if you are like me, you struggle with your mental diet, and have negative and intrusive thoughts. you can use this to your advantage in your affirmations!
β introduction
β i have struggled for a very long time with negative thoughts holding me back, and while looking for ways to get rid of them, I also found a way to weaponize them to get what i want
β how it works
β if your brain is used to negative self talk and negative thoughts about your current reality, negative affirmations and thoughts might just work better than positive ones, as that's much more familiar and therefore, to your mind, much more realistic
β how to
β its very simple, just affirm for your goals in negatives! for example "I hate how long my hair is! My hair is simply too long and thick!" or "I hate being this short! Everyone is taller than me, its not fair!"
β one of my personal favorites is "I hate how easily I manifest, it's no fun when everything is perfect and instant!"
!!note: i don't know if this has been done before, and if it has, please tell me. i am not trying to pretend someone else's work is mine, so if that's the case, i'm sorry!!
DNI: terf/swerf, abdl/bdsm/nsfw blogs, pro-ed, anti-LGBTQ+/anti-MOGAI, pro-ship, pro-inc*st, anti-endo, (NO)MAP/PEAR/supporter, anti-agere, trump supporter, anti-feminist, anti-BLM/anti-ACAB, abrahamic religions (there's nothing wrong with this one, it's just a trigger for me), will add as i remember other nasty people
Say it with me. STOPπSLEEPINGπONπYOURSELFπ.
What are you doing? Scrolling through TikTok and Instagram first thing in the morning? Staring at your dreams through pixels, when you could be living them? You know what has to be done to achieve it, but you'll never get it if you keep making excuses.
You want a better body? Eat cleaner and go to the gym REGULARLY.
You want clearer skin? Start and MAINTAIN a consistent skincare routine?
You want to be good at playing guitar? Play a little bit EVERY DAY.
You want to get into that college? Put in the hours of study that are NEEDED.
All those people who you see and get jealous of didn't get there in one day. They worked on themselves constantly. They got there through sheer persistence and consistency. You don't become better magically. You TAKE ACTION.
Discipline is a skill you cultivate, it's not a talent. I wake up at 5:30 in the morning EVERY DAY because I made myself get out of bed when my alarm went off. I'm getting good at Spanish, because I do my lessons EVERY DAY, without fail. I'm getting the body of my dreams because I make conscious choices to be healthy EVERY DAY.
I've been seeing self-help advice like "Oh, just be confident!" "Love yourself the way you are!"
Yeah, no shit, but it's hard to be confident when you don't feel good in your own skin. If it's something that can't be changed, acceptance will take time. But if it's something that YOU can change, why aren't you doing that? The gym is right around the corner, you don't need 20 more minutes of Netflix or TikTok. Stop making excuses for a lazy version of yourself.
You deserve better. And only you can get yourself the best things if you stop staying passive and make real changes to your life.
I know this isn't like my usual posts, but I had this revelation about 2 nights ago and while being soft with yourself is good and all, you need to mentally snap yourself out of choosing the easy way out.
Work on yourself, and everything will work out.
xoxo
if you decide to do so β¦ this is just how i do it, not forcing.
act i , the basics.
who are you? name. surname. nickname. place of birth. date of birth. current age. status (student? employed? / blood status if applicable) species (supernatural or human?) height. weight. race. ethnicity. nationality.
appearance. hair colour. hair texture. hair type. eye colour. eyebrows. breath smell. skin. scent. lip taste if you want.
clothing. what do you like to wear? t-shirts. pants&jeans. skirts if you want. shoes. nails if you want. are you known for your style? accessories.
childhood. from what kind of family you were born? where did you grew up? any childhood friends? favourite cousins? how did you become what you are now? (if famous / supernatural)
( if you are an adult. ) did you go to university? if so, what masters do you have? how was your experience? what was your first job? your teenage years? any ex or first love? are you still friends with people from high school?
present. your personality. main traits. your hobbies. your passions. if you have collections, write them down. if you like to read, what kind of books you love? how do others view you? if supernatural, are you part of a prophecy (if so, explain your role in this prophecy, and why you are part of it)
extras. social media. powers if you have them. if hogwarts, write your wand.
act ii , the extension of you.
friends. who are they? how did you met? how is your relationship with them? do you have any friendgroups? group chats?
family. talk about them. do you still live with them? how is your relationship with them? any sibilings? favourite cousins? does your aunt spoil you⦠or a grandparent, maybe.
relationships. do you have a partner? if so, talk about them. how did they treat you? how did you met? any cool or sweet dates? if you are still not together, how will you (general or detailed). if you donβt have a s/o, any past relationships? any rumours? does someone have a crush on you?
pets. whatβs their name and age? how did you adopt them? whatβs your relationship? does the pet trust you?
extras. do you have any hater or fan⦠or both? any mortal enemy? if so, your past with them, the start of your animosity.
act iii , education.
school. name of the school? is it private, or for certain type of supernatural creatures? are they divided in houses? if so, whatβs yours? where is the school located? the vibe? kind of students admitted to the school? does it have a motto? if itβs a boarding school, describe your room/dormitory. and your school uniform.
subjects. timetable. what subject do you take? how are the teachers? did a certain teacher adopt you and your friendgroup? who is your favourite? favourite subjects? how are you doing in all of your subjects? where do you go for break/lunch?
events. any formal? parties? or secret societies?
extras. does the school have a mystery you want to solve? any extracurricular activities like sports? clubs?
act iv , patriotic stuff.
city. talk about where you are from / live. any special or secret places for you? favourite hangout spots? memorable locations for you? the vibe of the town.
house. or apartment. entry hall. living room. bathroom(s). bedrooms. your bedroom. kitchen. laundry room. garden. office? extras room like library etc if you want. where is it located?
