please don’t tell people “wow you lost weight you look great!” especially when you don’t really know WHY they lost weight. this fucking makes you want to die if you have an eating disorder—it implies that you losing weight is necessary to look good in other people’s eyes, so you start obsessing about your weight more. it happened to me when I lost weight coming off antipsychotics which made me gain a lot of weight. I was anorexic as a child so you can imagine how compliments over losing weight affect me. there are a lot of reasons people lose or gain weight. complimenting someone on gaining weight isn’t a good idea either, because again, you can’t truly know whether or not the person is confident about that. sometimes people with eating disorders will pretend they enjoy reaching a more healthy weight after being underweight while secretly wanting to restrict. so what compliments should you give on someone’s body image, including people with eating disorders gaining weight? something like “you look really pretty and vibrant”. that’s not all obviously, just what came to my head. personally if someone told me I didn’t look sick I’d take it positively.
My brain: alright, you wanna write a story, so you’ll need an idea
Me: okay, I’ve made a Pinterest board of aesthetics, put together multiple playlists, designed the book cover, decided who would play who in the movie, planned every shot of said movie’s trailer, choreographed epic fight scenes with no context, picked all the characters’ Hogwarts houses, made memes about it that no one will understand, drawn a giant family tree of relatives who aren’t even in it, come up with random references I could make, and spent hours wondering what weird theories fans would come up with.
My brain: that’s cool but what about the plot
Me: what’s a plot
“Okay, so I’m in love with you. So I’m holding onto the idea you’ll ever feel the same way even though it’s physically impossible. So I’d do anything to make sure you’re safe and happy. Is that… Really a bad thing?”
Host: alright gang this is going to be an epic showdown! We invited two men into the station who both think they’re going on a date with the same girl! Let’s see how this turns out!
Host: oh..
Host: Well apparently they’re making out at this very moment…
Host: well this took a surprising turn
it’s okay if you lack the motivation or time to do something, or you’ve hit a creative block - try your best to not get frustrated and do something small that you enjoy to occupy or refresh your mind for a moment
Can you see something wrong? No? Me neither
artists & writers be like
he’s not used to have his feelings reciprocated
THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVE ANIME SCENES
After Sasuke and Naruto fight and get knocked out, they both think theyre dead. And Naruto is sad because he promised Tsunade he’d become Hokage before he dies
but sasuke doesnt seem to care about his own death. All he cares about is naruto’s reaction, watching and listening to naruto intently
And he looks to the Hokage mountain, surprised, as he hears naruto lamenting about not becoming hokage. Perhaps he regrets taking naruto’s dream from him
Then Naruto remembers and freaks out about the Infinite Tsukuyomi
And sasuke smiles at naruto’s kindness, how even in death he cares about the world. Even in death naruto makes sasuke smile
Sasuke calms down Naruto by telling him Kakashi and Sakura are still there to take care of the world. The scene really makes you realize sasuke never felt any ties to the world. Hes not gonna see his teammates again or anyone else in the world and he doesnt care. The only thing he looks back on is how the world mistreated him and Naruto. Theres no expression of sadness for letting go of the world, unlike naruto.
Sasuke finally shows emotion when naruto’s arm begins to hurt, looking concerned
and then he freaks out as naruto suddenly disappears
anyway the only person left in the world that sasuke truly loved and cared about was naruto so if hes with naruto in death, he’s fine.
tbh the worst thing about being a self aware mentally ill person is that people assume that because you understand your illness you’re automatically able to actually apply your knowledge to your life and cure yourself
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