One of the last times my wife let me inside of her, was right after her boyfriend had fucked her. We realized I wasn’t reclaiming her at all, and she realized she wanted to be with other men exclusively
We just had this conversation recently. I told her i wouldnt want some tight virginal wife. Its far more exciting for me to be married to a lose, well used woman. She doesnt necessarily understand it, but she doesn’t really have to. If it works for both of us, thats all that matters.