( if you have a fantasy dr. ) your kingdom. your castle. private chambers. overall vibe of your kingdom⦠its name, story, rulers, any magical creatures? or religion? any festivity? kingdoms near you? places you want to have in your kingdom.
act v , rules.
safety and stuff like that.
THINGS TO MANIFEST . MASTERLIST .
hey guys!!!! i have scrolled through a bunch of those "things to manifest" posts and i have decided to create a masterlist. i have combined posts from me and others. MOST CREDIT GOES TO THESE PEOPLE!!
@j444de @itsrlymine @love4ng1e @cherrysaltvape41 @b4ddprincess @urfavstargirl @sarida-candy @stilljuststardust @heavenangelly @scentedpeachlandcreator
ββ .β¦ Being able to shift, manifest, or go into the void on command
ββ .β¦ Canβt get bullied
ββ .β¦ Desired family
ββ .β¦ Extremely rich
ββ .β¦ Living my dream life
ββ .β¦ Starring in your favorite movies
ββ .β¦ I speak [insert languages] on a native level. Iβm so good at these languages I can type 200 wpm in each, and I know more than most native adults! I cannot forget languages and will keep them for the rest of my life.
ββ .β¦ DF and DB
ββ .β¦ Always healthy
ββ .β¦ Love school and popular
ββ .β¦ Iβm everyoneβs type, I get along with everyone, and I have no enemies.
ββ .β¦ I mog every model
ββ .β¦ [Your town/city] has amazing public transit and metro
ββ .β¦ I embody the [insert] aesthetic
ββ .β¦ I always smell like [insert scent]
ββ .β¦ My grandparents are: [insert famous people]
ββ .β¦ I have an extremely high spice and pain tolerance
ββ .β¦ I always have proof that Iβm related to famous people, and people believe me
ββ .β¦ Thereβs usually thunderstorms at night
ββ .β¦ Iβm the most attractive person in the school
ββ .β¦ No matter where we travel, me or my family is always protected and safe. Nothing bad can happen to us. We canβt die until we are old. I canβt die unless I want to, and it will be peaceful. I will barely age. My family and I are free from any disease, including age-related ones, and cannot get severely injured. We will live happy, long lives. We can never get in any danger, no matter what time it is or where we are.
ββ .β¦ I can never get hate online or in real life
ββ .β¦ I can do anything on Roblox and not get banned, exploits and anything
ββ .β¦ I have a huge, close friend group where nobody is left out
ββ .β¦ I always have amazing and perfect grades; Iβve had amazing grades my whole life.
ββ .β¦ On my Notion, I have a script for everything, and thereβs an AI that helps me find the one.
ββ .β¦ Iβm a master shifter and manifestor. I can spawn things. I always get into the void state and shift if I affirm 3 times.
ββ .β¦ I have a tiny fairy companion that lives in our garden
ββ .β¦ I donβt wear glasses and have amazing vision
ββ .β¦ I find skincare relaxing and fun, and I have all the best Korean skincare products
ββ .β¦ I look amazing in every picture; Iβm videogenic and photogenic
ββ .β¦ Being a mermaid
ββ .β¦ Being a fairy
ββ .β¦ Having a secret house in your closet
ββ .β¦ Having a portal that leads to your DR in your room
ββ .β¦ Being able to breathe underwater
ββ .β¦ Having psychic powers
ββ .β¦ Your blood being pink (or any color)
ββ .β¦ Having a fairy friend
ββ .β¦ Being able to fly
ββ .β¦ Being able to read someoneβs mind
ββ .β¦ Changing your hair color to an unnatural color
ββ .β¦ Your pets being able to talk to you
ββ .β¦ Your toys/dolls being able to talk
ββ .β¦ Revising someoneβs birth
ββ .β¦ Having a mermaid friend
ββ .β¦ Your tears having glitter in them
ββ .β¦ Being able to go back in time
ββ .β¦ Being able to grow flowers
ββ .β¦ Being able to heal wounds
ββ .β¦ Manipulating water
ββ .β¦ Manipulating fire
ββ .β¦ Manipulating earth
ββ .β¦ Creating objects from your body
ββ .β¦ Controlling the weather
ββ .β¦ Being able to break anything with your voice
ββ .β¦ Being able to not eat for days
ββ .β¦ Appearing in someoneβs dreams
ββ .β¦ Being able to touch a cloud
ββ .β¦ Being able to touch a star
ββ .β¦ Being best friends with a celebrity
ββ .β¦ Being able to clean your room just by clicking your fingers
ββ .β¦ Flowers talking to you
ββ .β¦ Having a pet unicorn
ββ .β¦ Everyone forgetting you
