Just wish to see how much of a support this statement can get.
I’m a lover of domestication of males. I love routine household chores because the man doesn’t have to think about the task too much. It’s better when men don’t think too much. They should just live in the moment, being of service to their queen.
The male need to please a queen can be exploited, but instead of "exploited" maybe "given an opportunity" or "encouraged" to be made manifest.