In Addition To What’s Mentioned In This Link, We Have Some Info To Help Folks Make A Plan To Stay Safe

3 Ways to Keep Yourself Safe When You're Not Ready to Leave Your Abusive Partner
If you're in a relationship with an abusive partner, you're not alone – this author can relate, as can countless other survivors, who make an average of seven attempts before leaving for good. You should feel safe, not just if you want to leave, but right now.

In addition to what’s mentioned in this link, we have some info to help folks make a plan to stay safe when leaving an abusive relationship, and when they can’t leave just yet: The Scarleteen Safety Plan

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6 years ago

Halloween is almost over. You know what that means!

MOTHER

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FUCKIN

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HANUKKAH 

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SEASON

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YEAH!

4 years ago
I Saw This Chart And I Thought It Might Help People Navigate What Activities They Felt Safe To Do Or

I saw this chart and I thought it might help people navigate what activities they felt safe to do or not go.

4 years ago

i haven’t seen any posts about this going around on tumblr yet, and i know theres a lot going on around the world but this is an issue that needs (and has always needed) more coverage tbqh.

Kylie Jenner has recently been under fire for her clothing line in collaboration with Kendall Jenner, Kendall + Kylie, refusing to pay Bangladeshi apparel workers making their products. the company is owned by Global Brands Group, which has decided not to pay the workers due to the lack of sales during the pandemic. people started speaking up about the payment issue on Kylie’s instagram, but instead of a proper response comments were being deleted and eventually limited.

however, the issue doesn’t begin and end with Kendall + Kylie, the treatment of factory workers in Bangladesh is a problem with a long overdue response. most of these people are women working in gruelling conditions, being paid in dust and recieving little to no benefits. their lives are seen as disposable. during the quarantine, factories continued production but laid off a quarter of the workforce while the rest still face the threat of wage cuts and lack of access to healthcare.

all the fast fashion we consume like Gap, Primark, Forever 21 and C&A comes at the cost of labour exploitation in developing countries like Bangladesh. this is the country where the main source of income is textiles, where the 2013 Rana Plaza incident killed 1,100 factory workers alone, where workers constantly protest for better salaries and safer conditions, and yet they recieve not even an ounce of dignity for their hard labour. change needs to happen, better sooner than later. will reblog with what you can do to help (since tumblr hates posts with links).

6 years ago

new story

it’s been 3 months, so i’m legally allowed to share my first officially published story for free. previously published in Massacre Magazine, under the Gorey Skelton pen name

leave feedback in the replies! (i seriously love feedback, but my tumblr inbox is a mess)

5 years ago
[Image: Tweet By Emily Mullin (@EmilyLMullin) And Tweet By Isobelle Winter (@IsobelleWinter), Both About
[Image: Tweet By Emily Mullin (@EmilyLMullin) And Tweet By Isobelle Winter (@IsobelleWinter), Both About

[Image: Tweet by Emily Mullin (@EmilyLMullin) and tweet by Isobelle Winter (@IsobelleWinter), both about the dangers of Facebook’s new preventative health screening tool. Images have been modified for visual ease but information has not been changed.]

Something to know about Facebook’s new “screening tool,” and advice/info that can most certainly be used outside of this specific situation.

For spoonies, the biggest deal is how this data, if leaked, could affect you in professional and insurance spheres.

Here’s Emily’s full thread, which discusses the details of the tool, and here’s Isobelle’s full thread, which extrapolates on specific dangers.

In the end? It’s another data grab. Data is worth money; don’t give yours away, especially not to Facebook.

4 years ago

Tip:

When it comes to stuff like racism, sexism, homophobia, etc, I’ve found it’s usually way better to think to yourself ‘I don’t want to be’ than ‘I’m not’.

I.e. if someone goes ‘that thing you just did is ableist’, instead of going ‘I’m not ableist, I don’t hate disabled people!’ it’s usually a lot better to go ‘I don’t want to be ableist, I should rethink what I’m doing/saying/etc in light of that fact’. Because that shifts your thinking so rather than jumping straight into denial and attempts to defend your character, you’re instead more inclined to look at how your actions could be misrepresenting your intentions. Or whether you’ve overlooked something, been callous, or acted in ignorance.

6 years ago
Someone Linked Me This. (https://www.facebook.com/mcgregazil/posts/10218725218181118)

Someone linked me this. (https://www.facebook.com/mcgregazil/posts/10218725218181118)

4 years ago
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.
From Girl Scout’s Social Media. The Original Twitter Thread Is Here.

From Girl Scout’s social media. The original Twitter thread is here.

4 years ago

your first and most pressing concern should be for the safety of black people. it should be for justice. it should be in making this not just a moment but a reshaping of cultural bias.

this is not a fun little game for you to trot around flipping off cops and making light of a situation you were never effected by. it is not your chance to have a little bit of adventure in the middle of a quarantine. i am speaking as an author and i am telling you to stop fucking making this about katniss or harry potter or whatever - you can be shaped by media, sure, but this is not and has never been about you roleplaying your favorite action heroes. this is not another “disaster of 2020″. this is not a quirky instagram post, it’s not a chance for you to meet up with your friends, it’s not a tactic to get your tiktok trending.

this is about racial injustice. this is about the entire system that is built on that injustice and grows fat on that injustice. don’t get distracted. the police force is not the only systemically racist organization.

black lives matter. and we do not stop until every organization recognizes that and actually acts on it.

5 years ago

unpopular opinion but i think the film and tv industries should have better labor laws even if it makes it harder or impossible to depict certain things

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