ββ .β¦ Your drink filling up the moment you finish it
ββ .β¦ A fancy car
ββ .β¦ To become a billionaire or a millionaire
ββ .β¦ A tiny fairy
ββ .β¦ A flying magical pet or plushie that helps you and grants your wishes
ββ .β¦ A magical wand
ββ .β¦ A magic door that exists inside your closet
ββ .β¦ A hidden garden just for yourself
ββ .β¦ Superpowers
ββ .β¦ Able to shapeshift
ββ .β¦ Just snapping your finger once, and you tap into the void state instantly
ββ .β¦ Having a photographic memory
ββ .β¦ A billion-dollar mansion/penthouse
ββ .β¦ Owning land
ββ .β¦ Having a (hot) bodyguard
ββ .β¦ Princess treatment
ββ .β¦ Ideal boyfriend (down to the smallest detail, could even be your fictional character)
ββ .β¦ Always receiving expensive gifts
ββ .β¦ Desired phones (iPhones or even Samsung)
ββ .β¦ Supernatural friends
ββ .β¦ Your desired friend group
ββ .β¦ Desired best friend
ββ .β¦ How people view you (high self-concept)
ββ .β¦ Desired career
ββ .β¦ Being a famous YouTuber
ββ .β¦ Meeting with your favorite celebrities
ββ .β¦ Owning a big company
ββ .β¦ Being a nepobaby
ββ .β¦ Having the ability to appear things from thin air
ββ .β¦ Being popular in school
ββ .β¦ Being the most beautiful girl in the entire universe
ββ .β¦ Modeling
ββ .β¦ Having A marks in every subject no matter what without studying
ββ .β¦ Revising your past grades to perfection
ββ .β¦ Revising your whole life
ββ .β¦ Having pretty privilege
ββ .β¦ Getting food for free
ββ .β¦ Manifesting fictional characters to reality
ββ .β¦ Desired scenarios to happen (even the most unrealistic ones)
ββ .β¦ Dating your crush (they can be your celebrity crush)
ββ .β¦ Ability to fly
ββ .β¦ Turning into mythical creatures
ββ .β¦ Expensive apartment
ββ .β¦ Desired pet (cats or dogs)
ββ .β¦ Getting accepted into a desired college
ββ .β¦ Desired face and body
ββ .β¦ You can change the color of your eyes at will
ββ .β¦ Your house gets all cleaned with just a snap of your finger
ββ .β¦ Turning into a vampire or mermaid
ββ .β¦ Being able to read minds
ββ .β¦ Telekinesis power
ββ .β¦ Superhuman intelligence
ββ .β¦ Living in a castle
ββ .β¦ Having maids
ββ .β¦ Revising your whole family
ββ .β¦ Ranking first place in your school or college
ββ .β¦ Having fans
ββ .β¦ Having rich parents
ββ .β¦ Getting popular on TikTok
ββ .β¦ Being the trend
ββ .β¦ Revising embarrassing events
ββ .β¦ Getting asked out by hot and loyal guys
ββ .β¦ Living the Wattpad life
ββ .β¦ Being skilled in something (art, sports, etc.)
ββ .β¦ Less period pain
ββ .β¦ Able to shift instantly on command
ββ .β¦ Having your desired wardrobe
ββ .β¦ Skilled at playing games on the first try
ββ .β¦ Your desired setup
ββ .β¦ Getting money out of nowhere
ββ .β¦ Lucky girl syndrome
ββ .β¦ Scripting your own story
ββ .β¦ Your Pinterest board becomes true
ββ .β¦ Manifesting your desired app
ββ .β¦ Making classes get canceled
ββ .β¦ Making exams get canceled
ββ .β¦ Manifesting Xbox or PlayStation 5
ββ .β¦ Ability to time travel
ββ .β¦ Traveling to your desired country
ββ .β¦ Moving out to your desired country or place
ββ .β¦ Having a magic tattoo that has powers (inspired by the K-drama βMy Demonβ)
ββ .β¦ Being a math genius
ββ .β¦ Being a trust fund/nepotism baby
ββ .β¦ Owning a private plane
ββ .β¦ Having a vacation home all over the world
ββ .β¦ Being a millionaire, billionaire, or trillionaire
ββ .β¦ Owning multiple businesses/shares and being a popular name amongst people
ββ .β¦ Having lots of connections
ββ .β¦ Easily getting visas for your desired countries
ββ .β¦ Going on vacation a lot
ββ .β¦ Any money you spend comes back x100
ββ .β¦ Immune to getting scammed, robbed, debt, or losing lots of money
ββ .β¦ Having a mansion of your desired aesthetic
ββ .β¦ Having your desired cars
ββ .β¦ Having your desired jewelry
ββ .β¦ A magnetic and powerful aura that demands attention and respect from everyone
ββ .β¦ Living in a palace with helpers, cleaners, personal chefs, gardeners, etc.
ββ .β¦ Extreme beauty β people cannot believe it
ββ .β¦ Always use your money for good and not get blindsided by it
ββ .β¦ You naturally smell like perfume, your favorite smell/food, etc.
