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The most important validation you receive, will always be your own.
Arthur Fleck <3 Joker (2019)
Hello! I have a lot of some for solo dates outside home, but I don’t have many solo dates ideas to do at home. Can you share some ideas for both options, please? Thank you 🩵
Solo dates outside of home:
Sitting in a park/on an outdoor bench with music + a coffee and/or a book
Going for a solo coffee or drink date (bring a book if you want)
Getting your nails done
Getting a massage
Taking a long walk
Going to the movies/live music show alone
Go window shopping
Take a tennis or other solo sports class
Go to a ballet, concert, etc.
Attend a jewelry-making, candle-making, perfume-making, mixology class
Solo dates at home:
Have a "spa" night with a full exfoliating shower, face mask, etc.
Have an at-home movie night
Bake or make your favorite meal with a great playlist in the background
Read a book in a relaxing bath
Draw, write, read, or create something that brings you joy
Take a virtual cooking, mixology, dance, or language class
Have a dance party in your room
Sleep in with zero alarms or responsibilities for the next 24 hours
Hope this helps xx
Little post for babies that I'm making rn cus why not its night im sleepy and I dont want to sleep.
STOP DEMONIZING FRIDAY THE 13TH 😔
(and extra observation I found)
Friday the 13th has been demonized for years and I'm gonna just tell y'all. STOPPPRR 😭
So as we all know, divine feminine been demonized for years itself. She is dark. She is unknown. She is path to the world that can't be seen. She is mysterious. She holds the utmost power to manifestation. She is cant be touched or obtained. She can be channelized. She is the creator. She is represented by darkness. The "Dark energy".
Kind of reminds you of something?
If you are an astronomy freak like me, you must've heard about the "Dark Energy" that has all the scientists scratching their heads and they still can't get the hold of it?. Well the DARK ENERGY covers 90% of our universe and is responsible for the expansion of it. And guess what, we humans dont even know what it is yet.
Isn't that amazing how spirituality and science overlap at times?
Anyways.
Friday the 13th back in the days was celebrated as the birth of Divine Feminine. The goddess energy. Why friday? Because its ruled by Venus. And why 13th? Number 13 is portal of life and death. Kinda womb energy right there. It's a transformative number of ending and creation. For example if you want to release soemthing off your life. Work with number 13 and you'll release. And ofc in today's society it's the God. Instead of Goddeses that once were celebrated.
No wonder the day got demonized along with every other practices in the world that empowered women to be in their true powerful sence of feminity and element.
Kaali the representation of divine feminine herself, who rules death, transformation and time truly represents and embodys what I just explained right about now. If you want to understand fierce side of divine feminine in general. It may clear your understanding as well towards the real feminity instead of how its shown in media. The submissiveness and too polite for her own good. The toxic representation of it.
Also a weird observation, people born on friday the 13th would surreally carry this goddess energy to them, doesn't matter the gender. They may also embody feminine traits to them. unexplainable. But it is there.
Example> Park Jimin.
This post was highly inspired by ITSBABYJ's video. In a way I've literlaly summarized what she has said in there so please have a look at it to know more in depth!
Rose McGowan, Neve Campbell, Courteney Cox and Matthew Lillard at the 1997 MTV Movie Awards ✨
THE SIREN
→ The Siren’s charm is easy-flowing like water. Her seduction is like a irresistible song that just oozes out of her. She knows she is valuable and therefore attracts success like a magnet.
Her presence is so sensual and palpable that she is certain to attract both admirers and jealously, but gossip goes in one ear and out the other because she doesn’t need anyone’s approval. She stands firm in who she is and is confident in her own beauty, femininity and abilities. She vibrates so high that the shame and guilt others try to subject her to is invisible and no where on her radar.
Instead she indulges in a succulent lifestyle, allowing herself to enjoy all her pleasures with gratefulness and worthiness. She's remains in a relaxed and in a steady lane of her own. There's is no need for her to rush, worry or compete with others. She knows that when the time is ripe, what is meant for her will come.
