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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage

The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”.  Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?  

Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures.  They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom.  Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”.  With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner.  Is this really true, though?  Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”?  Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?  

Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night.  While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.  

As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually.  This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive.  So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?

He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It

As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”.  We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why?  Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there.  So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”.  Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women.  Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?

For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered.  Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy.  It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy.  It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again.  Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.

The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it

You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”.  I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t.  That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.

Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us.  These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”.  It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.  

So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways.  Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”.  Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge.  This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation.  Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc.  These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.  

The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You

Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here…  The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you.  His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed.  I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were.  I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.  

We’re women.  We are strong and capable and we are smart.  And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be.  Where do we want to be?  We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.  

Happy Hotwifing!

-S

The Beach House - Episode One

My boyfriend’s family owns another property that they stay at near the beach, but they hardly ever use it. He lets them know when we’re going to be there so we can have it all to ourselves. That’s where we’ve had some of our most intimate moments. That’s where we first shared another girl together and that’s where I’ve had sex with several other men.

Before the lock down happened, I had a really kinky idea to bring one of my black lovers back there, where my boyfriend would be hiding in the bedroom closet with strict rules not to masturbate and to keep his position secret.

Why was this idea so hot for me?

I love how EXTRA guys get when they think I’m cheating on my loving boyfriend. They get more personal about the cheating aspect without him there, telling me how they’re stretching me out so much that my boyfriend won’t ever feel me again or that I’m gonna need big dick like theirs from now on like they’re breaking me in for other hung men to follow. Some men still say those things with my boyfriend watching, but it’s more natural without them KNOWING he’s there. That way when he hears it, he knows it’s not just for show. It’s just another level of understanding and acceptance for us both of what this is.

The guy I chose for this was Mike. I’ve told you about him before, he’s one of my “regulars”. I started seeing his nephew TJ, but I was left alone with him one morning and our breakfast turned into an intense romp session that you NEED to read about!!! He’s also the oldest guy I’ve ever had sex with. He’s in his mid 40’s and still rocking that hot kind of dad bod ;)

My boyfriend hadn’t gotten to watch me have sex with Mike yet, so I thought this would be a great way for them to be “introduced”.

So I told Mike that I had access to my boyfriend’s family beach house for the weekend and I wanted to take him there. Mike doesn’t have a car, so I went to go pick him up. He asked about my boyfriend and I told him Mark was supposed to join me, but canceled and told me to still use it for my friends or whatever and I told Mike that I wanted him to be my “whatever”.

We arrived to a house already filled with music playing, but lightly enough so my naughty little boyfriend could hear every word. He also placed some strategic lighting in the bedroom to be sure he could see as much as possible once we took it there.

Mike loved the place and he wanted a tour. I had been with Mike a few times already so we were more comfortable just being around each other without jumping right into sex. Their place has a huge stand alone shower that has a seat and one of those shower heads that can be removed. It’s got the different pressure and spray settings too. My female fans know exactly why this is important!!

Mike saw this shower and decided we needed to fuck in it, like right then and there! lol

Who was I to say no to such a wonderful idea even though my poor boyfriend was waiting so patiently in the other room? So without ever reaching the bedroom on our tour we were quickly undressing each other as the water warmed and steamed up the room.

I led him into the shower with me by his thick, uncut black cock. I sat him on the seat on the wall away from the shower head so the water was spraying into his lap as I began soaping him up and rubbing all over his thighs, ass, balls and cock.  I rubbed and soaked all the soap wash off him as I licked and sucked teasingly around his goodies. I cupped his balls and pulled them up to expose his freshly washed ass and started to lick as he groaned out “damn Jenny” in approval. I worked my tongue all around, rimming his ass and up to his balls, carefully sucking one then the other.

I stroked his shaft while concentrating on his ass and balls, then worked my way up to kiss around his now exposed tip, pulling the excess skin down as I twirled my tongue around until he was as hard as I’ve ever felt him.

