girl you've been messing around with? A few examples would be appreciated.

Are you talking about guys that know and are into that lifestyle or guys that don’t know and are humiliated by their women when they find out?

I want to be clear - I am not turned on by humiliating guys.  I’m sure it is a power trip for some dudes, but that thought is alien to me.  Power over a guy unknowingly, sure.  If guys are into it and they want to be humiliated as a result of having me join in and fuck their wife, ok.  I’m down, but that’s not something I actively pursue.

I’ve gotten caught a few times, but survived.  Most of the guys are too cowardly to do anything.  As for specific examples there, I’m not turned on by it, so I’m not spending time regurgitating the moment.

As for guys that know.  I mean, some guys get caged or like it when their wife talks down to them.  That kind of stuff.  Being “forced” to eat my cum out if their wife.  At that point, the guy is into it, so I don’t know how humiliating it is for them.  If their entire world (friends, family, coworkers) KNEW that they were into that lifestyle, it would very likely be humiliating.  When you provide consent to have someone fuck your wife, it kind of takes the edge off...unless you’re just a weak dude that is terrified that she will leave you and you let her fuck, pretending it isn’t happening.  That’s happened.  I have guys reaching out to me for advice on it and I tell them to just up and leave her.  If you hate that she does it and try to turn a blind eye, leave her.  There’s nothing she can provide that another woman can’t.  Fucking stand up for yourselves.  Men AND women.  Pursue what you want.

Is it really a threesome if he watches and just fucks you after I'm done? I guess.

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One night stand

I’m in Boston this week, for work, and last night I met a flight attendant at my hotel bar.  Her crew retired for the evening and she was looking for company.  She is married and in her late 20s.  The flirting was forward from both parties, with a lot of “if I wasn’t married” and “if you weren’t married” lines.  Those are usually pretty good indicators if someone is interested, if they are saying them or responding well.

Within an hour of talking, she said she didn’t have much time before she needed to crash for the night and if her being married wasn’t a problem, that I could join her in her room to hang out.

While we fucked, she kept saying how she should really stop and get to bed, but we kept going.  We spend twice as long fucking than we did getting to know each other.  I asked her if she cheated often and she said she cheated when she could and her husband doesn’t know.  It started off as revenge for him cheating, but she has cheated since her first episode.

Open relationship

In my 20s I dated a woman who was a slut and I knew it. We had an open relationship and she gave me access to her g/fs, who used me as their token big-dick experience when they were bored or lonely. It was a lot of fun. When we fucked, we would share stories of what we did and what we still wanted to do. She is a total knockout and an ugly duckling that bloomed late enough to have a burning desire for attention from men in the wrong way. Her dad is a total asshole. Once I had her and two of her friends strip at a friend's bachelor party. I kicked things off and fucked her in front of everyone and then let the bachelor have a turn. Eventually all 12 other guys fucked her and 10 of them came in her. The other girls, one of which had an oblivious boyfriend, fucked the guys as well. We broke up when things got kind of boring for each other and when one of her friends left her b/f because she fell in love with me. I dated the friend for a bit, but regularly cheated on her. She want ok with me still loving that lifestyle and she wanted me all to herself. Anyway, my ex ended up married to this ugly rich guy, who she did NOT have an open relationship with. I continued to fuck her until they moved to Boston and regularly left my load in her pussy for him, which he never noticed. Her man never knew and she cheats on him to this day.

It’s natural, isn’t it?  There is a reason we are primal animals that are drawn to the wild and the risk.

Separated; a COVID affair

Last year, I met a woman who (to this day) is going through a divorce. We met on a dating app, since she was feeling bored and lonely with time on her hands. My profile leaves no questions as to what I'm all about, so it does a good job weeding out unnecessary matches and interests. It's funny the way women will reach out to me. They fall into three buckets.

1 - They are blunt about their interests and the heavy-handed flirting kicks off right away.

2 - They match and talk to me like I'm any other guy, perhaps conveniently ignoring the darker parts of who I am that I'm pretty upfront about.

