Men Are The Strangest Things

List of Teases:

- Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You”

- Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.

- Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet.

- Have him address You as ‘Mistress’

- Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass.

- Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth.

- Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time.

- Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes.

- Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails!

- Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please.

- Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission.

- Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum.

-Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty.

-Scratch him with Your finger nails.

-Tickle him. Pinch his nipples.

-Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.

-Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do.

-Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises

-Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again.

- Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You.

- Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach.

- Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.

- Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it.

- Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.

- Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.

- Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)

Privilege

I think a lot of submissives forget just what a privilege it is to be able to serve her, and how special it is.

First of all, submissives must let go of their own fantasies to truly enjoy the benefits of what submission really is. It must become about serving her, her pleasure, her needs, her desires, her fantasies, and her way of doing things. It's all about becoming hers.

The fact that she chooses you, keeps you in a chastity cage, and allows you to serve her, is a huge privilege that very few others ever get the opportunity of doing so. Once you have Mistress, she is to be cherished! You are being granted access to her, not just her body, but on an emotional level as well.

The D/s dynamic isn't just about sex. It's about the entire lifestyle, and connection you create with each other. That's something special. The fact that she likes you enough to want to dominant you, and make you hers, is a huge privilege.

She doesn't have to grant you access to her body, whether that be, with your mouth, or your penis. Any access to her is a privilege. She doesn't share herself with anyone else that way. You're her rock, she comes home to you, and you pleasure all of her sexual needs. She holds you responsible for all that, what a privilege!

When she gives you this privilege, she is no longer afraid to hold back. She can be upfront about all of her desires, and she will tell you exactly what she expects of you. She gets to use you as her personal sex slave, and you get to be there for all of it. You get to be there to help her learn and grow, and this helps you grow deeper into submission to her.

Allowing you to taste all parts of her body, to worship her, her scent alone is a privilege. To see her completely relaxed while giving a massage, and falls asleep because you did such a good job, this is a privilege. She expects you to be there to serve because of this privilege. You are hers.

Belonging to her is the biggest privilege you can have. It was never about getting off, or making her do things to cater to your fantasies, or topping from the bottom. Don't undermine her, don't insult the privilege she's giving you by allowing you to serve her.

Understand the privilege she is giving you. Understand your place at her feet. Even her feet are a privilege. You see? Access to her body is a privilege, not a right. So honor that privilege by serving her the way she wants to be served, and becoming the obedient boy she deserves. She chose you!

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Of course Orwell was warning us about a dystopia, whereas I am celebrating an (attainable) utopia.