Guys think with their cocks. So controlling a cock is mind control. Chastity IS brain washing.
Gynarchy is coming.
Never underestimate the better attitude and cooperation a Lady can get from a slave through liberal use of the strap early in the training process or anytime the slave gets too comfortable.
FLR doesn't have to be about dressing up. A simple power play interaction where the Goddess asserts her authority and the male is cowed into submission is a great reminder to both of them that a woman is in charge and the man is the one to obey.
The male need to please a queen can be exploited, but instead of "exploited" maybe "given an opportunity" or "encouraged" to be made manifest.