She commands her desires and lives life as a winner, celebrating beauty in every moment. She manifests knowing she already has the desired result. Even before the happening she knows she’s already won. ©HONEYSIREN
ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍᴇ ꜱɪʀᴇɴꜱ. ᴛʜɪꜱ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ ɪꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴇɴᴛᴇʀᴛᴀɪɴᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴜʀᴘᴏꜱᴇꜱ ᴏɴʟʏ, ʙᴀꜱᴇᴅ ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴏᴡɴʟᴏᴀᴅꜱ ɪ ʀᴇᴄᴇɪᴠᴇ. ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴀᴛᴛᴀᴄᴋ ᴍᴇ ɪꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴇꜱꜱᴀɢᴇ ᴅᴏᴇꜱɴ'ᴛ ʀᴇꜱᴏɴᴀᴛᴇ. ᴋᴇᴇᴘ ɪɴ ᴍɪɴᴅ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜɪꜱ ɪꜱ ᴀ ᴄᴏʟʟᴇᴄᴛɪᴠᴇ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ, ɴᴏᴛ ᴀɴ ɪɴᴅɪᴠɪᴅᴜᴀʟ ᴏɴᴇ, ꜱᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡɪʟʟ ʀᴇꜱᴏɴᴀᴛᴇ. ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʙᴇɪɴɢ ꜱᴀɪᴅ, ᴇɴᴊᴏʏ!
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ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪꜱ ᴠᴇʀʏ ɪɴᴛᴇɴꜱᴇ. ᴛʜᴇ ᴇɴᴇʀɢʏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴇxᴜᴅᴇ ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ᴘᴏᴘꜱ ᴏᴜᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴀᴘᴛɪᴠᴀᴛᴇꜱ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴀᴜʀᴀ ᴍᴀʏ ʙᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴏʀꜰᴜʟ ᴏʀ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴡᴇᴀʀɪɴɢ ᴄᴏʟᴏʀꜰᴜʟ ᴀᴘᴘᴀʀᴇʟ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘʜʏꜱɪQᴜᴇ ɪꜱ ɪᴍᴍᴇɴꜱᴇʟʏ ᴀᴛᴛʀᴀᴄᴛɪᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴏꜱᴛ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴠɪꜱᴜᴀʟɪᴢᴇ ʏᴏᴜʀꜱᴇʟꜰ ɪɴ ᴀ ʜɪɢʜ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴘᴇᴀᴋ ᴍɪʀʀᴏʀꜱ ᴛʜɪꜱ. ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ꜱᴜᴄᴄᴇꜱꜱꜰᴜʟ. ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴡᴀɴᴛ. ʏᴏᴜ ɢᴇᴛ ᴘʀᴀɪꜱᴇᴅ ʙʏ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ ᴀ ʟᴏᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴀʀɴᴇʀ ᴍᴀɴʏ ᴄᴏᴍᴘʟɪᴍᴇɴᴛꜱ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴍᴀʏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ᴠᴀꜱᴛ ᴠᴀʀɪᴇᴛʏ ᴏꜰ ɪɴᴛᴇʀᴇꜱᴛ, ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛᴀʟᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴡʜɪᴄʜ ʙʀɪɴɢꜱ ʏᴏᴜ ᴘʟᴇɴᴛɪꜰᴜʟ ꜱᴜɪᴛᴏʀꜱ, ʙᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ʀᴇᴍᴀɪɴ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ. ʏᴏᴜ ʀᴇᴄᴇɪᴠᴇ ᴀ ɢʀᴇᴀᴛ ᴅᴇᴀʟ ᴏꜰ ᴀᴛᴛᴇɴᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘʀᴀɪꜱᴇ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪꜱ ᴘʀᴏᴛᴇᴄᴛɪᴠᴇ ʙᴏᴛʜ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜰᴀᴍɪʟʏ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴꜱ. ᴀʟᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜ ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴀ ʀᴇʙᴇʟ, ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴇxʏ, ʏᴏᴜ ᴏɴʟʏ ᴏᴘᴇɴ ᴜᴘ ᴛʀᴜʟʏ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴏꜱᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴛʀᴜꜱᴛ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴛʀᴜꜱᴛᴇᴅ ᴄᴏᴍᴘᴀɴɪᴏɴꜱ ꜱᴇᴇ ʜᴏᴡ ᴘᴀꜱꜱɪᴏɴᴀᴛᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪᴅᴇᴀꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴜɴɪQᴜᴇ ᴘᴇʀꜱᴘᴇᴄᴛɪᴠᴇꜱ.