3 - They are shy and awkward, trying to find a way to be 1, above, but lacking the resolve or sexual confidence.

My new friend is a 3. Typically 3s are boring as hell because they cannot be honest with themselves. There is this song and dance they expect you to go along with to make them comfortable and oftentimes there is not a payoff because they don't know what to do with the comfort once they have it. I'm all about cultivating that connection and comfort, but I stop putting energy into conversations if I do not get any back.

My 3-Friend broke through that barrier quickly and jumped into being a 1. It was like unleashing a beast that wanted to be let out inside her. Very pretty girl-next-door that got married young to some pathetic dude that did not appreciate what he had. She's still pretty young and without kids, but she ended up getting a boob job since I guess her tits were pretty small before. It brought a spark to the bedroom, but that eventually waned. But where her husband attention dropped off, she was realizing she was getting attention from other guys.

In 2019 she worked a booth at a conference for work. The first night she hit it off with some guy at the hotel bar, let her guard down, and ended up fucking him back in his room. The first night was a shock to her as she said she felt an immense amount of shame walking back to her room. She thought it was a one-time and one-off thing and struggled with both feeling incredibly guilty and excited. She worked the booth the next day and a different guy was really chatty and flirty with her. He asked her to grab dinner and she went. They ended up in a lounge later that night, making out and fucking in his room. The next day was uneventful, but the fourth night she was relaxing by another bar since her work duties were done. She intentionally ditched her team to just see what kind of flirting was out there without prying eyes. She met a few guys, but she had chemistry with another and fucked him back in his room.

The experience changed her and she realized she needed to live a different life than the one she seemed unhappily stuck in. To this day, she still hasn't admitted much of that to her friends and she only fucked one more local guy before separating in the middle of the pandemic. After breaking down her walls, she very quickly moved to opening up about her experience with me the same night I started talking with her. I first matched with her and it took a few days for us to chat in real-time, but once the spark was there, there was no denying it. She was only a week and a half into not living with her man anymore and she was thrilled to meet someone she could confide in and not judge her. She knows all her friends would judge her or guys would feel threatened by her sluttiness, even if just a few moments in her life.

I let another week go by to make sure she wasn't the psycho type that wanted to quickly and desperately meet and she appreciated the space and time. We sexted regularly and decided to meet for coffee. We clicked quickly and I followed her back to her place. She gave me the tour and it was clear that she wanted to linger in the bedroom. She went to the bathroom and came back out with her rings back on and said that she knew I liked that kink. I just put my hand behind her head and grabbed her hair as I pulled her closer to kiss her. She pretended to resist and played along, telling me she shouldn't be a bad wife. I found her matching bra and panties with freshly shaved pussy, so she came prepared. I ate her pussy slowly and warmed her up for a while. I was hard when I stood above her and she laid down on the bed, legs spread. She saw how big my cock was and tried to hide her reaction. I ran the length of my cock through her pussy lips. She took a bead of my pre-cum and put it in her mouth. I teased her some more, mostly until she couldn't take it and she began to talk dirtier in her lust. I was breathing heavy and she started to kick me with her heels, trying to get her hips closer to me.

I pressed the head of my cock into her pussy and felt the stretch and heard her moan. She was dripping, but so tight on me. I wanted more and I roughly thrust deeper into her. Her intake of breath was sharp between her teeth each time. I fucked her and edged across positions to prevent myself from cumming and felt her waves of an orgasm take over her before my own. She could tell I was edging and told me she wanted me to cum in her. She assured me she was on the pill. I kept the edge going for a while longer, but eventually thrust deep into her while she was bent over, pulling her hair roughly as I came in her. I stayed hard and slowly thrust in her over the course of a few minutes to recover and I began fucking her again.

I ended up spending the night there and we have kept up the affair to this day. I've been a crutch for her to help her get through the divorce. It's great that she doesn't expect anything more from me other than the intermittent companionship and sexual favors.