every post i see that's like "if you're scared of being like [bad person] that's means you're better than them and won't be like them" and it's like. lmao. my dad used to have crying sessions where he would confess his fear of being like his mother and causing me to grow up to hate him. usually after he did something fucking awful, to redirect the attention to his own pain. the girl who sexually assaulted me had panic attacks sometimes about the idea of maybe being a rapist, making it impossible to set sexual boundaries with her without her freaking out. whether you're afraid of being some kind of bad person has basically no bearing on whether you are that way
If this post gets 80085 notes I will finally stop boymoding in public
learned how to use blenders film making tools
I love Arven
estrogen will not turn you into your mom, it will turn you into yourself. now everyone shut the fuck up
Same
One 2015 study found that just seeing fat men more regularly increased attraction toward them in women who date men. The politics of desirability are shaped by who we are allowed to see as desirable, which is in turn shaped by who we are allowed to see.
-from "You Just Need to Lose Weight" and 19 Other Myths about Fat Peopleby Aubrey Gordon
reblog if you would trade your beautiful perfect vagina for a flapping worm or a holo charizard. those are your only options.
i had a dream i worked in an underwater restaurant and people kept ordering ice in their drinks and then getting mad at me when it would float away. and i’d tell them beforehand that the ice would float away & they’d be like lol no that’s not how it works just give me the ice. I’m fighting customer service battles never seen before
Much needed cheer