People will replace you within days. Don't get attached and don't take it personally. Learn to be your own best friend in this temporary world.
things that are not selfish:
prioritizing your mental health
saying no
calling in sick to work or school (even if you’re not physically sick)
limiting contact with someone when their issues are affecting your happiness negatively
cutting off toxic people
declining help
setting boundaries for yourself
not immediately responding to texts/calls/emails
ending a friendship or relationship even though the other person “hasn’t done anything wrong”
not donating any money
complimenting and being proud of yourself
treating yourself
Tumblr is my favourite social media site because this place is literally uninhabitable for celebrities. No verification system, no algorithm that boosts their posts, it’s a completely lawless wasteland for them
The amount of people I’ve met who talk shit to me about someone behind their back and then pretend to care about them later on this is why I don’t fuck with most people
“i know exactly who i want to be. i’ve shaped this ideal person in my head, from the color she paints her nails in winter, to the silk pajamas she wears to bed. i think about her when i mess up, when things don’t go my way. how she would laugh away the stress and know exactly what to say. she is the version of me that i most want to be. so happy and kind and always carefree. i’ve tried so hard to be this perfect girl, that i’ve forgotten how to be me.”
— the perfect girl in my head
I don't think I am easy to define. I have wandering mind and I am not anything that you think I am | 🇵🇭 |
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