I stood in front of him, put my right leg up on his knee and pulled his head into my pussy, but like me he enjoys priming the ass first. Practically forcing his tongue up into my asshole as I let out a squeal that I hoped my boyfriend could hear.

With the water jets splashing on my ass as he tongued both my holes I was overcome, pulling his head in closer now force feeding this man, who’s as old as my father, into my freshly waxed, bald 18 year old pussy until I had my first orgasm of the night. With my cum fresh in his mouth I leaned down to share some with him in a kiss while rubbing his hard cock.

I turned my body away from him and as he sat there I lowered down on top of him, riding up and down as the shower jets splashed along with my soaking wet pussy. Because of the amazing acoustics in the shower I got extra vocal. 

Since I can hear my boyfriend singing in the shower from the bedroom, I know he could hear my words now if I’m loud enough, especially as intently as he must be listening for them.

I started by bopping my ass up and down on him to make a loud slapping noise with each stroke. *slap* *slap* *slap* “FUCK you’re so THICK” Mmmmm 

Mike puts his hands on my little hips and forces me down while thrusting up into me causing a sensation of stretching and fullness that only a cock as long and thick as his could manage. 

“Oh my God Mike, you’re making me CUM AGAIN already!!” I made sure my boyfriend could hear those words!

Then He got up and bent me over so my hands were against the wall and my right leg was up on the seat. He started fucking my pussy from behind, which was amazing, but then he did something I’d never felt before… He pulled the shower head off and put the setting on extra hard and concentrated in a tight spiral of water and forced it close to my ass while he fucked me! It filled me with the sensation of getting double penetrated and he moved the water around like in a circular motion around my asshole like he did with his tongue. It’s to this day one of the most amazing things I’ve ever felt!!

“Ohhhh What are youuuu… Mmmmm yesssss" 

I could barely form words as he fucked me harder and worked my ass with the water jet until a THIRD orgasm rumbled through my body that started from my ass and traveled through every part of me until I collapsed off him down to the seat in front of me. Just as I looked up at him with a big smile he was standing over me, his hand on the back of my head pushing his cock into my mouth…. 

Mmmm

His hand reached up into my hair, holding me tight as he pumped deeper down my throat than anyone ever had before so I held my breath and closed my eyes as I felt them tear up… Letting him go for as long as I could before outright choking on it, earning a brief reprieve as he pulled out just enough for me to catch my breath for him to do it again. Now audibly choking and gagging on him, loud enough for my boyfriend to hear, but he wasn’t about to come rescue me. He was probably in that closet struggling not to cum in his underpants while his future wife did her best to choke down about nine inches of big black cock in his family’s fancy shower.

He went from destroying my mouth to letting me suck him at my own pace to fucking my tits while I kept my mouth open for his cock to enter in and out of as he did until he finally came, painting it all over my face and tits.

Originally the plan was I was going to drive Mike back that night because he had a morning shift at work so I assumed an hour of sex, maybe two and that would be it. I thought after he came on me in the shower that we might be done and my boyfriend wouldn’t get his show. I was wrong.

Mike was far from finished with me and the sex lasted through the next morning with only the last bit of it taking place in the bedroom! The sun was coming up and we were lying there intertwined covered in sweat and cum. It was only then, in that after-sex moment of clarity that I realized my poor boyfriend was still standing there uncomfortably in that closet so I tried to get Mike up to drive him home.

When I came back I thought my boyfriend would be mad at me. I thought the fact that we spent 90% of our time having sex in places where he couldn’t see ANYTHING would’ve disappointed him. How wrong I was. The second I walked through that door he was kissing me with such intense passion it caught me off guard, but I loved it!  I finally peeled him off long enough to hear…

“That was incredible. You are so incredible!”

That made me smile, but it gave me that Queen vibe again so I put my hand on top of his head and pushed him down to his knees and force fed him whatever was still left of Mike’s cum inside of me and he hungrily ate it all up like the good little boy he is.

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XoXo Jenny

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Mmmmmm such a dirty wife for me, feed me his cum Babe 🤤

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