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ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴꜱᴇ ɪꜱ ᴡɪᴛᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛᴇᴀꜱɪɴɢ. ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴋɴᴏᴡɴ ꜰᴏʀ ʜᴀᴠɪɴɢ ᴀ ꜱʜᴀʀᴘ ᴛᴏɴɢᴜᴇ ᴏʀ ɴᴏ ꜰɪʟᴛᴇʀ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ʜᴜʀᴛ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇꜱ ꜰᴇᴇʟɪɴɢꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴇꜱᴛʀᴏʏ ᴇɢᴏꜱ ʟɪᴋᴇ ɪᴛ’ꜱ ɴᴏ ᴛᴏᴍᴏʀʀᴏᴡ. ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ɪɴᴛɪᴍɪᴅᴀᴛᴇᴅ ʙʏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪɴᴛᴇʟʟɪɢᴇɴᴄᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴡɪᴛᴛɪɴᴇꜱꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴛʜᴇʏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴄᴀʀᴇꜰᴜʟ ᴏꜰ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇʏ ꜱᴀʏ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜ. ɪꜰ ɴᴏᴛ, ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ɴᴏ ᴘʀᴏʙʟᴇᴍ ꜱʜᴏᴡɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴅɪꜱᴀᴘᴘᴏɪɴᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ. ɪ’ᴍ ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇ ᴠɪʙᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴀ ʟᴀᴡʏᴇʀ, ᴊᴜᴅɢᴇ ᴏʀ ᴘᴏʟɪᴛɪᴄɪᴀɴ. ᴛʜᴇʏ ꜱᴇᴇ ᴛʜʀᴏᴜɢʜ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇꜱ ʙꜱ, ꜱᴛᴀᴛᴇ ᴛʜᴇ ꜰᴀᴄᴛꜱ ᴡɪᴛʜ ɴᴏ ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴀɪᴍ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛʜᴇ ʜᴇᴀʀᴛ ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴄʜᴀʟʟᴇɴɢᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴅᴏᴡɴ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴍᴀʏ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴜɴᴅᴇʀꜱᴛᴏʀᴍꜱ, ɢʟᴏᴏᴍʏ ᴡᴇᴀᴛʜᴇʀ ᴏʀ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ᴅᴀʀᴋ ʟᴏᴏᴋ/ᴀᴇꜱᴛʜᴇᴛɪᴄ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ ᴛᴇʟʟɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛᴏ ᴅᴏ. ʏᴏᴜ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ʟᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ. ᴀɴ ᴀʟᴘʜᴀ ꜰᴇᴍᴀʟᴇ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʟᴇ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴘʀᴇꜰᴇʀ ᴘʟᴀɴɴɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇᴠᴇɴᴛꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴀᴛᴇꜱ. ɪ’ᴍ ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ʀᴏᴄᴋꜱᴛᴀʀ ᴠɪʙᴇꜱ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴇɴᴊᴏʏ ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ᴛʜʀɪʟʟ. ɢᴏᴛʜꜱ. ʜᴏʀʀᴏʀ ʟᴏᴠᴇʀꜱ. ʜᴀʟʟᴏᴡᴇᴇɴ ᴏʙꜱᴇꜱꜱᴇᴅ. ᴀᴍᴜꜱᴇᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴀʀᴋꜱ. ꜰᴀꜱᴛ ᴄᴀʀꜱ. ᴄᴏɴᴄᴇʀᴛꜱ. ʟᴏᴜᴅ ᴍᴜꜱɪᴄ. ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴛʀɪᴠᴇ ꜰᴏʀ ꜰᴜʟꜰɪʟʟɪɴɢ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀꜱʜɪᴘꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱʜɪᴘꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴏᴠᴇꜱ ᴄᴇʟᴇʙʀᴀᴛɪɴɢ ᴡɪᴛʜ ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ꜰᴀᴍɪʟʏ.