ββ .β¦ Continuation of the last one but your sweat and other BO just smells like whatever you chose for #1
ββ .β¦ You have really fancy handwriting
ββ .β¦ Make a Pinterest board of your dream closet and manifest that you have them
ββ .β¦ You can do complicated and beautiful hairstyles/braids easily
ββ .β¦ Manifest a specific aura color
ββ .β¦ Manifest you can see auras
ββ .β¦ Being incredibly photogenic even in candids
ββ .β¦ Always know when someone is lying
ββ .β¦ No color washes you out; they all look perfect on you
ββ .β¦ Getting a really fun/aesthetic job that isnβt stressful + has good benefits
ββ .β¦ Perfectly shaped + long natural nails
ββ .β¦ People like making playlists/Pinterest boards for you
ββ .β¦ Everyone in the class is friends
ββ .β¦ There are always interesting choices happening at school
ββ .β¦ Your class photos are good
ββ .β¦ School is fun
ββ .β¦ The materials are simple and easy
ββ .β¦ You are alone in your locker
ββ .β¦ You always have 100%
ββ .β¦ You understand everything
ββ .β¦ Your handwriting is legible
ββ .β¦ Not having a uniform or having the uniform of your choice
ββ .β¦ Go to the desired school
ββ .β¦ You are in the same class as your friends
ββ .β¦ You can work in a team
ββ .β¦ You can still listen to music at school
ββ .β¦ School is free
ββ .β¦ School goes by quickly
ββ .β¦ Have your desired body
ββ .β¦ Loving your body
ββ .β¦ Have confidence in your body
ββ .β¦ Always have your desired body
ββ .β¦ No one is made fun of for their body
ββ .β¦ Have unlimited money
ββ .β¦ Never run out of money
ββ .β¦ The chosen ones are not expensive
ββ .β¦ You have the clothes you want
ββ .β¦ You always find your desired clothes
ββ .β¦ Your style is unique
ββ .β¦ You have the desired popularity
ββ .β¦ People are interested in knowing you
ββ .β¦ People arenβt fake to you
ββ .β¦ You start trends
ββ .β¦ You have the job you want
ββ .β¦ You have the desired schedule
ββ .β¦ The desired person works with you
ββ .β¦ You have the desired salary
ββ .β¦ You have your desired home
ββ .β¦ The price of your house is low
ββ .β¦ You have the desired decoration in your home
ββ .β¦ You have the desired friends
ββ .β¦ Your friends are extremely faithful
ββ .β¦ You have a good time with your friends
ββ .β¦ You always have amazing adventures with your friends
ββ .β¦ You are never on the side
ββ .β¦ Your friends are always with you, you are never left behind
ββ .β¦ Your friends will never betray you
ββ .β¦ If you have friends online, theyβre always online when you want to talk to them
ββ .β¦ You sort with your desired person
ββ .β¦ Everything is going well in the relationship
ββ .β¦ Your desired person hides nothing from you
ββ .β¦ Your desired person will never cheat on you
ββ .β¦ Your relationship is perfect in your eyes
ββ .β¦ Your relationship is perfect according to you
ββ .β¦ Your lover gives you affection
ββ .β¦ Your lover understands you
ββ .β¦ You can manifest whatever you want
ββ .β¦ Everyone finds this normal
ββ .β¦ You always have ideas of what to manifest
ββ .β¦ Your art style is unique
ββ .β¦ You always have ideas
ββ .β¦ You have your dream life
ββ .β¦ You always have the answer to your questions
ββ .β¦ Nothing strange is happening
ββ .β¦ TONS of food available
ββ .β¦ A board with all the food youβll have
ββ .β¦ The ability to say anything and make it appear, happen, or change
ββ .β¦ The ability to think of anything and make it appear, happen, or change
ββ .β¦ The ability to look at anything on Pinterest and make it appear, happen, or change
ββ .β¦ Whenever magic is done (making something appear, changing something, etc.), thereβs a cute little sparkly noise
ββ .β¦ The ability to think of things to add to scripts that wouldnβt have been thought of otherwise
ββ .β¦ A βSpotify Futureβ app that shows music that will be released in the next year or two
ββ .β¦ A MASSIVE closet
ββ .β¦ A bedroom with a balcony
ββ .β¦ The ability to see a makeup look you like, make all the products used appear, and know how to recreate the look
ββ .β¦ Manifest a pet unicorn in the void state
ββ .β¦ Manifest desired people from scratch in the void state
ββ .β¦ Manifest an actual mermaid friend in the void state
ββ .β¦ Revise a death in the void state
ββ .β¦ Manifest being a quadrillionaire without questions asked
ββ .β¦ A shopping spree
ββ .β¦ So much food
ββ .β¦ Manifest weight loss while eating more and not gaining weight
ββ .β¦ Find lost items
ββ .β¦ A cat that actually obeys
ββ .β¦ Greater confidence
ββ .β¦ Passing a driving test
ββ .β¦ Good grades
ββ .β¦ A dream internship at the theatre
ββ .β¦ A dream job at a university (even after rejection)
ββ .β¦ Seeing your favorite artist in concert
ββ .β¦ Traveling to favorite cities
ββ .β¦ Going to festivals
ββ .β¦ Toxic people removed from life
ββ .β¦ A designer bag
ββ .β¦ A dream body
ββ .β¦ Going on really nice dates (dinner, jazz bars, museums), with princess treatment & gifts
ββ .β¦ New and amazing friends
ββ .β¦ Never having to worry about money
ββ .β¦ A special person writing a heartfelt letter
ββ .β¦ Seeing a favorite ballet performance
ββ .β¦ Being safe and protected always
ββ .β¦ A journal that writes your thoughts and dreams on its own.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A tiny dragon that talks and lives in your pocket.
ββ .β¦ A crystal that grants you one wish every night.Β
ββ .β¦ A cloak that turns you invisible when you wear it.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A door that opens into a secret magical forest.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A pet cloud that follows you and rains glitter.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ The power to pause time with a snap of your fingers.Β Β
ββ .β¦ A bookshelf that gives you new books youβll love every week.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A potion that lets you turn into any animal.Β Β
ββ .β¦ A floating lantern that shows you hidden treasures.Β Β
ββ .β¦ A room that changes into whatever you needβlike a garden or movie theater.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ The power to fly whenever you want.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A tree that grows jewels and glowing fruits.Β Β Β
ββ .β¦ A tiny tea set that comes to life and talks to you.Β
ββ .β¦ A tattoo that glows and changes with your emotions.Β
ββ .β¦ A mirror that gives you compliments and good advice.Β
ββ .β¦ A map that lets you teleport anywhere you touch.Β
ββ .β¦ The power to speak to animals and understand them.Β
ββ .β¦ A star that follows you at night and listens to your secrets.Β
ββ .β¦ A garden that blooms only when you visit.
