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when healing from a person.. you will have thoughts like “I loved them more than I loved anyone, I never knew I could love someone so much, I’ll never love someone that much again..”

It is important to realize that your ability to love that person didn’t come from them, it came from within you. You were always a lover, already someone who could love deeply. Just because they are gone doesn’t mean that goes away. They didn’t give you the capacity to love, they just gave you a place to express it. Don’t give someone else the credit for how hard you could love, that was you and it still is.

You don’t realise how bad some people’s vibes are until they’re not around and you feel free

Alot of people waste their time trying to figure out what they would be good at. trying to figure out what will make them rich. They want to start a business, but they don’t know what to do. The truth is, that trying to figure out what to do is not even part of the process. If anything, its the fuel you need to even start it. You don’t have to venture out to far to figure out what to do with your life. We take for granted who we are, and what we are already capable of doing. What you should do with your life, the thing you need to figure out how to monetize lies within your hobbies, the things you do every day. The things you talk about. Habit makes us take things for granted. You know alot more about one particular thing than the person next to you. ITS REALLY THAT SIMPLE. Don’t take yourself for granted. 

First things first. Figure out what you like to do, hobbies. Figure out what people need, in terms of that specific category. Finally, find out what it is you are good at, and perfect it. 

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Reminiscing on the past over & over is preventing you from actually learning the lessons it is supposed to teach you & that's why you're not moving forward entirely, it's because there are things you haven't dealt with or haven't started healing from. It seems like your parents didn't raise you the way you wished they would, so it's time for you to reparent yourself.

You can't keep on hoping for others to see your pain, you can't ask them to be who you want them to be, you can accept them as they are or if you can't because they are not helping you feel safe, you can still leave (easier said than done) but be careful of the way you're expressing yourself, the way you "communicate", try to respond instead of reacting, some don't even deserve a reaction from you, why are you even wasting your time on them ?

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i wanna be here.

I need to mute my mind