So Like. Ive Been Identifying As A Lesbian For Almost A Year Now But Recently Ive Been Questioning It

so like. ive been identifying as a lesbian for almost a year now but recently ive been questioning it so much, to the point where it (negatively) interferes w my daily life WAY too much?? idk im just. VERY scared tht im faking it and im actually into men. i do have crushes on fictional men but when it comes to real life i only wanna date girls - but i fear tht im doing it for attention or smth,, its probably th 583938th time youve gotten an ask like this but hhhhh ;;;;

Faking something is an intentional act, you can’t accidentally fake anything without your knowledge. The fact that you are even scared of faking tells me that you are not. These feelings are very real and, dare I say, common for lesbians dealing with internalized homophobia. Even if in the future, you realize you are into men in some way that doesn’t invalidate your feelings right now. I know it’s hard to go through this but just know that your feelings for girls are valid and you aren’t making this up. Wish you well anon!

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