ββ .β¦ Superpowers that activate when you say a secret word.Β
ββ .β¦ A wardrobe that gives you the perfect outfit every time.Β
ββ .β¦ A fairy that helps you and grants small wishes.Β
ββ .β¦ A plant that glows in the dark and sings when itβs happy.Β
ββ .β¦ A ring that lets you visit your dreams like theyβre real.Β
ββ .β¦ A pair of shoes that let you walk on water.
ββ .β¦ A blanket that makes you feel perfectly cozy no matter the weather.
ββ .β¦ A necklace that glows when someone tells the truth.Β
ββ .β¦ A compass that always points to something youβre looking for.
ββ .β¦ A cup that refills itself with your favorite drink.Β
ββ .β¦ A ring that lets you see hidden magical creatures.Β
ββ .β¦ A pencil that writes answers to any question you ask.
ββ .β¦ having a big friend group that you can play among us with
ββ .β¦ a jellycat collection
ββ .β¦ an antique photograph collection
ββ .β¦ never get caught doing anything illegal
ββ .β¦ collabing with your favourite youtuber
ββ .β¦ free public transit anywhere for life
ββ .β¦ being able to hold your breath forever
ββ .β¦ having a universal key for any door
ββ .β¦ a lazy river in your house
ββ .β¦ being able to watch movie that will be released in the future
ββ .β¦ Being tik tok famous
ββ .β¦ Being a billionaire
ββ .β¦ Your favorite celeb noticing you
ββ .β¦ Your perfumes lasting forever
ββ .β¦ Clear skin
ββ .β¦ Teacher actually liking you
ββ .β¦ When you buy food you get extra for free
ββ .β¦ Cosmetics never running out
ββ .β¦ Always have perfect grades no matter what
ββ .β¦ Being hairless (only desired parts)
ββ .β¦ Having manga lashes
ββ .β¦ Your parents being rich
ββ .β¦ Changing your birth name
ββ .β¦ Travel for free (imagine going to Japan omg)
ββ .β¦ Going to a concert for free
ββ .β¦ Kamala being president
ββ .β¦ Having a cat
ββ .β¦ Having a mermaid friend
ββ .β¦ Never gaining weight
ββ .β¦ Your celebrity crush being obsessed with you
ββ .β¦ Being a celebrity
ββ .β¦ Victoria's Secret bringing back the 2014 vibes
ββ .β¦ People forgetting about your cringe moments
ββ .β¦ Finding 20$ on the street everyday
ββ .β¦ Your favorite bakery/coffee shop being at your desired place
ββ .β¦ Lipgloss lasting for hours
ββ .β¦ Nail polish lasting for days
ββ .β¦ Strong and long nails
ββ .β¦ Your crush thinking about you 24/7
ββ .β¦ Having real friends
ββ .β¦ Being popular at school
ββ .β¦ Going to boarding school
ββ .β¦ Brands sending you PR packages for no reason
ββ .β¦ Being a Nepo's baby best friend
ββ .β¦ Perfect hair
ββ .β¦ Everyone treating you like a goddess
ββ .β¦ Lip combo lasting for the whole day
ββ .β¦ Men giving you money and gifts for just being pretty
ββ .β¦ Revising hair heat damage
ββ .β¦ Your favorite brand sending you gifts
ββ .β¦ Having every pack on The Sims 4
ββ .β¦ Having your dream job
ββ .β¦ The college of your dreams begging you to join them
ββ .β¦ Have super soft hands
ββ .β¦ Mascara never getting clumpy
ββ .β¦ Having a pink Christmas
ββ .β¦ Having all the gifts you asked for Christmas
ββ .β¦ Speaking the language of your choice
ββ .β¦ Eyebrows being the perfect shape
ββ .β¦ School being cancelled
ββ .β¦ K-beauty being free/cheap
ββ .β¦ Having the vintage clothes that you see on Pinterest but never find
ββ .β¦ Food you're craving
ββ .β¦ Decorating your room
ββ .β¦ Having a Lana Del Rey summer
ββ .β¦ Having a Gilmore Girls autumn
ββ .β¦ A new phone
ββ .β¦ Friend group who actually likes you
ββ .β¦ Living a trope in real life
ββ .β¦ Going to a party like Euphoria
ββ .β¦ Revising watching your favorite show/movie to watch it like it's the first time again
ββ .β¦ Revising someone's death
ββ .β¦ Smaller/taller height
ββ .β¦ Having a fairy as a best friend
ββ .β¦ Having perfect makeup skills
ββ .β¦ A closet like Barbie (life in the dream house)
ββ .β¦ Changing your natural hair color
ββ .β¦ Changing your facial features
ββ .β¦ Going to a party like Skins
ββ .β¦ Your favorite celeb posting your face and asking who you are because they find you insanely attractive
ββ .β¦ Insane hair growth
ββ .β¦ Having skin like Wonyoung
ββ .β¦ Tasting your favorite food for the first time
ββ .β¦ Your crush being obsessed with your perfume
ββ .β¦ Your parents not being strict
ββ .β¦ Your school being cute and aesthetic
ββ .β¦ Fast food always giving you extra sauces
ββ .β¦ Travelling around the world with your best friend
ββ .β¦ Having your desired body
ββ .β¦ Revising bad grades
ββ .β¦ Being a K-pop idol
ββ .β¦ Having Infinite Robux
ββ .β¦ Being VIP in Dress to Impress
ββ .β¦ Acrylic nails lasting months
ββ .β¦ Never getting sick
ββ .β¦ Your whole class going on vacation
ββ .β¦ Having heterochromia
ββ .β¦ Decorating your room for free
ββ .β¦ Banning your old TikTok account
ββ .β¦ Your lips being cherry red and glossy
ββ .β¦ Being soft as a baby
ββ .β¦ Your hair never getting greasy
ββ .β¦ School being effortlessly easy
ββ .β¦ Everyone having flip phones
ββ .β¦ Having slim hands
ββ .β¦ Living in NYC
ββ .β¦ Your family never having to face financial issues
ββ .β¦ Being the daughter of a model
ββ .β¦ Changing your whole face
ββ .β¦ Having all Juicy Couture clothes and bags
ββ .β¦ 25,000$
ββ .β¦ Unlimited food
ββ .β¦ Having a portal in your room that leads to your dream room (DR)
ββ .β¦ Makeup being free
ββ .β¦ Being loved by everyone in your town like Rory Gilmore
ββ .β¦ Perfect teeth
ββ .β¦ A pink phone
