Please I Cant Deal With The Brain Lag I Beg

unpopular opinion but I think fem writers should go out of their way to learn how to write for gn readers. i know that fanfic is supposed to be for fun, but you can still have fun while learning to be inclusive in your writing.

this goes for pale writers as well, learn how to use dark-skin-friendly words in your works. no blush, flush, turning red, etc.

More people need to witness the Christmas Kitten

one good thing about december on this hellsite is that this gif will be making its rounds again

unsolicited parenting advice of the day tell your kids what to expect! If your two year old is anxious about when dad is going to get home from work, teach him to recognize what patterns indicate that dad is coming home soon! After lunch we will do an activity and then clean and THEN dad will get home. Listen when the calendar day starts with an S dad does not have to go to work!!

and if something goes wrong and today does NOT go according to the plan your little guy expects, tell him!! Hey, dad has to go to work after all today, but he will be home after lunch! Today dad has to get groceries after work, so he’ll be home later than normal. But he will return with more bananas! Focus on the positives too, give them things they can understand. Don’t just say “not today,” they understand the concept of grocery stores and unexpected trips. Just tell them the problem. You’d hate being in the dark about everything that happens to you also. Let them control their situation, even if it’s just their own emotions and expectations.

or even! Teach them to read an analogue clock! Let me tell you, church nursery in the 1.5-3.5 age group got so much less stressful and anxious for EVERYONE when I taught my kids how to read the clock. They don’t have to ask me anymore how much time is left and fish for answers I can’t give them. They know that their guardians will come for them when the long stripe on the clock touches the 2, and that if they aren’t there then then they’re LATE and they get to hold this over their parents head. Because they know their parents can be late. And they LOVE knowing when this has occurred. There is so much less anxiety.

anyway explain stuff to your kids, they want to know. This has been an unsolicited parenting advice PSA

Pretty flower on a slow spring Sunday

red heart dividers for decor !!

We Stan Jazz in the house 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Jazz Appreciation post!!

(bc we love jazz <3)

Hello everyone! I made some borders the other day cause I was bored and felt like posting them! Considering taking requests for these causes they're fun and fairly easy to make.

Feel free to use with credit!^^

BARK

I got j-hope and I can pretty much see why 😅😅

hi i’m tired of seeing bad buzzfeed and allkpop quizzes about which member you are and labeling the members as terrible stereotypes so pls enjoy this quiz i spent three hours on!!! reblog with your result and i hope it’s accurate for everyone!!