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ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪꜱ Qᴜɪᴇᴛ, ᴘᴀᴛɪᴇɴᴛ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍʏꜱᴛᴇʀɪᴏᴜꜱ. ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴏʟᴅ ᴀ ʟᴏᴛ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴜɴᴛɪʟ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ꜰᴜʟʟʏ ᴛʀᴜꜱᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴇʀꜱᴏɴ ᴏʀ ꜱɪᴛᴜᴀᴛɪᴏɴ. ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴘᴏᴡᴇʀ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ ᴍɪɴᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴄᴀʀᴇꜰᴜʟ ᴏꜰ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴀʏ ᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪᴛ ᴄᴏᴜʟᴅ ᴍᴀɴɪꜰᴇꜱᴛ. ʏᴏᴜ’ʀᴇ ᴀ ᴏʙꜱᴇʀᴠᴇʀ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪꜱ ɴᴀᴛᴜʀᴀʟʟʏ ꜱᴀᴛɪꜱꜰɪᴇᴅ ᴏɴ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪꜱ ꜱᴛʀɪᴋɪɴɢ, ᴇᴠᴇɴ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ꜱᴀʏ ᴏʀ ᴅᴏ ᴛᴏᴏ ᴍᴜᴄʜ. ʏᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀ ʀɪᴄʜ ɪɴɴᴇʀ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ɪᴛ ꜱʜᴏᴡꜱ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ ʏᴏᴜ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴛ ʏᴏᴜʀꜱᴇʟꜰ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ʀᴀᴅɪᴀɴᴛ ʀᴏʏᴀʟᴛʏ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴍᴀʏ ʙᴇ ᴀɴ ᴀʀᴛɪꜱᴛ/ᴄʀᴇᴀᴛɪᴠᴇ. ɪ’ᴍ ɢᴇᴛᴛɪɴɢ ᴀ ʜᴏᴍᴇʙᴏᴅʏ ᴏʀ ᴀ ʟᴏᴡ-ᴋᴇʏ ᴘᴇʀꜱᴏɴ. ᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ꜱᴇɴꜱᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴇᴍᴏᴛɪᴏɴᴀʟʟʏ ᴄᴏʟᴅ ᴅᴜᴇ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴛᴏɪᴄ ᴅᴇᴍᴇᴀɴᴏʀ. ʏᴏᴜ ꜱᴇᴇᴍ ᴠᴇʀʏ ɪɴᴛᴇʟʟɪɢᴇɴᴛ, ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʀᴇᴀᴅ, ʟᴇᴀʀɴ ᴏʀ ʙᴇ ᴍᴇɴᴛᴀʟʟʏ ꜱᴛɪᴍᴜʟᴀᴛᴇᴅ. ᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ ᴀʀᴇ ᴍᴀɢɴᴇᴛɪᴄᴀʟʟʏ ᴅʀᴀᴡɴ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜ ʙᴜᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ɢɪᴠᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ᴄᴏʟᴅ ꜱʜᴏᴜʟᴅᴇʀ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ᴍᴇᴀɴɪɴɢꜰᴜʟ ᴄᴏɴɴᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ. ʏᴏᴜ ɢᴇᴛ ʙᴏʀᴇᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ᴀɴɴᴏʏᴇᴅ ᴡɪᴛʜ ꜱᴜᴘᴇʀꜰɪᴄɪᴀʟ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ. ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ᴊᴜᴅɢᴇᴅ ᴀʀᴏᴜɴᴅ ʏᴏᴜ, ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ᴡᴀɴɴᴀ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ᴍɪꜱᴛᴀᴋᴇ. ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴄᴇ ᴍᴀᴋᴇꜱ ᴛʜᴇᴍ ꜱᴛʀᴀɪɢʜᴛᴇɴ ᴜᴘ. ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ᴄᴏɴɴᴇᴄᴛᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ɪɴɴᴇʀ ᴄʜɪʟᴅ ᴀɴᴅ ꜱᴛɪʟʟ ᴅᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛʜɪɴɢꜱ ʏᴏᴜ ᴅɪᴅ ᴀꜱ ᴄʜɪʟᴅ, ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜ ᴄᴀʀᴛᴏᴏɴꜱ, ᴘᴀɪɴᴛ, ʀɪᴅᴇ ʙɪᴋᴇꜱ, ᴏʀ ɢᴏ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴀʀᴄᴀᴅᴇ. (ꜱᴏᴍᴇ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜ ʙᴏʀɴ ᴏɴ ᴡᴀɴɪɴɢ ᴄʀᴇꜱᴄᴇɴᴛ ᴍᴏᴏɴ ᴘʜᴀꜱᴇ.)
Imagine who you could be if only you had the audacity.
If you didn’t care about looking stupid. If you weren’t afraid of making mistakes. If you didn’t put other people’s judgements before your own. If you didn’t neglect your responsibilities. If you didn’t procrastinate. If you didn’t let the toxic voice win. If you didn’t overthink everything. If you didn’t fear your own power.
Imagine that you have the audacity.
That you take bold actions. That you take accountability for yourself. That you unapologetically show your creativity to the world. That you ignore the naysayers. That you remain unbothered. The you allow yourself to be seen. That you embrace all that you are. That you speak your truth. That you allow yourself to make mistakes and learn from them, then become a winner. That you speak highly to yourself. That you begin your journey right now.
Don’t block yourself from being your greatest.
H.S.
1. ᴍᴀꜱᴛᴇʀʙᴀᴛᴇ. give yourself permission to feel pleasure. it release stress from your body.
2. get naked. dance naked. sleep naked. look at you body in the mirror. soak in a bath. moisturize your skin. get a massage.
3. tell people no. if it’s not a hell yes, don’t waste your time. you have free will to do as you please. you are not a slave.