ββ .β¦ People looking at you because you're gorgeous every time you go out
ββ .β¦ Your perfume smelling unique on you
ββ .β¦ Never losing your favorite gloss
ββ .β¦ Candles never having a weird shape after a while
ββ .β¦ Your makeup staying all day
ββ .β¦ Waking up with perfect, detangled hair every day
Hello Beautiful,
As we enter the final quarter of the year, itβs time to reassess, realign, and step into our power. For the high-achieving woman, Q4 is the perfect opportunity to manifest abundance, success, and peace. The last stretch of the year can be incredibly transformative if you take the time to focus on intentional growth and clarity. This guide will help you make the most of it.
A vision board is more than just a collection of inspiring imagesβ itβs a visual roadmap to your goals. As the year draws to a close, this tool can help you stay aligned with your deepest desires and prevent distractions from trends that may not serve your higher purpose.
Why Vision Boarding Works:
Clarifies intentions: Visualizing your goals helps solidify them in your mind.
Amplifies focus: Itβs easier to stay on track when you can see success every day.
Boosts motivation: A visual reminder reignites passion when the journey gets tough.
Tracks progress: As you achieve goals, you can reflect on how far youβve come.
Encourages self-reflection: Itβs a tool for assessing what truly matters to you, even as life shifts.
How to Create an Inspiring Vision Board:
Set your intentions: Before you begin, ask yourself what you truly want to manifest in the final months of the year. Be specific. Is it financial abundance? Career growth? Deeper self-love?
Gather visuals: Find images, quotes, and affirmations that align with your intentions. These can come from magazines, online, or even personal photographs that symbolize your goals.
Display with purpose: Place your vision board somewhere youβll see it daily. It could be your workspace, bedroom, or even your phone wallpaperβwherever it can regularly inspire you.
Review regularly: As the quarter progresses, check in with your board. Adjust it as needed, whether adding new goals or removing old ones.
Vision boarding is not just about aesthetics; itβs a way to stay grounded in your purpose and connected to your inner desires. This practice empowers you to remain authentic and committed to meaningful objectives, ensuring you donβt stray from your path as the year winds down.
Along with vision boarding, journaling is an essential practice for self-discovery and personal growth. It allows you to access your innermost thoughts, uncover desires, and identify areas where you need to pivot or push harder.
The Benefits of Journaling for Clarity:
Fosters self-awareness: Writing helps you process emotions and ideas, leading to deeper understanding.
Refines your objectives: Journaling can reveal whatβs most important to you, helping to prioritize goals.
Uncovers hidden strengths: Often, we donβt recognize our capabilities until we reflect on them through writing.
Helps you strategize: By identifying potential obstacles, you can develop plans to overcome them.
Enhances focus and motivation: Regular journaling keeps your objectives clear, making it easier to stay disciplined.
Journaling Prompts for a Powerful Q4:
What do I want to achieve by the end of this year?
What obstacles have held me back in the past, and how can I overcome them?
What are my strengths, and how can I leverage them to reach my goals?
How do I want to feel when I look back on this year in December?
What am I grateful for right now, and how can I use that energy to propel me forward?
When you make journaling a part of your daily routine, you create space for clarity and creativity. This practice is especially powerful for manifesting success and growth because it fosters a mindset of continuous self-improvement and reflection.
The final quarter is not just about working toward your goals but also about transforming your mindset to support your journey. Affirmations and mental resets are two key strategies for doing this.
Why Mindset Matters:
Success isnβt just about hard work; itβs about believing you are worthy of the results. Affirmations are a daily tool to remind yourself of your power and potential. Whether you say them in front of a mirror or write them in your journal, affirmations help shift limiting beliefs into empowering ones.
Examples of Affirmations for a Powerful Q4:
I am deserving of all the abundance that is coming my way.
I am capable of achieving everything I set my mind to.
I am worthy of success, love, and happiness.
I trust the process and know that everything is unfolding for my highest good.
I release any doubts and embrace my power fully.
Daily mental resets can also help you stay grounded when challenges arise. These can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths, practicing meditation, or taking a short walk to clear your mind. By intentionally resetting, you can approach tasks with renewed energy and focus.
As the year draws to a close, the fourth quarter provides an opportunity for reflection, growth, and manifestation. Whether through vision boarding, journaling, or affirmations, reclaim your power and finish the year with intention.
How are you planning to end the year with intention? Share your goals and insights below!
