10 Daily Rituals To Drive Submission In A FLR

Conundrum of a male slave

What's the term for it, "cognitive dissonance"?

When I'm in captivity, I get intensely excited when I'm near my owner. I have an overpowering urge to please her. Maybe it's a vain hope that she will let me out, or maybe the frustration at not being able to please myself is manifesting into action.

Yes, that's exactly what the cage is supposed to do, of course. But the more agitation results in greater attentiveness and more begging to please my owner orally. She has less and less incentive to let me out. I snap to attention when she talks, come quickly when ordered, and do every casual chore she cares for.

I can't back off and pretend I'm not interested, or disobey a single thing she says, though I've halfheartedly tried. It's a real pickle.

Two Queens discuss their experiences.

(POLL) Making a Female-Led/Femdom Society

I recently brought up the idea of a dynamic poll that would let us make a female-led/femdom society through our answers. The idea is that as answers come in I’ll add new questions based on the results. Over time we’d basically be making a fake female-led government and society that’s based on my blog’s audience and your beliefs.

For example, a question might be: “Should male chastity be enforced by the government?” Then if you guys answer YES in the majority, I might ask: “What should be the length of enforced male chastity?” And so on.

TAKE THE POLL HERE!

Why Would a Submissive Want to Become a Service Sub?

For some submissives, pleasure isn’t all about whips, chains, and dungeons. Instead, it’s found in more subtle acts of service, like preparing a delicious meal, folding laundry just right, or fetching the perfect cup of coffee for their dominant. A service submissive gets off on making their dominant’s life easier, knowing that they are appreciated for their hard work, dedication, and attention to detail.

Imagine the sense of fulfillment when you know that your dominant relies on you to keep their day-to-day life running smoothly. For a working sub, this is where the real satisfaction lies. And let’s be real—who wouldn’t want to feel useful, needed, and oh-so-rewarded by their dominant’s gratitude (and maybe a little extra “reward” at the end of the day)?

How is Pleasure Derived from These Actions?

In a BDSM dynamic, pleasure doesn’t always come from direct physical acts. For a working sub, pleasure is more mental and emotional—it’s about being useful, serving, and anticipating the dominant’s needs. The satisfaction of completing tasks and knowing that you’ve improved your dominant’s day gives a rush that can be just as intense as any scene in the dungeon.

When the dominant appreciates their service, even with something as simple as a “Good job” or “You’ve pleased me,” the working sub feels fulfilled. It’s like a gold star on a homework assignment, but with much sexier undertones.

It’s funny what can make boys of a particular nature go very light-headed, isn’t it.