I think a fundamental part of online friendships that people ‘outside’ fail to understand is how comforting it is to have friends right there in your pocket who will keep you company in good times and bad, listen to your rants, let you vent, be supportive whilst offering outsider perspective…
Need to be alone but need support too? Pocket friends.
Something awful just happened and there’s nobody around for you to tell? Pocket friends.
Need to let your feelings out but don’t want people to see you ugly-cry? Pocket friends.
Keep being amazing, pocket friends. You couldn’t possibly imagine how important you are.
its that time of year where people on tumblr are shouting “if you donate to AO3 and not my personal gofundme you are EVIL”
things that are not selfish:
prioritizing your mental health
saying no
calling in sick to work or school (even if you’re not physically sick)
limiting contact with someone when their issues are affecting your happiness negatively
cutting off toxic people
declining help
setting boundaries for yourself
not immediately responding to texts/calls/emails
ending a friendship or relationship even though the other person “hasn’t done anything wrong”
not donating any money
complimenting and being proud of yourself
treating yourself
how is a little freak like me supposed to make it in this world
It's come to my attention that a good portion of the younger generation has not been made aware of one of the greatest and most hated PILLARS of millennial society.
So I apologize, but I must take on this task. A new hand must touch the beacon. The knowledge must be passed on. The chain can not be broken.
So.
The following are the rules of The Game:
there is no winning The Game
once you know of The Game, you are always playing the game
the point of The Game is to not think about The Game
if you think about The Game, you have lost The Game, and must announce this to those around you - causing them to also lose The Game
A "reset period" of roughly an hour or two before loss announcements is common in colloquial rules to allow yourself and those around you to properly temporarily "forget" about The Game, however that is not an official rule.
Go forth, you next generation, and I am sorry.
Lost Giant by manon alexandre
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