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if you realize youβve been studying for hours: grab a snack to refuel your body and watch a sitcom to refuel your brain. then back to the books.
if youβre feeling stressed out: take some deep breaths, text your friends, maybe stare at a wall for a few minutes. gather yourself.
if you canβt seem to focus: get moving and get outside. take out the garbage, check your mail box, maybe walk your dog. just get moving and get fresh air. itβll help bring you back.
if thereβs something else going on in your life and you canβt get it off your mind: write down whatβs going through your head, sort of like a diary entry. itβll help you work things out.
if youβre just mentally and physically exhausted: set a timer for 25-30 minutes and take a nap. any longer and youβll hit REM and youβll wake up feeling just as tired. once you wake up, get some caffeine in you.
if the material is boring as hell: find another way to study. see if thereβs a crash course video online about it or draw out what youβre trying to learn in diagrams and pictures to make it fun.
if people around you wonβt shut up: listen to some music. soundtrack and classical music is always good because they wonβt absorb you as much as music with lyrics. white noise (like ocean waves, rain sounds, etc.) also works.
if you only half understand a concept: call/message a friend whoβs not in the class and try to teach the material to them. this will help you mentally work through the material and will help you remember it as well.
how to feel prettier, some visual interest tips, a beauty handbook and how to glow up without doing something big/extra, little habits and things that u can incorporate into ur life to make u glow up without even thinking about it β¨ (constantly being updated)
double cleansing every morning and night for clean and sparkling skin
BODY GLITTER
exfoliate ur skin weekly (2-3x)Β
incorporate pretty words into ur vocabularyΒ
drinking enough water everyday to be healthy and beautifulΒ
sweet smelling body butters and body oils to moisturizeΒ
posture is important so sit straight and stand straightΒ
wear sunscreen on your face and body everyday bcuz spf is important
jewelry to decorate ur bodyΒ
carrying lipglosses and hand lotions and perfumes in ur bag for touch ups throughout the dayΒ
meditate, say ur affirmations and journal for a pretty mindΒ
for journaling, buy a cute journal and journal with scented glitter pens and stickersΒ
for visual interestΒ
glitter is very feminine, in makeup, clothing, nails, and on collarbones. when i wear glitter on my skin i feel like a fairyΒ β¨
jewelry makes u glitter (nose studs, stacked necklaces and stacked earrings, rings, belly piercings, and nail gems)Β
know what ur undertone is, since i have a warm undertone (gold>silver)Β
LONG is the way to go (long nails, lashes, hair, flowy dresses and tops and skirts)Β
for the sleek and shiny look (shiny and silky hair, glossy skin and lips)Β
glowing up subconsciously
prioritize sleep (sleep 8-10 hours a night)
drink at least 1L of water a day
eat a fruit or veggie with every meal to glow from the inside out
use coconut oil/castor oil on ur lashes and brows every night
facial massage everyday and practice mewing
move your body in a way that feels natural (for example, i go to a school where we have to walk a lot bcuz the campus is big so subconsciously i do LOTS of walking without even thinking of it)
if ur wearing ur hair up/in a protective style, use a hair mask
to look polished and put together
chapped lips are unacceptable, use an overnight lip mask and a hydrating chapstick throughout the day. if u notice ur lips just peeling in general, use an exfoliating scrub/brush ur lips with a toothbrush.
neat hair = a polished look
keep ur nails trimmed, filed, and polished and if u wanna do a little extra get them manicured
address skin concerns so that then you can get glossy skin
make sure all ur metals match and color coordinate
keep it simple
details make a difference
shape ur brows
whiten ur teeth + maintain good oral health
color coordinate
fixing posture
HELPFUL RESOURCES
how to smell dreamy - @flirtygirl-coterie
feminine archetypes - @prissygrlsorority
beauty binder - @prissygrlsorority
maintaining a clean and fresh appearance - by yours truly
makeup tutorial in pics - by yours truly
"your glowing" - by yours truly
I decided to keep track of my slices of life on here, maybe get some exposure of being seen and post a little peak of my journey of getting hotter. An accountability reminder to myself.
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feeling like a 2000's divaβ.ΰ³ΰΏ*:ο½₯π¦π
this post is inspired by movies likeΒ the house bunny,Β legally blonde, and all of the ICONIC 2000's movies that radiate major diva energy. if u wanna emulate, and EMBODY that same vibeβbold fashion, flawless beauty, and a carefree attitudeβthen keep reading cuz in this post we'll dive into that...π¬π
THE DIVA PLAYLIST ;
every 2000's diva had a personal soundtrack so make ur own! find music from the 2000's era that resonates with u and that u love. personally i feel like i mostly listen to 90's-2000's music anyways so i think im pretty well rounded in music of that era. some of my favorites on my diva playlist are...
α‘£π© beyonce, mariah carey, britney spears, christina aguilera, brandy, lee hiyori, destiny's child, and ciara
SHOPPING 2000'S "THE MUST HAVES" ;
π low rise jeans
π crop tops and baby tees
π rhinestone embellished accessories
π velour tracksuits
π belly chains
π denim skirts
π halter tops
π sunglasses
BEAUTY TRENDS WE CAN BRING BACK ;
the 2000's was such a great time for beauty and makeup and all things girly and glam! while watching the house bunny two things that captured my attention the most were the makeup and the outfits! the makeup in this movie had lots of...π¬π
π shimmery eyeshadows - layering a glittery iridescent shade across ur eyeshadow was a MUST
π frosty glossy lips - def one of my favorites, i loved the pale pink lipglosses and nude tones with thick lipgloss like YESS
more on the lips though, the dark lip liner with a lighter lipstick or gloss was the SIGNATURE of this time and i am just THRILLED to see it making a resurgence nowadays cuz it eats...π¬π
π glossy sleek hair - glossy sleek hair is something i saw a lot of pop stairs from this era doing but in this movie in particular they went with the bombshell hair (big bouncy curls) which i LOVED
π clumpy mascara - layered on mascara for more volume
CONFIDENCE AND CAREFREE ATTITUDE ;
another thing that i love from this era was how carefree and confident all these diva's were. it was all about being uniquely yourself and not shoving urself into a box. embracing ur own individually CONFIDENTLY and fashionably.
