"Feminism is for everyone" but it's women's job to facilitate change for every single marginalized group, women are the one's expected to monitor their vocabulary, advocate for everyone, spend hours analyzing their natural sexuality to make sure they aren't being prejudiced by not fucking certain people, and put all of their energy and focus towards every other cause before even thinking of addressing issues like reproductive rights or our astronomical rates of SA.
Meanwhile men get to sit back, jerk off to filmed rape, maybe make a "trans are rights are human rights!" or "women are people" tweet every once in a while and they get a standing ovation.
So from where I'm standing it seems like whatever feminism is now, it's for everyone except women.
strongly picking up my strong gf (@gipki)
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Porn defenders will unironically say shit like, "When the actress is screaming and crying and begging them to stop, she's â¨ď¸actingâ¨ď¸ silly, it's not real. The tear in her anus is fake. The black eye is fake. You probably think dragons are real because you watched GOT. When she's smiling and says it feels good? No, that's real. Why on earth would she be acting."
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for reblogging period art
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for refusing to have a sexual relationship with a trans woman she knew because she was uncomfortable interacting with a penis
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for being uncomfortable with penis photos on her dash
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for disagreeing with a trans woman about something that wasnât even trans related
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for saying the cotton ceiling was a rapey concept
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for talking about sex based oppressions (abortion rights etc)
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for posting a picture of herself with the caption âI love vaginasâ
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for saying that she was having pms, and that guys were lucky to never experience it
Like, just admit you hate lesbians okay. You use to only witch hunt radical feminists (lesbian or otherwise), but now any lesbian who says one tiny thing you disagree with is instantly a terf. Youâre not protecting people with your fake af terf lists. Youâre attacking your libfem allies, and then you wonder why people are afraid of you and why they turn to radical feminism for support.
tims will literally write graphic rape fantasies about women and how they want to âcorrectâ lesbians but will throw a tantrum when you tell them that males shouldnât be in womenâs spaces
The pattern of default referring to butches as âtheyâ is so transparent and homophobic
scored shoutout from sexy gf!!!!
i want to talk about a phenomenon in the trans community that reminds me of political lesbianismâa phenomenon that my gf refers to as âpolitical transgenderism.â
during the second wave of feminism a lot of hetero/bisexual women stripped their sexualities and put on the label âlesbianâ as a means to progress feminism. they believed that to be a feminist meant they had to exclude men from their attraction, despite the fact that sexuality is an innate, uncontrollable trait!
similarly, i see this sentiment crop up in trans communities. every single person who touts âyou donât need dysphoria to be transâ is a proponent of political transgenderism. they believe that in order to destroy the evil cisgenders, MORE people need to identify as trans or nonbinary! they believe that identifying as trans/NB is a valid political strategy.
my issue with both political lesbianism and political transgenderism is that there is no need to change your identity in order to fight whatever fight you believe in. i donât need to claim to be Black in order to be anti racism or claim to be an amputee to be anti ableism. the only type of person who needs to center themselves and their identity in their political beliefs is a selfish and egotistical one.
political lesbians and political transgender people co-opt the struggles and vulnerabilities of marginalized groups. they use stereotypes and generalizations as an attempt to âpassâ as âvalid.â when really, the only thing that makes one a lesbian is exclusive female same-sex attraction, and the only thing that makes someone trans is dysphoria.
Stoner Boyfriend (Lesbian)
Society isn't "becoming more sex positive" it's becoming more porn obsessed.