4. have pride in yourself and your achievements. set goals. accept compliments. own your confidence. shine.
5. flirt. it’s fun.
6. do shadow work. at the end of your day, take time to reflect on your mistakes and write down ways to make progress. this helps you understand your fears and guilts. journal. introspection.
7. don’t go along with anything that feels wrong to you. be assertive and don’t be afraid to cut someone off or cause a scene when your boundaries are crossed.
8. work your brain. do puzzles. reads books. learn about seduction. develop a skill. take time to daydream. visually manifest.
9. be daring. wear a sexy outfit or bold makeup look. show cleavage. follow your dreams. break routine. speak your mind. shock the people around you and ignore their judgements.
10. release timidity. stop overly apologizing, stuttering and overthinking. say exactly what you mean. feel exactly how you feel. banish all forms of guilt and shame.
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Ava Gardner by Clarence Sinclair Bull, 1944
"The only kind of makeup she uses is lipstick, and she’s a big perfume addict. Perfume goes behind her ears, on her hair, at the nape of her neck, and in the crook of her elbows. Some days, she changes her perfume two or three times, to fit her moods. She likes “Joy,” “Blue Hour,’ and’ “Mitsouko.” Before a big date, she takes a bubble bath—Elizabeth Arden, usually—but her housecoat is tailored, coolie-style, and she owns only two strapless formals. They’re both black, and she wears them when she has to appear at publicity functions, premieres and so forth."
-Modern Screen magazine, July 1948
PAMELA ANDERSON Barb Wire, 1996
by David LaChapelle
Pamela Anderson at Cannes (1995)
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Rose McGowan, 1998
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Rose McGowan, 1998
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Vaseline- Marilyn used Vaseline head to toe before getting into a hot bath in the mornings for smooth and skin.
Red Lips- Monroe would use 5 different lip hues. Darker reds on the outer lips, lighter hues on the inside, This would create an incredible dimension
Ice baths- She had ice baths to keep her skin tight and firm
Chanel n.o5 - Marilyn famously said she wore 5 drops of chanel n.o5 perfume to bed and nothing else.
Peach fuzz-Marilyn refused to remove hair on her face, saying that when the light hit the facial hair it would cause her face to have a soft glow creating an almost blur effect.
Erno Laszlo products- Dr Laszlo treated Monroes skin throughout her career, Her evening routine consisted with an oil cleanse- Erno Laszlo active phelityl oil and the active phelityl cream and she washed it off. She then finished with the controlling lotion product.
3 eye liners- For her upper lid she used black liner, brown liner for her lower lash and white on her water line for an illusion.
Sleep- Marilyn took 5-10 hours of sleep a night. Particularly on Sunday where she'd stay in bed for 2 hours in the morning ''luxuriating in every last moment of drowsiness''
Blush as contour- She would use blush to define her face shape and sculpt her cheekbones adding blush on the tips on her nose aswell.
Cold Creams- She was a fan of cold creams including the classic Ponds , Nivea and Elizabeth Ardens eight hour cream.
Hair colour- Marilyn was a natural redhead but she kept bleaching her hair ''pillowcase white'' for the rest of her career every three weeks and used baby powder on her roots as dry shampoo every 2 days.
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Hey folks, as you're exploring your various paths of spirituality and magic, it's important that you're mentally prepared to find out that you're really, really wrong about something somewhere down the the line. You might discover that a practice you take for granted is appropriative and misrepresented from its original form and intent. You might find out that something you thought was real history was actually made up by somebody fairly recently. You might find out you've been subscribing to an idea that has its origins in a hate movement.
It's not a matter of if this kind of thing will happen, but when. Even if you're doing your very best to research reliable sources as exhaustively as you possibly can, you can be certain that somewhere along the way, you'll absorb something like this. No one is immune. This won't make you a bad person. It's not like you misinformed yourself on purpose, much less went out there with the intention of harming someone or misrepresenting their practices. It's not like the people giving you bad information told you "hey, guess what, I'm a hateful shithead and I'm lying to you." You just didn't know, that's all. Nobody can know everything, not even the most well-read scholars. While being wrong isn't good, it's also not a moral failing. What's important is that you acknowledge that you were wrong, and accept this as an opportunity to learn and grow. It's the most anyone can do, and if someone tries to make you feel bad about being wrong in the first place, don't listen to them. (Being right doesn't inherently make someone morally superior!)
Ultimately, what's really going to speak to your moral character is your ability to admit that you've fucked up and your willingness to do better. You will fuck up one day, so have a healthy plan in mind for dealing with that.