π stop seeking validation from external sources - no one else's opinion on you matters except ur own, okay?
π have fun - dont take things so seriously, a carefree happy attitude is SO contagious. surround urself with people who uplift you and dont be afraid to put urself out there.
π stay up to date with trends that speak to u - know whats hot and whats not, it'll help u to be more confident when ur up to date with thats going on and what resonates with u.
something else that can improve ur confidence is taking care of urself! when u know that u spend time with yourself and pampering urself NO one can tell u shit cuz you know you're taken care of...π¬π
STAYING FABULOUS ;
π baths are for the divas! - bubble baths always make me feel so luxurious and pampered. i feel like an absolute princess when im relaxing in a bath.
π manicures and pedicures - CHUNKY FRENCH TIPS.
π take good care of ur hair - love ur hair and take good care of it so that it will love u back and look amazing and you'll feel good! keep your hair healthy and shiny with regular deep-conditioning treatments, and embrace whatever style makes you feel like a star
Hi can you make an elle woods study guide for me?
βwhat, like itβs hard?β
cute stationary
invest in pretty notebooks, pens, highlighters, etc.! youβll feel much more motivated to study and be productive when youβre surrounded by color and pretty things.
get some movement in while you work
elle reads and studies on the treadmill. if this is not accessible to you, you can go for a walk and listen to a podcast/video/audiobook on the topic you are studying or even fit workout sessions into your study breaks.
dress well, test well
elle always presented herself well in class. do your makeup and hair and wear an outfit that makes you feel confident and put together. if you look good and feel good, you will immediately boost your confidence, which will bring you into a better mindset for your study session, lecture, or exam.
rest when you need it
while itβs important to push yourself at times, there are also times where your brain needs to rest and absorb the information youβve just studied. take time to do yoga, bake, sit outside, or whatever you feel like you need to rejuvenate and keep going.
stay true to yourself
elle is the perfect example of staying true to yourself even when youβre looked down on or belittled for it. you can be yourself and do whatever you want to do. you donβt have to stop expressing yourself in order to be intelligent, professional, and respected. if anyone ever tells you different or expects you to change yourself to βfitβ your career, all you have to do is prove them wrong.
stop looking at other girls as competition
your only competition is yourself! there will always be people you believe to be smarter than you, have more opportunities than you, or be more gifted than you. if you are constantly thinking badly of yourself or comparing yourself to others, you will lose sight of your own gifts and your goals. stop worrying about everyone else and focus on you.
remind yourself of your βwhy?β
itβs easy to lose sight of your goals and your reason to keep going when youβre tired or doubting yourself, so always remind yourself why youβre doing this. who are you doing this for? why study this subject specifically? who do you want to be? what do you want your life to look like in 20 years?β
Keys
Wallet/cardholder (ID[s], credit/debit cards, spare cash β enough for an emergency cab/train ticket, a bottle of water, and a cheap snack plus a little extra is my formula)
Phone/phone charger
Airpods/headphones
Mini sunscreen
Hand lotion
Floss picks in a travel floss dispenser
Mini disposable toothbrushes
Breath mints
Portable stain remover wipes
Hand sanitizer
Lip balm/your everyday lip color
Eyeliner
Brow pencil
Power foundation
Contour/blush stick
Oil blotting sheets
Roll-on perfume
Hair ties
Foldable mini hair brush
Feminine hygiene wipes
Panty liners/pads/tampons
Travel case bandaids
Condoms (not in a wallet, please)
A pen or two
Portable sticky notes
Travel pack of tissues
Spare glasses/contacts & contact solution
Sunglasses
OTC pain relief medicine
Water bottle
Non-perishable snacks (I recommend Larabars, Lupini beans/roasted chickpeas/edamame, roasted nuts/trail mix snack packs, Lupii/Raw Rev vegan protein bars, and freeze-dried fruit)
Keys
Wallet/cardholder (ID[s], credit/debit cards, spare cash β enough for an emergency cab/train ticket, a bottle of water, and a cheap snack plus a little extra is my formula)
Phone/portable phone charger
Mini sunscreen
Hand lotion
Floss picks in a travel floss dispenser
Mini disposable toothbrushes
Breath mints
Portable stain remover wipes
Hand sanitizer
Lip balm/your everyday lip color
Eyeliner
Brow pencil
Mini power foundation
Roll-on perfume
Hair ties
Foldable mini hair brush
Feminine hygiene wipes
Panty liner (and maybe a pad/tampon, depending on the time of the month)
Portable makeup remover wipe (or two)
Portable cleansing towelette (or two)
Travel case bandaids
Condoms (at least two βΒ not in a wallet, please)
Disposable foot socks
OTC pain relief medicine
Vitamin B-complex, Vitamin C, and Vitamin D supplement (one of each β for after or the morning after drinking)
Necessary Edit: This list is meant to be a comprehensive guide, designed to be personalized. If you don't think you need some of these items, [pick and choose at your discretion].