Flr-philosophy - Quintessence Of FLR

Privilege

I think a lot of submissives forget just what a privilege it is to be able to serve her, and how special it is.

First of all, submissives must let go of their own fantasies to truly enjoy the benefits of what submission really is. It must become about serving her, her pleasure, her needs, her desires, her fantasies, and her way of doing things. It's all about becoming hers.

The fact that she chooses you, keeps you in a chastity cage, and allows you to serve her, is a huge privilege that very few others ever get the opportunity of doing so. Once you have Mistress, she is to be cherished! You are being granted access to her, not just her body, but on an emotional level as well.

The D/s dynamic isn't just about sex. It's about the entire lifestyle, and connection you create with each other. That's something special. The fact that she likes you enough to want to dominant you, and make you hers, is a huge privilege.

She doesn't have to grant you access to her body, whether that be, with your mouth, or your penis. Any access to her is a privilege. She doesn't share herself with anyone else that way. You're her rock, she comes home to you, and you pleasure all of her sexual needs. She holds you responsible for all that, what a privilege!

When she gives you this privilege, she is no longer afraid to hold back. She can be upfront about all of her desires, and she will tell you exactly what she expects of you. She gets to use you as her personal sex slave, and you get to be there for all of it. You get to be there to help her learn and grow, and this helps you grow deeper into submission to her.

Allowing you to taste all parts of her body, to worship her, her scent alone is a privilege. To see her completely relaxed while giving a massage, and falls asleep because you did such a good job, this is a privilege. She expects you to be there to serve because of this privilege. You are hers.

Belonging to her is the biggest privilege you can have. It was never about getting off, or making her do things to cater to your fantasies, or topping from the bottom. Don't undermine her, don't insult the privilege she's giving you by allowing you to serve her.

Understand the privilege she is giving you. Understand your place at her feet. Even her feet are a privilege. You see? Access to her body is a privilege, not a right. So honor that privilege by serving her the way she wants to be served, and becoming the obedient boy she deserves. She chose you!

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Objectification: treating your man like an object to increase his obedience

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Objectification: treat your husband like an object for obedience

objectification is a powerful tool in a Dominant woman's arsenal, capable of adding a new dimension of control, humility, and obedience in a

Femdom and the Alpha in the Man.

I have news for you. You’ve been lied to. Femdom is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there try to make it out to be.

Female Domination, at least to me, is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their power in personal relationships and in society.

It is about women taking charge of their men in and out of the bedroom to get what they want and to train men to submit to female guidance at large. It is about teaching and leading a man to be a better person. It is about focusing his mind on giving rather than receiving. And it is about making him into a stronger man. There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Alpha Male completely submitting to a DOMINANT WOMAN.

It is NOT about humiliating and belittling men, treating them as worthless and acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off womens’ feet. This is just online idiocy. Perhaps you are simply a beta-type guy, but if you think this means wearing diapers or emasculating yourself every second of the day or begging a woman to treat you like shit, you need to wake up and get some help. Sure, everyone has their odd fetishes, but in real life, any woman who wants to be with a man just to treat him like scum is simply angry, pathetic, mental and low-rent. It is in no way a healthy form of kinky masochism. It is just sad. And always a fleeting waste of time and life. A submissive male should seek out a Dominant Female in order to make himself better, not worse.

Femdom is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because she wants to be in control. She believes she was born to be in charge and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge. She believes her guidance is superior because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s. Sexually, it is about the eroticizing of power and the transformation of personal identity. She fucks. He gets fucked. Even if this means her wanting him to fuck her rough and hard, she is ultimately deciding how things go.

For me personally, a relentless degree of strictness is paramount to how I dominate. It is paramount in what I expect from my man and my boys. Stern rules and sound spankings are how I make my Femdom a factual reality. I believe in female authority as the core of my family and share that belief with every woman in my personal sphere not because I want a world of weaker men but because I want a world of stronger men who are ultimately guided by the wisdom and strength of even stronger Women, day-in-and-day-out, in this generation and in all succeeding generations.

“Disrespect Will Not Be Tolerated!“